05 / The Advice Library
2,229 pieces
of advice.
Everything the show’s hosts and guests actually advised, across 1,022 episodes — attributed, and linked to the moment it was said.
How should I build a habit that actually sticks?
Use small, specific anchors/triggers rather than relying on willpower or motivation alone — e.g., doing 10 push-ups before leaving the house — because motivation-based approaches tend to fail according to habit science.
Should I only do my habit (like going to the gym) at one specific time of day?
Don't tie a habit's success to a single rigid time slot (like mornings only); if you truly want to get something done, you can do it at another point in the day, and using 'I can only do it in the morning' as an excuse undermines long-term consistency.
What should I do if a habit doesn't stick?
Don't treat failure to stick with a habit as a personal flaw or identity ('lazy'); instead focus on the process and recognise that trying and failing still teaches you something useful for what's next.
Is it worth switching from NBN/fixed broadband to 5G home internet?
Switching from a $330/month fixed broadband plan (Lightning Broadband) to a $90/month unlimited 5G plan with Optus can massively cut costs while still delivering solid speeds (around 229 Mbps down, 45 Mbps up), plus it can bundle in a Fetch TV box.
How can you simplify decision-making around habits like drinking?
Removing an option entirely (e.g., not drinking at all) eliminates the need to weigh choices in the moment, reducing the number of things you have to think about.
What distinguishes a good book from a great book?
George shares his stepdad's framing: a good book teaches you something about the world, while a great book teaches you something about yourself, and most great books are fiction.
What's the best way to actually get started with a podcast?
Just start — you don't need to be ready, and whatever you put out on day one won't resemble what you're doing 100 episodes later; it's a journey, and people might not listen at first.
Do I need to aim to become 'the next Joe Rogan' to justify starting a podcast?
No — most people won't become Joe Rogan, and that's fine; everyone is on their own trip, and even Rogan's show became something he didn't originally expect because he pushed through early, harder technical constraints.
How do you handle having a bad or low-energy day when you have client or professional obligations?
Draw a line between what you share with close confidants (partner, close friends) versus clients—maintain integrity and consistency in client relationships even if you don't feel 'authentic' in the moment, and if necessary reschedule meetings rather than bringing an off day into paid work.
How should creators respond to harsh anonymous reviews?
Recognize that a negative review from someone claiming to be a long-time fan without ever leaving positive feedback says more about the reviewer's own negative wiring than about the content; don't let it carry undue weight.
How can you start a conversation with someone you're interested in?
Jess Lucas suggests that if a guy asks a woman for a lighter, it's actually a good opening for conversation, essentially framing carrying a lighter as a dating/conversation-starting trick.
How can you avoid analysis paralysis before a big podcast interview?
Prepare one simple, clear, easy first question (e.g., about the guest's book) to kick off the conversation and get the guest talking, rather than overloading yourself with too many planned questions.
Should you avoid a business partnership because you've heard partnerships end badly?
Don't let other people's bad partnership experiences stop you — go through the partnership anyway, because whatever happens (even losing money or ending in debt) is the version of the experience you need to go through to learn from it.
How should you think about the cost of shutting down a business or ending a long-running project?
Put short-term costs (like lease payouts) in perspective against the scale of the long-term investment you'd otherwise be making; don't let sunk-cost thinking or short-term pain prevent a decision that makes sense long-term.
How should you think about ambitious plans that don't work out (e.g., due to unforeseen events like COVID)?
Josh advises that just because an ambitious plan (like a studio with bleachers) didn't pan out due to circumstances doesn't mean you shouldn't have attempted it; the risk of 'the guillotine coming down' is part of doing meaningful things.
Should I write down my life or business plan?
Writing down goals/plans can be valuable, even if you don't look at them again for years — looking back later can reveal how much progress was actually made; the plan doesn't need to be a strict business document, it can be reflective questions about the kind of partner, parent or business partner you want to be.
What's the risk of not having focus in a business?
Spreading attention across too many pillars (podcasts, client video work, multiple shows) without clear focus leads to failure; identify your core strengths and commit resources there before expanding again.
Should you follow other successful people's exact business advice/hustle culture?
Josh argues that a 'story' that worked for one person (like Gary Vee's hustle-hustle-hustle approach) is toxic advice for many others, and that if you told someone to copy exactly what you did, it likely wouldn't work for them because everyone's context differs.
How should parents handle explaining death to young children?
Answer honestly based on what the child actually asks rather than relying on a scripted explanation, since no one truly knows what happens after death; let the child's questions guide how much detail to give.
How can someone figure out what they actually want from dating and relationships?
Stacey June advises 'wiping your slate clean' of inherited family and societal narratives about sex and relationships, then deliberately exploring your own life to discover what you actually want, rather than following scripts absorbed from media or upbringing.
How do you stay grounded while building something over a long period of time?
Try to stay present day-to-day rather than fixating on the future or idealizing the past, since memory of accomplishments fades quickly and negativity is louder than the good.
How can a birth partner best support someone in labour?
Be fully present, set a calm tone for everyone entering the room, use techniques like soft touch massage and pressure-point work, and avoid adding unnecessary stress since fear/adrenaline can slow labour.
How should you think about death to find peace rather than fear?
Tommy suggests engaging with teachings on mindfulness and presence (citing Ram Dass) rather than avoiding the topic, arguing that finding peace comes from being present in each moment rather than waiting for bucket-list achievements.
How should you prioritize your time to avoid regret later in life?
Tommy argues for living presently and communicating fully with loved ones now, rather than waiting until a terminal diagnosis to focus on legacy or connection, warning that waiting until the last six months would itself be a source of regret.
Is it appropriate to give a card to someone who was made redundant?
Jess Lucas suggests it's not typically appropriate to give cards for redundancy and that an official letter might be a nicer gesture instead.
Should businesses offer perks like gym memberships to staff?
Rather than dictating perks like gym memberships (which imply control over employees' personal choices), consider giving staff the equivalent cash value and letting them decide how to spend it, which better respects their autonomy.
What's the etiquette for escalating a prank war?
Tommy argues pranks work like 'compound interest' — a retaliatory prank needs to be bigger than the original to actually cancel it out, otherwise the score isn't settled.
What should you avoid giving a pregnant partner for a sore throat?
Avoid anaesthetic-based mouthwash/gargle products and throat lozenges, as the anaesthetic ingredient is not advised during pregnancy.
Should I quit my job to pursue my passion project?
Tommy says this kind of advice is inherently privileged and context-dependent; he discusses a real conversation where someone wanted to reduce hours to pursue a passion project, noting that generic advice like 'just quit' ignores individual financial runway and circumstances.
How much financial runway do I need before taking a risk on a business or passion project?
Tommy argues that standard startup advice (having months of savings/runway) isn't realistic for most people, and that this advice can become an excuse to avoid pursuing dreams; he notes he and Josh started their business with just $2,000 each and no computer.
What part of the body should you train to improve your golf swing?
Focus on leg and hip strength along with torso rotation and flexibility rather than arm strength, since power for golf (similar to boxing) comes from the legs, glutes, and hip rotation.
What can you try if you snore at night?
Try taping your mouth shut at night (using pharmacist-grade lip tape, not cheap eBay versions) to force nasal breathing, or use a chin/mouth strap or nasal insert stickers.
How do you cope with feeling burnt out or like you've disappointed people during a long-term project?
Accept that success isn't linear and that quick wins are often overvalued; view struggles over a long time horizon (e.g., a 10-year commitment) as still constituting a win, rather than measuring yourself against those who had quicker success.
How should you drink soft drinks to protect your teeth?
Don't sip acidic drinks like Coke, Pepsi Max or La Croix slowly throughout the day; drink them quickly or use a straw, since repeated sipping continually attacks tooth enamel.
How do I engage more critically with news instead of just skimming headlines?
Practice 'slow news' by researching the history and context behind a topic (e.g., Iran or the South China Sea) before forming an opinion, rather than reacting to headline-only 'sugar hit' media.
Should you wear underwear under running shorts that have a built-in liner?
Don't wear briefs under shorts with internal liners—'free ball' instead, since briefs clash with the liner's shape; treat the shorts like underwear and wash them frequently, especially if sweating during exercise.
How do you balance spicy Mexican dishes?
Pair hot chilli heat with cool ingredients like avocado, sour cream, or cheese to act as a 'fire blanket' against the spice.
How can you defuse potential teasing or criticism about yourself?
Make the joke about yourself first — Josh says that as a kid he was always the first to make the fat joke about himself, which disarms others because they can't use it as ammo against you.
Should I make personal videos even if I only own expensive filmmaking gear?
Tommy advises filmmakers who've spent $10,000–$15,000 on a camera but haven't made a personal video in over a year to 'take a look at yourself' and buy a cheap camcorder instead to lower the pressure and just start filming.
How do I get involved with Camcorder Club or get merch?
Josh suggests emailing hi@thedailytalkshow.com if interested in contributing as a filmmaker, and says the same email address will get you a secret link to buy Camcorder Club merch (hoodie, mug, t-shirt, stickers).
Should you put oil in an air fryer?
Josh insists a small amount of oil should be added for the air fryer to work properly, comparing skipping it to doing laundry without detergent.
How should parents handle disciplining a child in a public setting?
Josh suggests the key is being considerate of people around you and giving kids an upbringing where they know how to behave in public, while recognizing occasional misbehavior shouldn't stop you from taking them out; he also notes public discipline feels more fraught because of perceived judgment from onlookers.
How should you approach planning a big milestone event without excessive pressure?
Tommy suggests celebrating what's been built without 'burning down the house,' favoring ease and seamlessness over grinding or crazy pressure to make something work.
How can you tell if someone wants to talk about something they're not saying out loud?
Josh suggests that even without words, people unconsciously signal their emotional state through behavior (like being easily frustrated), and partners can learn to recognize these signals as a prompt to check in.
How can meditation help manage difficult emotions?
Use Sam Harris's approach via the Waking Up app of trying to dial back the intensity of a reactive emotion by roughly 30%, recognizing it as 'reaction thought' rather than an unchangeable response.
How can you reduce self-consciousness or negative spiraling thoughts?
Practice meditation regularly to build the habit of noticing when you're consumed by a thought spiral, then intentionally redirect attention to your breath and present bodily sensations rather than trying to stop thinking altogether.
How should you handle feeling burnt out while also supporting a team?
Tommy advises addressing your own burnout first ('put your mask on before you help other people') rather than only focusing on fixing others, since over-prioritising others can be a way of avoiding your own issues.
How do I enjoy doing mundane chores like the dishes instead of resenting them?
Bring full attention and presence to the task itself rather than mentally dwelling on other things you'd rather be doing; the resentment comes from being mentally elsewhere, not from the task itself.
How should you approach booking travel/accommodation when life circumstances might change?
Focus on controlling the controllables — book affordable accommodation in advance when prices are low, even if upcoming life changes (like a new baby) make timing feel uncertain.
What's a sound long-term investing strategy for beginners?
Rather than trying to time the market or bet on single companies, invest for the long term in index funds (such as one tracking top NASDAQ companies), following Warren Buffett's approach.
What's the key lesson for a long remote road trip like driving to the Twelve Apostles?
Plan out exactly where you'll refuel in advance rather than assuming a petrol station will appear — remote stretches can go much longer than expected without services.
How do you avoid overweight carry-on luggage fees at the airport?
If your carry-on bag has heavy equipment like camera gear, take it out and hold it while the bag is weighed, then put it back into the bag once you've cleared the weight check.
How do you get a young child to accept limited music choices on a long car trip?
Prime the child beforehand with a believable reason (e.g., the car was serviced and music options are limited) and offer a simple binary choice, such as 'Daddy's music or nothing,' so they feel in control while you still manage the actual music played.
How can a family create a music playlist that works for everyone on a road trip?
Hold a dedicated 'playlist organising' session where each family member shares their favorite tracks and the child picks favorites from each parent's selection, blending everyone's music into one rotating playlist.
How do you keep improving at golf as a beginner?
Don't try to hit the ball too hard ('hit the skin off it') as this ruins your shot; instead focus on technique over power, and use tracking tools like Toptracer and SwingU to understand distances and improve consistency.
How can I avoid overpaying for app subscriptions like YouTube Premium?
Check your phone's subscription settings (App Store > profile > Subscriptions) to see what you're subscribed to, and compare pricing — subscribing directly through a service's own site/app (e.g. YouTube) is often cheaper than subscribing via Apple's App Store, which adds a markup/cut.
What should I do if I discover I'm being double-charged for a subscription?
Contact the platform's support directly (in this case Apple), be ready to provide confirmation emails, and don't settle for the first refund offer — push for a fair refund covering the full period you were double-charged, using screen-sharing or documentation to prove your case.
Should I keep an annual-fee frequent flyer credit card if its benefits change?
If a card's key benefit (like points transfer to a preferred airline) is removed but the annual fee remains, it's reasonable to cancel the card rather than keep paying for a reduced-value product.
How can I avoid overpaying for app subscriptions on iPhone?
Check your Apple ID account's 'Subscriptions' section (tap your profile icon, then Subscriptions) to see all pricing tiers available for an app you're subscribed to or considering — sometimes a much cheaper plan exists than the one advertised in-app.
How can you get a free trial on an app without it charging you immediately?
Josh describes double-tapping the side of the phone to use Face ID when starting a free trial, which lets the trial begin before payment, but notes you must remember to cancel/turn it off before the trial period ends.
Should you wait until the perfect moment to start a creative project?
If you're waiting to start something, just do it—the journey and the ride are wild, and much of what you create comes from being open to seeing what happens combined with sticking at it consistently.
How can you catch yourself lying in daily life?
Try using the filter of actively asking yourself 'am I lying right now?' in moments of communication to notice where lying is a first go-to response.
How should you handle feeling low or struggling emotionally?
Sometimes the best approach isn't to problem-solve immediately but to just sit in the feeling for a bit, and finding presence with a partner (not overthinking) can be cathartic.
How can you ensure you get the engagement ring you actually want?
Create a Pinterest board of exactly what you want (cut, band style, stone details) so a partner has clear reference, and consider having the ring custom designed once the diamond is sourced.
Should you send digital wedding invitations to save money?
Tommy suggests that sending only a digital/photo invite (rather than a printed card) can save significant money across many guests, but warns it carries a real risk of miscommunication, as one of his friends misunderstood the event entirely.
Should wedding guests feel obligated to give a gift matching the cost of their attendance?
Tommy argues you can't expect gifts from guests and shouldn't judge people who don't give one — the point of inviting someone is to have them there, not to profit from their attendance.
How should I discipline a young child without scaring them?
Rather than instilling fear, take something away as a consequence (like screen time) so the child learns actions have consequences without becoming scared to act at all.
How should a business decide on team-building or office perks?
Josh suggests tailoring activities to what the least-enthusiastic team member (in this case Jess) would actually enjoy, rather than defaulting to things like golf that not everyone likes.
How should couples decide who stays home with kids and who keeps working?
Josh and Tommy suggest it comes down to communication and clearly identifying what each partner wants and needs, accepting that it's rarely a one-off decision but an ongoing negotiation, and that trade-offs (money, time, identity) should ideally be discussed before friction points arise rather than left to 'life happening'.
How can you build more self-compassion or empathy for yourself?
Tommy suggests a meditation technique of picturing yourself as the child you once were and considering how you'd want that younger version of yourself to be treated, as a way to build more kindness toward yourself and others.
Should a business or community be framed as a 'family'?
Avoid calling a team or audience a 'family'; instead frame it as a 'community'—a place of belonging and care—since family framing can be unrealistic and exploited.
How can you ensure durable, long-lasting socks instead of cheap ones that wear out?
Buy merino wool socks like Darn Tough Vermont, which come with a lifetime guarantee — worn-out pairs can be mailed back for free replacements, and buying multiple pairs on trips to the US (where they're more accessible) is a practical workaround for international buyers.
How do you overcome the fear of putting your creative work out there?
Do it consistently and often—like the artist who made 500 days of art, the pressure lessens with each piece. Producing regularly builds an inner strength or 'muscle' that shuts out worry about what people think, and lets you move on like ending a chat with friends at a café rather than fretting about every word.
How do you know when it's the 'right time' to end something?
You can always construct an argument for why now isn't the ideal time, so once a decision makes sense on balance, it's better to act on it rather than waiting for some theoretically more perfect moment.
How should a podcast/community handle audience feedback channels?
Favor a single, one-to-one channel like email over fragmented options (Discord, DMs, reviews) because it's more manageable and creates real accountability via a real name.
How should listeners who fell behind on the show handle coming back after the break?
Don't feel judged for missing episodes; treat the break as an amnesty and return fresh and consistent once the show resumes on 16 January, re-engaging with emails and conversation.
How can emails strike the right tone without seeming too stern or too casual?
Use an exclamation mark on the first sentence, a full stop on the next, and bring back an exclamation mark a few sentences later rather than using one on every sentence; be cautious with ending sentences with someone's name after a comma, as it can read as stern.
Should workplace conflicts be resolved over email or in person?
Passive-aggressive email chains tend to escalate conflict unnecessarily; going and speaking to the person directly, even while angry, tends to de-escalate the situation faster than a 'victory' in an email thread.
Should creative goals be big and spectacular?
Aim to do things regularly but actually smaller and more realistic rather than expecting everything to be spectacular. Chasing the spectacular becomes a trap, and letting things become too much of your identity is unhealthy—set realistic goals.
Should I take business advice from friends or acquaintances who aren't experts?
If someone offers strong opinions about how to run your business but isn't your accountant and doesn't know your actual profit and loss or balance sheet, take their advice with a grain of salt.
How do you build a team culture that doesn't punish mistakes and actually supports risk-taking?
Godin advises that if the only people who lose their jobs are those who make mistakes, you're teaching your team to avoid risk; to reverse that, leadership has to be willing to let go of someone who 'never makes a mistake' to prove that leaning into the creative process — not just avoiding errors — is what's rewarded.
How do you find your voice as a creative person?
Godin advises that finding your voice has nothing to do with authenticity; it means picking a genre, showing up with your craft, shipping work, learning, repeating, and building a consistent platform so people looking for 'someone who sounds like you' can find you.
What's a better way to think about 'doubling down' as a creator?
Josh reframes doubling down not as an all-or-nothing obsessive push at the cost of everything else, but as consistent focus and showing up with a regular cadence (daily or weekly) rather than chasing a dramatic launch.
How should you communicate dissatisfaction with a creative project without blaming the team?
Talk about it openly on the show/with the team rather than sitting on it, acknowledge your own role and triggers, and separate personal projection from legitimate feedback about the product.
What should you ask about when inspecting a potential house to buy?
Ask specifically about body corporate fees, since the costs and inclusions can vary wildly and agents may not volunteer the full picture.
Should you let delivery or service people into your home when you're not there?
Be cautious about who you let into your home unsupervised; real estate agents have a legal right to inspect with 24 hours notice, but other service people (like smoke detector technicians) are a personal judgment call and some people would avoid it entirely.
How can you fix slow home Wi-Fi speeds?
Log into your router via its IP address (often found on the back of the router, commonly 192.168.1.1) using the default admin credentials if unchanged, identify older/legacy devices dragging down the whole network, and move them to a separate guest or slower-band network so newer devices can use the faster 5GHz band unimpeded.
Should you buy cheap new furniture or old furniture?
Tommy says he'd rather buy a good quality old item for cheap than a cheap new mass-produced item, since cheap new furniture often looks good in photos but turns out to be low quality.
How do you protect your home from car break-ins?
Install at least one security camera covering the driveway and front door area, starting simple rather than waiting for a perfect setup.
How should you handle movers or contractors helping you with a big job like moving house?
Don't hesitate to let removalists take everything you've set aside (even bulky items) rather than trying to handle extra items yourself to save them trouble — it ends up being more hassle than it's worth; also, getting them coffee is a good gesture.
Should you buy cryptocurrency during a market dip?
Tommy admits he considered texting Jess during a crypto crash to say it was a good time to buy, but acknowledges he doesn't actually know if that's true and is 'just making shit up,' suggesting caution about assuming dips are good buying opportunities without real expertise.
How can buying in bulk save money?
Josh suggests that if you have spare cash, it can be cost-effective to buy non-perishable items like toothpaste or toilet paper in bulk, as referenced via advice attributed to Mark Cuban about investing cash into bulk purchases.
What should you consider before buying in bulk?
Tommy and Josh note that bulk buying only makes sense if you have adequate storage space at home, otherwise it becomes impractical even if it saves money.
When can you clean or swap your golf ball during a round?
Josh explains that while putting on the green, you're allowed to mark your ball's position, pick it up to clean it, and place it back down, and you can also swap to a fresh ball once a hole is finished.
How should a beginner get into cryptocurrency investing?
Have a friend who already understands it help set up an account and start with a minimal, low investment amount to build curiosity and learn by doing rather than trying to understand everything upfront.
How can you tell if a supermarket avocado is actually ripe?
Check by touch, and look toward the bottom of the display pile, as the ripest, softest avocados are reportedly placed there by the store.
Why do people do small grooming rituals like shaving or getting a haircut?
Josh argues it's less about how others perceive you and more about the feeling you give yourself — small acts like shaving your neck, brushing your teeth, or dressing 'work ready' create a 'visceral change' in how you feel about yourself.
Does going for a walk actually make you feel better?
Josh suggests that going for a walk will make most people feel better, likening it to grooming rituals as simple, reliable mood boosters.
Is paintball a good idea for a team bonding event?
Tommy warns that paintball venues are a financial trap: you end up paying far more than expected because you have to keep buying extra ammo and gear beyond the initial booking cost.
How should you plan a Christmas party during COVID restrictions?
Jess suggests favouring open-air venues like wineries over crowded indoor venues (e.g. arcades), since open spaces allow more distancing and less shared touching of equipment, and notes venues will likely run reduced-capacity time slots.
Should I use hair product after a haircut?
Josh avoids hair product after haircuts to prevent setting an expectation of needing it daily, preferring to let people see him with minimal effort so he isn't reliant on products (e.g., if stranded on an island).
What should you do if you're caught somewhere you shouldn't be?
Tommy says his instinct is to keep walking and get out of the situation without over-explaining, while Josh notes his own reaction depends on the environment and his sense of confidence or standing in that situation.
What should you do at the first sign of a cold sore?
Take Famvir tablets (three) as soon as you feel it coming on to stop it from fully developing.
How should you handle requests from fans or guests on a podcast?
George says his approach, learned from working with Hump Day Replay guests, is that if someone asks for something, you should just give it to them.
How do you get your script considered for a Daily Talk Show table read?
Email hi@thedailytalkshow.com with the subject line 'screenwriting' to register interest; keep scripts to a limited length (around 3 pages) for timing purposes.
How should actors approach a table read?
Perform the table read with real energy as if in front of a camera, since a subpar performance can affect casting decisions — but stick to reading the actual script rather than improvising new lines.
How do you come up with a strong concept for a script or podcast?
Read 'Save the Cat' to learn how to craft a strong one-sentence logline, as this process is also useful for shaping podcast concepts.
What happens if you email The Daily Talk Show?
The hosts commit to always responding to listener emails — either with a direct reply, a reply plus reading it on air, or at least reading and discussing it on the show, rather than leaving emails unanswered.
How many standard drinks is it safe to have before driving later in the day?
Josh suggests pacing drinks (e.g., no more than one Vodka Cruiser per hour, waiting an hour between drinks) and erring on the side of caution rather than risking being over 0.05, noting it's not worth the risk even if you think you've metabolized alcohol.
What's a cautionary lesson about young people and drink driving?
Josh warns listeners not to drive after drinking even if they feel sober, citing his own risky experience of blowing zero at a booze bus despite having had several beers earlier in the day, stressing that young people engage in more risky behavior like this.
What should you do after jump-starting a car to make sure it doesn't die again?
After a jump start, keep the engine running for an extended period (not just turning it on and off) so the battery actually recharges; if you turn it off too soon it may not restart.
What should you do if you think you have a cold sore starting?
Tommy advises not to panic or over-research online, but to just 'ride it out' and treat it with medications like Famvir or Zovirax, noting it can't be cured but can be managed, and that stress, sun, and cold exposure can trigger outbreaks.
How do you avoid regretting a big equipment purchase like gym equipment?
Get the specific model you actually want rather than a cheaper alternative, because settling for a lesser version means you won't feel excited or passionate about using it, and it will end up unused (becoming 'a clothes hanger').
What should you do if a food delivery app lets you select an option without properly configuring it (e.g. a sandwich with no filling)?
Tommy suggests apps like Uber Eats/Subway should not allow a 'Veggie Delight' selection to be completed without choosing salad ingredients, and that it should default to including everything with an opt-out instead.
How can you tell if promotional merch is worth wearing?
Judge promotional clothing by its material quality rather than brand affinity — genuinely high-quality items (like a comfortable hoodie or tee) get worn regularly even without an emotional connection to the brand, while cheap giveaway tees end up ignored until you run out of clean clothes.
Should you use the same trimmer on your face and your pubic area?
Tommy suggests it's better to use a premium dedicated product like the Manscaped trimmer for sensitive areas rather than using the same shaver for both face and groin, noting the Manscaped tool is designed to prevent nicking in sensitive regions.
How do you approach a big idea without being crushed by fear of failure?
Lead brainstorming with the question 'what if it does work?' rather than starting from risk and downside, since beginning with infinite possibility produces more inspired, effective ideation than starting from fear of reputational or financial risk.
How do I know if a compact mattress-in-a-box is good quality?
Don't assume a mattress that compresses into a small box is inferior; according to Josh, Sleep Republic's compact packaging actually comes with a higher-quality product, including dense pocket springs and solid edge support.
How should a small business find its brand voice when writing website copy?
Don't outsource your voice to someone else — start writing as yourself first, then have someone review it, rather than trying to imitate another brand's tone.
Why is it worth using a specialist accountant/trust structure for a small business?
Josh explains that as a business grows from a simple ABN/sole trader setup, it's worth layering in structures like trusts and partnerships with professional advice, as their accountants at RBK caught costly issues (like an unlodged tax return and carried losses) that would have been expensive if missed.
Is it okay to pick up a stray golf ball on a golf course?
Tommy argues you shouldn't take a ball that's clearly someone else's just because you find it on a golf course, while Josh notes it's fine to keep balls found in areas with no one around, like rough near a short par 3.
Should you prank a friend or colleague when they're stressed?
Josh suggests only pranking people when they're in a good headspace, jokingly proposing a 0-100 mood scale and saying you should only prank someone if they're 'over a 60.'
Should I get ambulance cover sorted?
Josh insists on getting ambulance cover done promptly, noting it only takes about 30 seconds to sign up and repeatedly promises to do it by the end of the show.
Should you pay for fast-track/queue-jump passes at theme parks?
Tommy suggests it can be better to hold off on paying extra for fast-track passes and instead wait in the normal queue to save money and have a more 'peaceful experience'.
How should you respond when someone offers to pay for or share something with you?
Tommy argues it's polite to accept what someone offers rather than refuse out of politeness, distinguishing this from 'leeching,' and notes that pushing back too hard on generosity can itself be a kind of social performance.
What should I do if I notice pee on a public toilet seat and a woman is about to use it next?
Even if you didn't cause the mess, clean it yourself if you know a woman is about to use the toilet next, because you don't want to be perceived as the person who left pee on the seat.
Why does it feel so natural to make a crisis about yourself?
Tommy observes that treating a wider crisis like COVID as something happening 'to us' personally is a common but somewhat selfish mindset, since the pandemic is affecting everybody, not just those with a personal brush with it.
What should I do about a persistent pimple?
Gemma Watts recommends treating it with something acidic, ideally salicylic acid, and suggests it may be caused by mask-wearing creating a new environment on the skin.
How should you handle coming out of a long lockdown?
Ease back in gradually rather than diving straight into full socializing, pacing decisions and interactions slowly to avoid a bad experience that could make you retreat again.
How do you stop glasses fogging up under a mask?
Use masks that fit tightly against the cheeks so air doesn't escape upward and fog the glasses.
Should you integrate a new partner into your whole friend/work group right away?
Josh suggests it's better to let a couple have a private week together first before meeting the full team, rather than rushing a group introduction, to avoid 'ruining the vibe'.
What's the best way to sell used items online (like on eBay)?
Create a new eBay account to get 10 free listings and avoid the standard ~9-10% selling fee, but be aware that a new account with no feedback history can make buyers wary of a scam; choose between Buy It Now, bidding, or a 'make an offer' option depending on the item.
How do you dry homemade pottery without a kiln?
Clay pieces don't need to be kiln-fired; they can simply be left to air dry (a kiln just speeds up the process), after which they can be painted and optionally glazed.
How can you manage anxiety about whether you've upset someone with a joke?
Message the person directly and ask if a comment landed badly or if things are okay between you, rather than letting anxious overthinking escalate unresolved.
What should creatives learn from a near-miss TV deal falling through?
Don't invest everything into one dream; diversify your opportunities and offer yourself multiple paths rather than relying on a single project succeeding.
What's the key rule for doing improv comedy?
Always say yes and add to the idea rather than blocking with 'no, but' — give one performer something they want and another who creates conflict against it.
What's a good way to drink Fireball whisky?
Put the bottle in the freezer or fridge to chill it, which makes the cinnamon flavour smoother and more palatable for shots.
Should comedians ask other comedians to perform their jokes off-stage?
Josh notes he's been told off for asking comedians to tell their jokes outside of a show context, implying it's considered poor etiquette.
How can you guess which wine is more expensive without knowing the brand?
Swirl the wine and see how it falls off the glass — wine that sticks more to the glass (more 'legs') tends to indicate higher alcohol content, which can correlate with being the cheaper bottle.
How should you tell a kid that a big planned event is cancelled?
Tommy suggests not giving advance warning—take them out and keep things normal beforehand, then deliver the news all at once rather than dragging it out, similar to how you'd end a relationship.
How can a team fairly decide on a group activity like a Christmas party when there are disagreements?
Tommy suggests everyone submit a few ideas and then vote on them, or pull a chosen idea out of a hat, to reduce the need for extended debate and reach a decision more efficiently.
What's a lower-stress alternative to a big pub crawl for group bonding?
Josh proposes smaller-scale, structured activities like golf (starting with a driving range), bowling at Strike, or a winery bus tour as alternatives to chaotic big pub crowds.
How do you drink shots or champagne without hating the taste?
You need to already be sufficiently drunk from more pleasant-tasting drinks before moving on to shots or champagne, which otherwise taste bad.
How do you negotiate a better price in a retail store?
Josh recalls his kid-era tactic of asking staff 'what's the best price you've got?' and countering with a lower number to get them to meet in the middle.
Is it fair to drop old friends who haven't 'upgraded' alongside you?
Josh argues it's harsh to cut off old friends just because they're struggling or haven't kept pace in success, even if a tweet suggests upgrading your peer group; loyalty to people you grew up with still matters.
What would you tell your past self about handling self-doubt over a long-running creative project?
Ignore negative self-talk and the urge to think you should be doing more; success came from redefining what 'success' looked like rather than chasing an imagined perfect version of the show.
Is it safer to do a virtual party game than something like a party bus?
Statistically you're more likely to be harmed driving to work than playing a virtual game, so opting for a Zoom-based game avoids risks like motion sickness and unsafe retired buses used for party buses.
How can adults without kids reintroduce playfulness into their lives?
Tommy suggests intentionally engaging in childlike activities even without children present, such as flying a kite, drawing with chalk, jumping in puddles, climbing trees, or getting a glove and ball to throw at the park, framing it as advice to himself that he likely wouldn't do without his son prompting it.
What should I do if a piece of software/subscription feels too expensive?
Contact the provider directly and explain you're struggling with the cost — Tommy got his Adobe subscription reduced from $79 to $27 a month simply by asking.
What can help build confidence against being scared or jumpy in public?
Tommy recommends starting martial arts, not for ego or fighting ability, but to build inner confidence that you could handle yourself if something happened.
How do you get free or discounted things confidently without seeming rude?
Ask leading questions like 'are you going to throw this out?' which puts the other person in a position to offer it to you, rather than directly demanding something for free.
How should a manager balance trusting employees' process versus measuring their output?
Godin suggests that once the hard creative/architectural decisions are made and the spec for quality is defined, leaders should trust skilled people to develop their own process to meet that spec rather than micromanaging via constant monitoring (e.g., stopwatches, endless Zoom check-ins), citing how Japanese carmakers improved quality by pushing decisions down to frontline workers.
How can I build self-confidence?
Believe in yourself first — if you don't believe you're good enough, no one else will either, such as in a job interview. If you don't feel confident yet, fake it until you make it; acting confident when you walk into a room makes people go along with it.
How can a performer stay calm playing to a huge crowd?
Mentally reframe the audience as one single entity (Pete Murray says he imagines it as 'one big fat person') rather than thinking of thousands of individuals, which helps reduce intimidation and lets you relax and joke around on stage.
How do you make confident decisions when you're uncertain?
Ask yourself what's the worst that could happen, then go with your gut rather than sitting on a decision for weeks; if it turns out wrong you can own and correct it, but prolonged indecision helps no one.
How do you experience vicarious enjoyment of a place you've already been to?
Tommy suggests that showing friends around somewhere you've already visited lets you slip back into a 'tourist'/holiday mindset by experiencing their enthusiasm and fresh reactions.
How should you approach a paid coaching session to get the most value?
Don't over-direct a good coach with too many specific requests — let them ask questions and guide the session, since a skilled coach will figure out what you actually need rather than just doing what you ask for.
How do you pick a hobby that will actually stick?
Choose something you're already decent at and genuinely enjoy, rather than forcing yourself into activities (like tennis or traditional gym PT) that you don't naturally like, even if they seem more productive or social.
How do you actually get into a new sport or hobby like fantasy football or UFC?
Tommy suggests you have to genuinely be into something to follow it properly—comparing it to asking someone to just 'start watching a UFC fight' to get into it—implying passive interest rarely sticks.
How should a team manage shared sports equipment so items don't get lost?
Keep a limited, countable set of items (around 10) in a single clean bag, and count them back in at the end of each session to make sure nothing is missing.
What sports equipment is good to bring to a park for group fun?
A mix of frisbees (including a Vortex or Aerobie-style disc), a bocce set, a gridiron ball, cricket stumps/bat/ball, and baseball gloves covers a good range of casual park games.
Should a show aim to be broad/inclusive or niche and edgy?
Andy Lee was advised by a Nine TV executive to remember they are 'broadcasters, not narrowcasters' and to lean into broad, inclusive, family-friendly appeal rather than chasing edginess, which matched where the show naturally wanted to play.
What should a radio network CEO do to stay relevant in 2020?
Focus on shows with strong community connection and skew programming toward older demographics who still value live talkback radio, rather than treating programming as set-and-forget in a podcast/streaming competitive environment.
How should you approach interviewing celebrity guests on radio?
Tailor a fresh, specific idea to each guest rather than asking generic questions, and acknowledge if they've had a long day of interviews to build rapport and get a better result.
When should you start a countdown clock during a long broadcast or event?
Don't start announcing 'hours to go' until more than half of the total time has elapsed, otherwise it signals you don't want to be there, similar to how being ranked just outside the top on some lists looks worse than not mentioning rank at all.
What should you avoid or do during a long overnight livestream?
Don't play copyrighted music on the stream or it will get taken down; stay active (stretch, move around); save caffeine consumption for the hardest overnight stretch rather than the whole event.
How do you actually break into a radio career?
Be willing to work for free, move to regional or far-flung markets, and put in unglamorous grunt work before any on-air opportunity comes — persistence over connections is what separates people who make it from those who don't.
Is there a cheap way to get to Chadstone Shopping Centre without a car?
There's a free shuttle bus that runs from the Melbourne CBD to Chadstone Shopping Centre for shoppers.
Is it worth buying clothes/shoes online versus in-store?
Buying clothing or shoes online, especially from international retailers, risks sizing problems and costly returns; it's often better to buy in-store or from retailers with local exchange options (like Foot Locker) to avoid return shipping costs.
Can domain/furnishing odour sprays be used on clothing instead of washing?
Josh suggests a furnishing odour-eliminating spray (intended for couches/carpets) can also be sprayed directly on clothing like shorts to remove smell without washing, though this is presented informally rather than as recommended practice.
What should you do if your beard/neck hair grows unevenly when growing facial hair?
Tommy suggests at least trimming the neck area so it doesn't look unkempt while growing out facial hair, based on observing patchy growth patterns.
Should you do up the button on your suit jacket?
Josh jokes that never doing up your suit jacket button is a sign you're living your life fully, referencing the traditional 'sometimes, always, never' buttoning rule, while Tommy admits he can no longer do his up due to weight gain since it was fitted.
How much sun exposure do you actually need for vitamin D without risking skin damage?
Only around 20 minutes of sun a day is needed to properly absorb vitamin D, and ideally on skin that isn't regularly exposed to the sun, rather than prolonged tanning sessions.
How do you deal with the fear that a new idea might turn out badly before trying it?
Josh argues you can't fully trust the pre-emptive negative feeling about a new idea, citing how both the 24-hour stream and video format seemed 'ridiculous' beforehand but turned out well.
How can you quiet anxious/worrying thoughts, especially before bed?
Passively listen to something calming (like an audiobook on worry) without actively following every word — letting the unconscious mind absorb the message can help reduce anxious thought spirals, similar to how podcasts provide passive listening value.
Is it safe to use any music I like in videos for my business?
Avoid using non-licensed commercial or pop music in business content because licensing fees can run into the hundreds of thousands, usage is restricted, and the content isn't truly yours; even royalty-free tracks can carry hidden rights issues.
How should an artist handle criticism of their work?
Accept that some people will love your work and some will hate it; don't get caught up reading criticism, and focus instead on enjoying what you do and the fact that you're bringing joy to others.
How can you DJ a long set without running out of material?
Build out a bigger playlist in advance and pre-make loops for tracks before the event so you can be dynamic and mix smoothly even once drunk, rather than trying to create loops on the spot.
How can you avoid DJ conflict at a group Zoom party?
Tommy and Josh suggest reducing the size of future kick-ons to a smaller group, and potentially rotating who DJs, to reduce the volume of competing requests and stress on one person.
How do you manage pet insurance claims?
Keep the PDF receipt emailed after a vet visit and upload it directly to the insurer's web interface to get cash back into your account.
What should you watch out for when trying to eat vegetarian?
Check ingredient labels carefully — items that seem vegetarian (soups, cheeses, lollies, marshmallows) can contain chicken stock, animal rennet, or gelatin; opt for soft cheeses like brie over hard cheeses, and use vegetable stock instead of chicken stock.
How do you stop a dog from eating food it finds on the ground?
Train the dog by rewarding it for coming to you instead of going for the food, and carry treats as a better alternative; being on a lead also helps control the behaviour.
Is it safe to give dogs bones?
Most dogs handle cooked or raw bones fine, but bones can become a foreign body causing blockages or constipation, so it's worth being cautious.
What happened if a dog ingests something toxic like marijuana butter?
Inducing vomiting (e.g., with soda crystals as advised by a vet over the phone) can help, though it risks issues like salt toxicity; prompt vet consultation is recommended.
What should people understand before criticizing farmers over animal welfare issues?
Rupert argues people should separate conversations about farming as a livelihood from genuine animal cruelty issues, noting that farmers care deeply about their animals since it's their business and income, and that bad practices shown in exposés are upsetting to farmers too — the issue should be addressed respectfully rather than blaming all farmers broadly.
How should you handle public scrutiny/tabloid rumors as a couple?
Matty suggests reminding friends and family that what gets printed in tabloids is often not true, and that paparazzi attention naturally dwindles if you don't do anything particularly scandalous.
How do you secure good guests for interviews?
Build trust with publicists over years by signalling the interview will be fun, easy and quick, avoiding gossip or any sense you're trying to set the guest up — publicists are protecting their client's reputation, so they need to trust you.
Should you approach a celebrity you recognise in public?
Only approach celebrities who have genuinely influenced or entertained you personally, rather than any recognisable famous person; for others, a brief acknowledgment of their work is enough.
How do you remember names and scripts reliably?
Write names down visually as soon as you meet someone (e.g., in your phone's notes app) because remembering the written order and text helps visual learners retain names and script details better than just hearing them.
How do you recover when an interview question falls flat or backfires?
Brad Blanks describes pivoting quickly to a different, lighter angle (switching from a personal question that upset Chris Martin to a playful Mariah Carey chart-rivalry question) to rescue the interview and still walk away with a usable, memorable moment.
How do I know if I should keep pursuing a new skill or hobby I've been struggling with?
Generic advice like 'just stop watching Netflix and do the thing' ignores that you need genuine internal interest to push through discomfort; if a skill doesn't stimulate real curiosity, it may simply not be right for you, and that's okay.
How can you cool down if you sleep hot?
Take a fully cold shower before bed to bring your core temperature down, or invest in a bed temperature-regulating device like the Chilli Pad.
When is the right time to get blood tests or see a doctor?
Go in with a proactive, health-optimization mindset to check and adjust levels that may be low or high, rather than only visiting when something already feels wrong.
How can I listen to audio in bed without disturbing my partner?
Consider sleep-specific audio products like pillow speakers, Moonbow Bedphones, Acoustic Sheep Sleepphones, or eye masks with built-in earbuds rather than standard AirPods, which sit outside the ear and aren't ideal for sleeping.
How should you respond when a team member makes a costly mistake like deleting footage?
Josh says the right approach is to stay calm, ask what can be done and how much was lost, be a good teammate, and reflect on what you personally could have communicated or checked better rather than placing blame.
What exercise might help increase low testosterone?
Tommy suggests explosive plyometric training such as box jumps as something he read about for raising testosterone levels.
How can you find out if you have unusual sleep behaviors like sleepwalking or breathing issues?
Josh suggests using a phone app that activates recording when it detects noise, so you can review footage of yourself sleeping, as a friend discovered he was sleepwalking this way.
What should you consider before watching a true-crime or abuse-focused documentary?
Josh suggests being cautious, noting that such documentaries can leave you feeling empathetic but not good, and that consuming real trauma as entertainment can create a generally negative feeling even when the content starts out seeming positive.
How do you manage excessive phone notifications?
Turn on 'Do Not Disturb' mode in the evening (e.g., from 8 or 9pm) to silence calls and notifications and improve phone habits, while still allowing important contacts through if needed.
How do you get high-profile, guarded interview subjects to open up?
Deeply research subjects beforehand to find details the audience hasn't heard, aim to make them forget the cameras are there so it feels like a real conversation, but accept that with politicians and A-list athletes you sometimes just have to admit defeat.
How should you plan a long-term creative project or business like a 10-year show?
Don't think too far out (e.g., 10 years) as it creates stress; instead look at projects on a yearly or six-month basis, focusing on one or two big projects at a time and letting new opportunities be added incrementally rather than planning everything upfront.
What's the best way to grow a creative project or make it financially viable?
Find a partner, ideally one who brings an existing audience while you bring the creative/technical skill; combining both lets you release and sell work directly to that audience without needing something like a Netflix deal.
How can you stand out or build confidence at a conference, course, or new group?
Make a conscious decision to 'put your hand up' for every opportunity that requires a response from the group, even if it makes your heart race; doing so repeatedly can make you stand out and build perceived competence over time.
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all 172→What should you check before buying a house if you work from home or care about connectivity?
Check internet connectivity in the area before putting in an offer, and consider solutions like a mesh network or point-to-point broadband for better coverage.
Is a formal business plan necessary when starting a business?
Crystal and the hosts agree that while a business plan can provide some initial direction, it's the ongoing process of testing and learning in practice that matters most, and a rigid plan may not reflect the unpredictable early stages of a new venture.
Is it safe to buy an apartment off the plan?
Off-the-plan buyers can get a discount and perks (like a free coffee table book or gym membership), but there's real risk: if the development goes under, buyers can lose their entire deposit.
What skills matter most as technical/creative tools become easier to learn?
Don't just chase hard skills (like mastering editing software); develop soft skills such as communication, networking, and the ability to lead a team, since these are increasingly rare even among technically skilled young people.
How should you negotiate price when buying something secondhand (e.g. on Facebook Marketplace or Gumtree)?
Offer a lower starting price than asking and expect the seller to counter slightly above it (e.g. if asking is $800, offer $650-700 and expect them to counter at $700-750); also always count the cash when a deal is made in person.
How should you handle online criticism or backlash?
Josh shares Derek Sivers' insight that when people criticize you online, they're reacting to a performed, 'paper cutout' version of you rather than your real self, which can help detach personal identity from public criticism.