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Craig Harper

Craig Harper

Motivational Speaker

10 episodesJan 2018 — Apr 2021

About Craig

Craig Harper likes to keep shit real. While doing that, he's also a motivational speaker, Tommy's mate and a prolific leader, presenter and educator in areas of health, high-performance, self-management and personal transformation. He wrote his first book 20 Questions for Humans, and has his own podcast The You Project.

Craig's Podcast:
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-you-project/id1342430567

Craig's Book:
https://www.craigharper.net/product/20-questions-for-humans/

Craig's Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/whiteboardlessons/

In Craig’s words

Verbatim from the transcripts — each quote links to the moment.

“I'm an excitement machine”
Ep 889▶ 5:29
“your silence is violence”
Ep 889▶ 12:06
“I go, be fucking awesome, the end.”
Ep 889▶ 17:14
“I'm very upfront about my mediocrity.”
Ep 889▶ 56:12
“Thoughts are not me. I think. But I am not the thought. The thought is just a theoretical construct that has no power at all unless I give it power.”
Ep 889▶ 1:03:25
“Do the work or shut the fuck up.”
Ep 671▶ 0:41
“I'm improvising, adapting, and overcoming.”
Ep 671▶ 1:31
“I'm stuck at home, and then that was swiped out and it said, I'm safe at home.”
Ep 671▶ 17:48

Craig’s advice on the show

How do you decide whether to engage in a time-consuming argument or distraction?

Ask each day what the best use of your time and energy is based on your values and goals — this creates clarity and helps you avoid wasting hours on unproductive arguments or distractions.

How can a personal trainer or coach stand out in a saturated market?

Stop focusing on marketing gimmicks and instead be genuinely excellent and build a real relationship with clients — if you're great at what you do and people like being around you, they'll keep coming back.

How can trainers keep client progress from going stale over time?

Work in structured review cycles (Craig uses 28-day blocks) where you reassess diet, goals and performance together with the client, turning an emotional, stop-start process into one driven by strategy and logic.

How do you build better self-awareness in relationships and leadership?

Regularly ask yourself and seek honest feedback on 'what's it like being around me?' — understanding your impact on others, not just your own self-image, is key to connection and resolving conflict.

How do you deal with intrusive or negative thoughts?

Picture your mind as a service station where thoughts are cars pulling in — you can choose to watch a thought arrive and leave without climbing in and being carried away by it.

How do you find the daily routine (diet, sleep, work habits) that works best for you?

Treat your life as ongoing trial and error on yourself to discover what actually works for your body and mind, rather than following generic prescriptions.

Stories Craig told

Cuddling the delivery driver

Ep 889▶ 6:55

Craig jokes about trying to cuddle someone who delivered a purchase to his driveway, who wasn't receptive, as an example of missing physical human contact during lockdown.

The glow mesh purse and shag pile tangent

Ep 889▶ 30:30

A long comedic digression where Craig uses the phrase 'throwing the glow mesh in the shag pile' (a retro purse and carpet) as a dated analogy for 'spitting the dummy,' leaving Josh and Tommy confused.

Scrapping three months of PhD research

Ep 889▶ 32:38

Craig spent two and a half months researching 'motivation' for his PhD before realising the term was too ambiguous and restarted with a new topic, external self-awareness.

Coaching the intimidating, unaware CEO

Ep 889▶ 40:13

Craig recounts being brought in to speak at a company with cultural issues, meeting the belligerent owner beforehand, and bluntly telling him people find him intimidating and that he lacks awareness of others' perspectives.

The numbered Everlast leather jacket

Ep 889▶ 1:16:55

Craig describes developing an MMA-based group exercise concept for Everlast, which went into receivership shortly after; he was given jacket number 100 of only 100 made, which he's never worn.

The cup of tea and the staircase epiphany

Ep 671▶ 17:48

Craig Harper recounts a moment a year or two prior when, while on a phone call, he made tea and toast and walked upstairs, and was struck by gratitude for simple modern conveniences like hot water, light, and food — realizing how fortunate his life is compared to most of human history.

Questions these interviews answer

Drawn from the episode transcripts.

How does Craig Harper think personal trainers can stand out in a saturated fitness market?

He says there are a million trainers and gyms now, so the real differentiator is simply being excellent and building a genuine relationship with clients rather than having better equipment or marketing funnels; as he puts it, 'be fucking awesome, the end.'

From episode 889→
What is 'external self-awareness' according to Craig Harper's PhD research?

It's understanding what it's like for other people to be around you — the 'you experience' — rather than just being aware of your own flaws, and it's strongly linked to emotional intelligence and better connection with others.

From episode 889→
Should you share political opinions on social media, according to Craig Harper?

Harper says it's not for him — he believes airing political views publicly creates anxiety and wastes time and energy, and he refuses to be guilt-tripped into speaking out ('your silence is violence') just because others want him to.

From episode 889→
How did Craig Harper's business change because of COVID-19 lockdowns?

All of his corporate speaking work for the year fell over, along with public events, workshops, camps and seminars, cutting his income to zero while he still had ongoing expenses like staff, premises rent and a company car.

From episode 671→
What is 'situational awareness' as Craig Harper describes it?

It's recognising in real time what you are doing, thinking and feeling (e.g. getting anxious or frustrated) in the middle of a difficult moment, rather than just reflecting on personal development in calm, comfortable settings.

From episode 671→
What practical technique does Craig Harper use to calm himself when spiralling?

He described walking around the block, making a cup of tea, sitting down and doing about four minutes of box breathing to calm his nervous system before continuing a difficult conversation.

From episode 671→
What is Craig Harper's PhD research about?

He is researching motivation and exercise programme adherence at Monash University's Brain Park, examining why people start exercise programs motivated but fail to sustain them, and distinguishing the academic definition of motivation (a reason) from the common emotional understanding of motivation (a feeling).

From episode 564→
Why are recommended daily calorie intakes considered flawed?

According to Craig Harper, they're based on normative data (averaging consumption across a sample group) extrapolated to the whole population, without accounting for individual variables like muscle mass, body composition, environment, and energy expenditure.

From episode 564→

When Craig came up

Mentioned on 112 episodes Craigwasn’t on.

Tommy jokingly suggests someone wanting life advice should go to Craig Harper instead of him.

Listed as an in-studio guest for the episode 1,000 livestream.

Called Josh the day he had worms and is mentioned as a guest for episode 1000.

Mentioned regarding frustrations with academic red tape and rejected research submissions.

Podcaster whose episode on 'Friends and Frenemies' Tommy references to discuss friends giving advice.

Author of "20 Questions for Humans," whose book structures the entire episode and who is referred to as a mate of the hosts.

A supporter who had them on his podcast early on and asked about their company values, which they fumbled.

Mentioned as a mutual acquaintance who used to work as a bouncer.

Tommy mentions Craig Harper's annual pre-COVID event held at a Mount Eliza holiday park.

Josh references Craig Harper quotes about physiology changing psychology.

Tommy mentions Craig Harper once owned a solarium and discussed it on his podcast, binning it after understanding the health risks.

Josh references Craig Harper in relation to the idea of walking with someone without talking.

Episodes with Craig

Every episode featuring Craig Harper on The Daily Talk Show.

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EP 259
67:09

Craig Harper On Psyllium Husk & Human Stuff

Craig Harper joined Tommy Jackett and Josh Janssen on Episode 259 (10 January 2019) — "Craig Harper On Psyllium Husk & Human Stuff". Our mate Craig Harper joins us on today's episode of The Daily Talk Show. We cover: - How whiteboard lessons came about - Craig's focus on the human stuff - When Josh bought a few thousand bucks worth of books - Hobbies and side hustles - The love for Adam Sandler's latest Netflix comedy show -...