#585 – Mr. 97 Opens Up About Sex/
- January 22, 2020
Mr. 97 opens up with Scooter Derek about sex, and why he hasn’t had it yet. We also chat about our clubs and Josh’s future library.
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show, we discuss:
– The sex recession
– Mr. 97’s sex intervention
– Our clubs update
– Josh’s future library
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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 585. What's happening guys? What's going on? Mr. 97? You're you're on camera. You're in the middle. Yeah. As it feels like you're over that side at behind the panel. You polish it up for us. What? How does it feel to be here? In middle in the middle of the boys are maybe a bit more confronting. It usually only happens when something comes.
Because you may feels very warm, by the way, is it? Yeah, really? One of the things I love about us you go red, like it's old school. I reckon like male kids blushing. It's like a flashy. Oh, yeah. had a blast. Yeah, I mean, I go red pretty easily, but I feel like people don't blush like the Houston. What happened unless they're drinking a little
thing. It was it a thing that you're conscious about growing up about you flushing? No, not really.
mean you can't stop it? Yeah.
Okay, we've got my
famous women who are wearing makeup or men that blush hard.
That's why you're on TV. You have makeup. That's why Aaron from ticket wears makeup. Yeah, not for the bashing BIT bit because you just lose any other.
Now so the reason you're in the front, Mr. 97 is because the day today is the day
where we are releasing a video that we made in December. How you feeling about this body?
I mean, yeah, bit nervous. It's about
so we were very it's very
fitting that we're talking about blushing because what's about to happen to this tonight? He didn't really blush too much in there. You were pretty calm on the day.
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean, I think that was there was you guys in studio
Derek doing good job. Yeah. And so we teamed up with four seasons condoms, and secured a Derek, and he performed a generation intervention. So we heard earlier, we even talked about this with ash Williams people aren't young, the younger generation aren't having sex anymore the sex recession. And so it's because of shit like Tinder and porn and a bunch of other why on people having sex with Tinder. That's why I don't understand why isn't Tinder giving you more sex? Well, I think just like any Yeah, well, you could say that. But I think there's also seeing behind the computer like matching is already giving you some kind of, you know, just to have a desktop version.
Could you imagine if you'd like sitting in front of his mic, and
maybe it's just like, you know, interacting through just it's like that's, yeah, that is I think there's also the drinking thing. I mean, Mr. Nice service hasn't drank until he met us and he doesn't drink he drink. He's had one glass of wine, not even tell a beer.
So there's a bunch of those things that are happening, which is why it's not happening. And so this is why it's fitting the partnership before saisons condoms is perfect because you my friend, or interesting cat, and I would say that the kindest possible way Well yeah, I don't think they'll necessarily expected that, you know, a six or generation intervention could happen with just a young person not having much sex. This is a another ball game this. This is we're speaking about a virgin here. And so we've got a five minute video of you and screwed that we recorded in December, which will now apply if you're listening to this. Go to YouTube. Listen now but also go and watch. Yeah, definitely. Oh, yo put on RJ TV. It's everywhere. It's everywhere. Any final words before you
before we play, enjoy the video. Okay, here we go. Out. 20 year old producer, Mr. 97 has done a lot of things for the first time.
What am I done? What do you mean? The one thing he hasn't done? He's have sex. So we got our make 53 year old screw to Derek to surprise him with a generation intervention.
Thanks 97 for sitting down with me today, my generation, we're rooting like rabbits your age as every generation before hand putting it simply, you guys don't seem to be routing. This is a generation intervention
or can you be chopping in a way?
Do you overthink six and how it's gonna be?
rough? I think I refrain myself from overthinking. So I I probably would have the tendency to do it. And so
I think there's probably a filter where I'm like, if I under think and I push it away and I don't think about it, then it it doesn't exist and I don't have to you know, spend time thinking about what it what it is and why
bail I can, who it's with and how it happens. There's there's not a willingness to put myself in a situation where it could lead to sex. There's a whole sort of farness about it, you've got the you got the examples of like what you see in porn and what you see in TV shows and movies and all that sort of stuff. But there's still
it's still feel super foreign in terms of how you lead into it, how you engage all that sort of stuff. So you still live at home with your parents? Yeah. As I'm told everyone does, yeah. When the time comes and you've got to go around and in your room and you would you feel comfortable
getting stuck in it would just feel comfortable having six email when you when your parents and however you want me my parents bedrooms is right upstairs, directly above you. Yeah. I think technically, it's that's better than data loss. I think you better off being at the bottom. Yeah, I mean,
That's that's a thought right? Like, where do you Where do you go? Like cuz it's a bit weird bringing them home if if people are home and you want to have sex, but I mean, I guess you find the time when no one's there. Oh yeah or maybe not take one once again into account when thinking about how loud is going to be how long it's going to take and stuff. Yeah, yeah but yeah okay so you're okay with that you don't feel like it's a sacred nice or not it was it's just more of like it's a bit it's a bit uncomfortable not knowing where like where people are gonna come like yeah all that stuff do you feel like in your family to people just walk in and out of doors and or knocking open? Is it like Seinfeld where they just barge?
Okay, yeah, that would probably change you find that? Yeah, no change if you had a girlfriend around. Yeah, I think so. Yeah, I think the door would be shut a bit more in a perfect world your first time.
Where is it? Who is it? What's happening?
What's the lead up
the first time I want it to be more romantic so
I feel like some way out of out of my room out of my house would be nice because that just feels a bit strange and making it this sort of like special occasion would be nicer than just in my bedroom no downstairs yeah yes I can you see any romance in Hoboken named in the in a frenzy in the in a McDonald's car pop?
Wow. There's romance in everything. You look the right at the right way through the right lane.
So who is it like in in a perfect world not to have bodies and stuff like that, but, you know, what does he or she
It's just someone that you you have fun with and you're willing to experiment and test and learn. And it's not really
much of an appearance thing. It's just who you're comfortable being around and doing it with. If you're going on a date
you thought she was beautiful.
You'd already been and had a coffee and you're going on another diet. Would you take condoms with you?
I would say rush down to the shop, right?
I mean, you mean you haven't got some ready?
my back in hell. Can you believe this is your job. We'd wacky will have a podcast.
Producer testing and learning
from foreplay, what's definition of done?
How do you feel?
Yeah, I don't even know. You've had some time to reflect, because it's been around a month since since we filmed it. What have you reflected on?
Well, I mean, I guess,
I guess the sort of thinking around all of it is naive because I don't have anything else to go off. But I think there's,
I don't know maybe something fun and a bit interesting about leaning into that. We made the classic question is how can we help?
How can we help
Well, I don't know, I don't know if you need to, like,
like D, I mean, kids business, inferring that there's a problem, if we could say the Help is
to just I mean, I think we've I think four seasons, kind of the helping us shift his attention to something that he wasn't thinking about the telly has criticised us on sort of being too hands on.
Do you think that's the case?
Right. Maybe a little bit, but it's not like it doesn't that doesn't really bother me. Like, I think I appreciate that. But
yeah, I know, it's something that will eventually happen. So I don't see a need to rush it or force it or Yeah, I mean,
is it the I love the dynamic between Josh and I, I feel like you have you weren't learned to go to Josh for certain bits of information or oral sex expert. If you were going to
You're gonna get but if you're gonna speak to him about an approach or you speak to me about an approach, you're going to get two different versions. I think.
I'm just Is that something you've recognised between our relationship? Yeah, well, I think it's Tommy you come in with I guess the approach of is the jam I'm the mama.
It's funny, but what do you know what do you say by the sweet spreads? Well, you haven't you have different takes on it because you've experienced different things and so it's not it's not that I go to one of you when I see a benefit in ik Josh is gonna provide me with better advice. I think it's more just like, both of you have these experiences and I can just sort of see both about it. Yeah, I mean, mate, thank you for being so open. Like I think that's the Elaine the 100% this year, and I think that's the very start of you.
I mean, that's really fucking cheap just sending up into the stratosphere waiting
on video editing is funny because
just I reckon I got it down from 15 minutes to five minutes just cutting out some of the awkward silence content just the salt just you thinking, there's a lot of you doing a lot of thinking, yeah. Because I Where do I got like I go into this like place of living vicariously through you? I might, what a great opportunity, just having sex for the first time doing it. And I almost like lean into the like, yeah, Jordan a romantic place. But then where I think my like sort of fall off the rails as I say, Okay, well, like how do we, how do we sit like, what do we organise an evening for him? And he's like, but then that seems we'd rather you even invite someone to a hotel for the foot like, yeah, it all seems a bit much. I mean, now that you understand what a generation generation intervention is,
Do you think it's more you're seeing it more and the people around you of your generation? The sex recession, the sex recession? Yeah. Yeah, I think that they're different definitely is but whether that's like, I don't know if it's a thing that people sort of, like, actively seeking and thinking about, like, I don't know if it's much of a pressure that people like, Oh, yeah, I really have to have sex.
Until you realise that it was it was a complete different. Why does that mean the whole mine's a lower?
charming went off in the background? Yeah. I mean, this is do we need to get another blood test? Yeah.
But no, I don't think we're saying there's nothing wrong. Nothing wrong with you. I love however,
I love I disliked I wonder what Bodie and his generation will be like my son who was born in 2030 will be an animal.
already. I mean, you've seen photos of him at the dinner table.
Yeah, penis in hand. kids do so on mate. I gotta tell you, I was on the phone last night. Someone I have never spoken to in my life was a conversation on the phone on telemarketer nice spoken on text. She's very friendly Jess, coffee in front of the way I sort of delivered that. never spoken to them. So I'm on there and so you trying to sort of give you put your best foot forward. And then you just hear me mid Congress.
Just she's thinking I've got some kind of thing going on to read. Yeah. And she even said that.
And I was like, No, no, but he just had a pair of pliers and was going at my car door. He got the plies to the car door. I love it. You care about it.
you know what, I wouldn't have cancer.
Stick with at least heal itself. My car panel. I guess
Dupuy to get a surprise. He nearly just went in so he's wild. And he just doesn't know what he doesn't know. He doesn't get that using this on the car. Jules lands kid drew like I think ro lovey mommy or something. Yeah, in the side of that there they can nightmare
How are you as a kid? Were you a little terror? Oh yeah. I mean you were sweating lines you'll never think about you're in the
sleep all the time is that dress? Yeah, that's what mom said. I was talking to them the other day about it and she was she brought she used to work at like this international school in New Zealand teaching them and she used to bring me in and put me in the other room when I was a baby and just put me down for sleeps and then go teach a class and then come back up the end. You hear about these little angels that you can take to a title bar or take to you know, like a restaurant, put them under the table while you're having dinner. Just in their little protocol. No, no the protocol, a little lamb capsule first. Like that. Absolutely not never even like early days, even
look like some spawn out of it.
But cute too, you know, like, that's where your heart just melts. And because he's I love this kid. It's kinda like you
love this. And I just love Mr. Test and
you don't realise how many things that you pick like, you pick up so much a
lot of friction, no traction with it.
And so, so I'm leaning in, in 2021 of the things is the life hack club. Can we have some updates on our clubs? Yeah. 97 I know you've been doing some work on your text message services. Yeah, I found one that I'm going to use. And it's pretty good because you can you can send that your mass alerts to everyone, but you can also have a normal conversation with them. So you can just message them back in the app, and it's
There's a text. So when are you going to be implementing that?
We just have to subscribe
to pay the subscription and that might be 20 bucks a month. Can we do that?
As I look to the
army now I need to look to our
I think it'd be pretty fun like because obviously when you get a new accountant, they want to see how often you're contacting them. They would be it would be pretty funny just to call them random dice. I might just I'm just paying for lunch.
coffees away I would have copies of the meals at the same time and what you're on the premium plan the high touch plan, you can call me anytime you want. That's the right answer. Okay, we'll do the
text message thing that will also help our clubs as well. Yeah, book club and the adventure club yet
I think I'm wanting to go quite big for my first one. Have you been playing because I know I did this I reckon in school as well. Where it's like you haven't been doing anything. And you've been putting something off for so long. Yeah. And so you get to a point where all you can do is say something bigs coming. You haven't done it coming. Is there a little bit of that? Have you done nothing but you saying something
is coming, but it's been on my mind, and it has anything actually happened? Have you done anything? No, I haven't done it.
I mean, I've done something mentally done something.
Got a big idea, or because I feel like I've caught myself in a corner where I'm like, I've even got the idea but like, the only way that I haven't spoken about it, so the only way it's like when you doing it, yeah, teasing to something that I was gonna be big. And then the pressures on today by labour. So it's not in terms of an adventure into in respects to going out into the wilderness or anything like that. So it's it's a lot
Compared to that, but getting a bunch of drunks together and going to urban surf, which I'm going to speak to my brain Valley tomorrow on the show about his experiences there, but this is the wave park the surf, surf Park, like surfing next to the indoor not outside. Its outdoor.
Wave adventure. It's an adventure. You go out there we've been trying to tell him around why do people it's so annoying, painful he's so annoying people at the shopping centre trying to sell them Oh my God. What a tough job. I mean, it's i get i think they get like for every every person they get that's like 50 bucks they get 25 Do you think that's the worldwide like people? like is that happening over in the states i or Australia wide? The paintball thing. So you walk into a shopping centre in Melbourne. To be honest, it's probably been like five years since it's happened to me.
So no, I don't shop. Oh, really? Yep, right near the supermarket right near on EB Games or one of those where you'd run a JB hi fi coming down. And they just like, might you'd be great at painful? Absolutely not. Right. Yeah, hide it. Just hide it. What's so anyway? openshift get out there. I think we can incorporate the show into an episode. And that's the balls rolling.
So why is that big?
Because it's a bad it's an established? Like, you're in the adventure club.
Am I gonna give it somebody says, Oh, yeah, no, I guess I'm the bad thing is sort of implies in the chain. And so I think that potentially, that's very basic. I would say that's the opposite of big. I think that's accessible. Well, I think you could find it the other way. As much as you could say, it's gonna be big. You could say guys, I'm keeping it real simple. There's gonna be a car park, you can go okay. So it's a very simple, that's okay. I'd love to do go karting as well if that could be part of it.
Lamont Oh yeah, I'm done off I can go there anymore. What did you do after the they were they looking for 120 kilos
I don't know who you are. I get I got a lot of trouble a month.
And so what about you a big update or just now I'm an update. So my big things are happening. Got a big thing planned up in all seriousness the book what's the book called? You're not listening. Do you know that you've resorted to missing 97 as your short term memory? Yeah, but he's your memories. My Evernote. Well, you had a meltdown yesterday. What about you ran out the wrong show title? race day. That was annoying. It took I was double like I was I had to double check. That's why I took so long to sort of like it's surprising because we've done it before and then you just like we correct it in show and keep going. We had guests on Yeah, but made sense. And so this book
The thing that I want to get if we got the Amazon affiliate sorted, yeah, I've set that up without bank account attached. Yes. Okay. So can we get a Can you put a link to the book from without Amazon affiliate link? Yeah. And then I'll go hard. In the Facebook group. We've got a Facebook group, if you go to facebook.com forward slash groups forward slash the daily talk show we have an exclusive group currently value to other people, which you will see the video of Mr. 97. What I'm thinking about cutting it off at 210 people absolutely not why to turn Well, I just wanted to try and get on and then reopen. Yes. Oh, it's closed anyway. It's a closed.
Anyway. So but what we can do is tonight, yeah, not to take away from everything that you're doing
general generation intervention, but we're going to do that book that has the book. We're doing that by going to start at 51. Which, what are the terms of writing a book like how does a book club with you
You don't know yet. Now, so you read in the month now. So the three months and this is where I'm been, I've been a little bit selfish. If I walk Yeah, and I've liked why. So that's my line. That's the big thing. I haven't started. But I definitely the big thing
for you is to post. So at the photo of the book, and I put the book next to my bed, so it's moved its way from the shelf to the next stage. And the next stage is opening it up. And so what I was planning on doing was getting a head start and wouldn't be right for me to announce the book. And I've already read it.
You haven't? I haven't been we're announcing it now. So what we'll do is what's the book called? The book is called not listening. You're not listening
to the authors now. Ironic. Yeah, when you can't remember the title.
But I read a good New York Times article about it.
So I can link to that in our Facebook group. So again, today, today, everyone, I want you to buy the book.
Through our link, and then put in the comments about the book. And then starting FEHB one, you have to start reading it. fabe 15 is the first conversation on the show about the book. I didn't know what's happening on the show.
Zero Can I bet it was okay, but you can get it off like a it's some kind of
zoom call. It was yesterday though. Yeah. Because that's where I can talk about it on the show and I do a group group chat on Nice. Nice on on Instagram.
Group calls, I will do something. Okay, I'll do maybe a groups. That's what I'm going to do. fact, this is good. I'll put it in. You know, I have this feature that you can join a chat in Instagram. So you can say join our chat. You click it and you go into a group, an Instagram group.
So what I'll do is I'll set that up today and say, Are you going to join Join Now click here, they into the chat. I then have the affiliate link. They buy the book, we get 3% and then I start
giving them more than one capsule.
I was blown away today when we're at your place and doing some filming and I went into your spare room. It's it's your book. It's the book room because that's where your library personal library, I looked at the bookshelf, couple things jumped out at me a lot of books. I was gonna say not enough books at the moment, a lot of books. Second thing jumped out of me. You spent more time colour coding that fucking thing that's writing books right? Yeah, so that was the effort because writing whites blacks red blue like it's it's better than labret To be honest, though. The it's sort of the dummy's way of organising. It makes sense to the eye. Yeah. Does it make sense to the whatever the topic is. I was looking at my
We decimal, oh my god system. I didn't even know I had the W and
the kid. And so And anyway, you can have a computer in there and you can type in your thing and it brings up the little code. So I've got the iPad for that. Yeah. And so that's what I was saying to 97. One thing that brain is going to invest in
not spenders Joshua invested, it's actually she's on board. Okay. We saw some great you know, that architects digest YouTube channel that obsessed with yet and so they have like people in their houses, and they all have really good books by capes or some of the ones that we love to have books everywhere. And so I was thinking, Okay, what does furniture cost? What does a good couch cost? A lot. 10 grand? Yeah. Well, it's a lot. Yeah, yeah, you can get it. And so writing is a wake up from an apartment point of view. We're not going to spend 10 grand on the couch. We spent 600 grand Briana
Let's get right back. Yeah.
It's but what we can invest in what's not going to change his books. And so from now until we buy our own place, I'm building the library. And so when we move into a place and we're doing the interior design assigned to 97, we're going to have a three bedroom vice. Brando have like a minor. Make sense. Then there'll be a second room, which is like a study and a third room, which is a guest room. And so if 97 ever stays, he,
it will basically arrive and they'll be a little mini bar of a tiger chocolate, which paid for at a stuff discount
and a soap and then the iPad. And the little soap. Yeah, like a cake. So okay. And on the iPad, there'll be a little note, and it'll say hey, serves and thanks for staying.
Where a book house and we like reading books
We don't watch that much TV, which is wrong. It's absolutely This is my TV.
Yeah. Okay, so.
So what you're doing?
And so the idea is that he can then say, I O own. I want to write a book. Yeah. And so he can go through see the library, see the catalogue, I will then even. I'm hoping that it's not a customer, but hopefully something by this time that can do this. But I want to select books. So it's like Joshua's pic of the week. So it's like, oh, I've even gone in said, This is what I think you would like. And so he said the iPad. Yeah. So I didn't even touch the book yet not. And so this is where it becomes bulky. He will look at the iPad. And then he'll be like, oh, Iran. I want to learn more about Iran. he clicks on it, it says bottom of the stairs. And then he goes in. He goes through like a little wine celebrate. And there's like all the books on Iran and
goes in and grabs it. When he takes that book, it's I get notified. And so I make sure that when he leaves, I take the book back and put it into the spot under the stairs. What do you think, is absolute quote for a guy that doesn't really read books? I love books nine.
Bill Gates loves books. He raised the raised bed got spends more time talking about reading books.
I think he reads a lot.
I mean, the interesting thing is, is 70 pages a minute. Yeah, he's a frake 370 pages an hour an hour.
righteousness and 170 then I tuned out.
But the thing is, I like reading. And I read a lot of things I liked, but I don't do. What's one thing that you like that you don't do. surfing. What's another one bike riding? Another
man going bouldering like, What's something that you say that you do or talk about or it's really good
I've stopped at work I mean scanning all these things that I don't escape all those things you don't never talk about. I talk about books. And so the uncomfortable pose that I don't say I'm a fucking scared, so you don't pose about anything. You'd probably have a better understanding of what you pose because I don't I think the posing is you're a bit dilute delusional about how you're actually think Tommy pose. Yeah, what do I post about?
fucking boring. This is really hurtful.
Oh, you don't have to be heavy, man. You have to fucking do anything. Really? Yeah, and I don't know, bits and pieces is not enough to me. I mean, I've got more visual evidence than you. Yeah. Then you're that's fair. But But what is the evidence? I've got more books. Look around you, man.
Yeah, we counted how long you spent building this wall behind this versus how much time I've read. I've read more than you have building me it didn't take that long. Anyway, so
really saw the walking through the seller into the isn't a great idea. I mean, let's talk we fucking kill it with this business
get that thing well and sorry other books. Yeah you know I've gone quiet on that. Oh no
no I get it I get it books kill it because of the house that he described was a fucking Manhattan mansion that's through it anyway to story at least the three bedrooms wine cellar It was a couch no no no no no touch 10,000 $10,000 in books
but you chose to get a two story imaginary for me
right we'll definitely have to hit a lot but the like as in you have to have vocabulary now. Yeah, but no, I think there's a
something nice about a bit. I think the thing about wine. I'm gonna ask you about I'm sorry, I just get let's make some noise. That's what I'm saying is I'm not going to have many wine bottles. I think like another
cellar or something like 100 bottles. So if 100 bottles at around 100 bucks a bottle, it's 10 grand. So you spend 10 grand on one guy hasn't even go to catch at this point. 10 grand. So if you spend 10 grand like, you have to replace those, but this is the thing how many times you're gonna drink them awake? Yeah, two bottles awake and then Anna. But I guess that's like the whole point is it's this there's things you don't have to have. The time it's all for show my uncle is into wine gets wine all the time. There's about 20 bottles. He dreaming is only gonna stash it like He's good. He's good stuff you don't like it's my point that the one thing was because it's like how much like wine could be 1500 bucks, but everybody's books. You can get a good book for $20. So I just wanted all six. Yeah, the generation intervention needs to happen to me now after this conversation. Why?
that's trying to bring it back. I appreciate the horoscopes. You talked about that another time.
What is happening with Dr. Scott if you if you enjoy the show mine sex and aggression was that made your whole horoscope? Well no, it kept coming up recurring, okay. This is on the generation individually
aggressively like is it was jemisin it comes on the passion it's built up there's a lot of tension young man Do you see someone I see so you as a passionate guy that's nice. I don't know guys it's but he's being sarcastic that you really hurt his feelings about it. So you sound like you're passionate about what you're very like. You don't walk into the room guy. Good morning.
Not like, I don't know if that means I'm not patchy. So
the reason that he hasn't had sex is because he's so passionate about this show.
He puts in more effort he could communicate his passion to me more about the show.
If you enjoyed the show, leave us an apple podcast review. And if you have only been listening, please go and watch the video. It's on our
websites on YouTube it's on Instagram. It's all over the shop. Thank you for everything you do. I actually think you are passionate now I think about it. We I mean we love it. I hope everyone Yeah, we do fall in love everyone has fallen. I love it. I love you too.
I love it. That's nice. Now it's my second thing I say that no and I did I don't say it much so it's got real impact.
Say tomorrow guys have a good one. Say guys. Bye