#767 – Being Romantic/
- June 21, 2020
We chat about Grace arriving in Melbourne, early day relationships and having romantic moments.
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show, we discuss:
– Grace arriving in Melbourne
– Early day relationships
– Romantic moments
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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 767. Again Banta What's going on? Happy Sunday. Happy How are you? Hello, Mike, etc.
This is the day that you're not happy, isn't it
though? I don't like Sundays. I've never really liked Sundays. I like
Sundays because it's roast day. And that's a new tradition.
What's the big deal then having a roast? Oh, yeah. Not sure having new girlfriend move to the same
Sunday, you know to finish the week.
My start of the week.
Are you feeling safe Z's?
I'm so excited.
I actually can't wait. So 6pm is that what it is?
Yep. Yeah, this evening.
You'll be picking grace up from the airport. We haven't discussed we
are here. What's happening? Fuck.
Yeah. Well, so we Yeah, we started So I haven't organised that but getting getting getting home sorted because we get a rental.
That's right. So you just go get UI there. So it will be it will be skybox. And this is a full integration skybox is a great service
how many bags will she have to two bags to pack she can. She's not bringing much
no it's pretty so like the pack everything into two bags is pretty solid or when
I moved to Sydney for my beautiful wife Amy. We weren't married then. We were just still a new flame that is just sort of emitting beautiful light and heat.
And now that is a fucking blowtorch. That's how much
I mean I mean, soy candle is about to run out.
Absolutely not. We've got like a full tank of gas just firing. Anyway. I remember I met there's a video about it actually. And I whacked everything into me Honda Civic My mom was crying. And she's going now is a special moment. So I could only imagine what it feels like for Gracie girl. And it is big. But then I had 11 hours to drive and think about it pulled out for sleep, food. Thought about stuff. But it didn't feel like it like it you know when you think about like, I'm moving. It's like yeah, there is that first moment but then you're into it's like doing anything. Oh, I miss going back to uni. It
really really is this worth it because I when I saw last night the psychologist the psychology degrees, like three and a half grand now yours. Psychology? Yeah. So they've just done a huge revamp of all of uni degrees comes degrees are going to go double. It's going to cost around $5,000. That's
It's all hex and it will take many years because it's one. She's still signed up. She's signed up now officially signed. Well how Officially locked in but officially applied? definitely look into
those so hex fake nurses a bit if you can lower the amount Oh, yeah.
Oh yeah, definitely
like these like main services and the psychology one I felt was very interesting because like, fuck if you can do that for three and a half grand a year, hmm,
what's the less hex by the end of it?
The half the point though,
that is so subsidised though is like for a mouse. It's such a big thing. But remember how long it takes to do it. So it's like the first you know, you've signed up like, it's almost like you want to prevent yourself from getting into the hysteria of like, I've done that. Well, I've just committed to doing under the
institution want to be a psychologist at the end?
Yeah, it will take 10 years or something but you have to you need to get you can do the doctorate at the end of it. But it's many years so it's
so in 20 years time you'll be living in a mansion.
Rental mansion. Hey,
No, it's it could take you 10 years I think if you were to do a doctorate very much part time like one subject two semester and
so what does it work out to be?
In terms of what? Georgia boys
come sit here Don't take my hot
seat, sir we'll just leave it leave Harry.
swans around the office
JP really wants you spot back but sit up straight when you go low Kitson take the That's what he said. Harry's words horrendous. So anyway know this psychology stuff's interesting.
But yeah, the other than just me looking for an opportunity to drop in my wife's achievements. Or you can, you know, think she's committing to, it's very much like I've been thinking about that sort of like, in your head. It's going to be this huge thing, but then for moving it's the same as like, yeah, for the first moment. And then it's like, I mean it will feel like a holiday to start with a full goal set goal setting to like when you think about getting somewhere you know want to be on telly. I want the hundred episode podcast. You're either about the time you that it's not what you thought it was, but then there's something else different Chinese 2000 it next minute 10 years insane that episode 808 No. They will have no time 24th of July 24 of July What is it says like 20 something days 20 something days?
No more 30
Okay, sir. 30 days like, around about a month ran about a month? I think it's
like 33 days or whatever.
Am I 100 What are we doing?
I reckon we could
strip is sorry.
Very very overtired that might have you been
no. any interest in going no. Okay, not even
just to see what the experience is like. No interest at all.
Okay, fair enough. I think just curiosity. Was it just being interesting. Thank you to my seven brain. No, I'd never know. But I just I just think it'd be an interesting thing more than like, how does the whole thing work?
Well, the poll spin that's all I know. Do the poll. So yeah, apparently the polls rotate history.
met at a theatre group whatnot.
I feel like Harry's really the only one out of us that can talk about it without sort of getting in is heaps of trouble. Did you? Did you ever do the pole thing as a male stripper? Yes. Actually, I can talk about this because all of those the strip that
I have spinal one. Is it hard? But have you ever been on a monkey bar?
Yep. I mean, but that's not
I haven't done it like a strip of wood. I have you seen the video of the lady who they had a stripper pole at a house? And it was you she was swinging around it dislodged like it? Yeah. Oh, The roof and she fell into it as a home job. Yeah, there was also
a video it was one of those polls show here
There must have been in Vegas like a 20 foot pole and there's this video of this poor girl who fell from the very top I showed me I was like someone sent my fucking look at this
ridiculously high g fold but then still keep working on the bottom. I was like oh my god that's pretty bad like right as one strip it to another fucking hats off.
I could get around like the silks you know when you dangling off silks.
Virgin active, you can go and do pole dancing. We could go and do it as a fun. I would love exercising,
which it has. Yeah, I'd like to give it a go. I've got
in saying that. Maybe not just thinking about my upper body strength. I've got no upper body strength. Never could do the monkey bars as a kid.
No, never been able to do a handstand. I'm a polling. We smell health.
Just skinny is a tweak.
JJ Could you do hands that
Like I couldn't hold a handstand? She could
no No, no, you can do a chin up. You can do a handstand.
Now, can we do an Insta story? Yeah, I
get I get I can try. I can do I how long do you want to stay at the handset for? It's more just a split second
or just four seconds? Yeah.
123 Yeah, that we can we can try it but I don't think we can we go So going back to grace for people who just started listening. Mr. 97. He's a producer on the show. He who you I'm Josh, and I'm Tell me and
and so Ray sitting like
you've got to So Mr. 97 found the love of his life, online. Grace. She is part of the gronk squad. She's been listening to the show for over a year. She's real, and she's a sweetheart. And so Grace is moving you've never met in real life. And so Grace is moving from Perth to Melbourne. And next week you are having the first ever annual leave that you've ever had.
Because this is your first ever job. Yep.
And this is your first ever girlfriend.
And so you're fired. You are very fired up. And so what's the experience like, explain how you feeling? what's the what's been the, the emotional roller coaster in the last couple of weeks?
I mean, yeah, I mean, it's a mixture of stuff. Like there's so much excitement and it's like, you spend all this time on FaceTime. So it's so nice to just be able to, you know, touch Yeah, just yeah, just to be able to play with each other that's not through a screen will be so nice. Yeah, I'll be able to go to bed earlier, which is good. Because you've been facetiming.
Now if Grace is okay with going to bed early,
yeah, we set a 1030 caffeine bedtime.
Yeah, curfew, you're running.
Well, I push for 10. But then I had to compromise for 1030 she likes to hang up like
white. So that means going being in bed.
I mean, so this was a thing because I wanted to be in bed by like nine ish 930 and then turning off the lights and going to sleep at 10. But I think it's more just like you're in bed at 10 and then lights out at
1030 Have you got like a, a bucket list or things so you're going to play Gary and the beach house.
Yeah, I know. We've been getting some messages from what's it called? The beach house beach house. Yeah. On Instagram. I didn't open them. What's going on? Oh, good. Before you leave, like if anything.
I think I think rod was just saying how much he appreciated the good audio on our podcast. Oh, Grant. Thanks. I was listening. It was just this it's the only podcast he listens to where it doesn't have to change volume or
that's not so and so yeah what's the sorry about that Stan no i like it now I'm
that wasn't me wasn't the herring was
me I hate me Chino okay Try not to
so the bucket list like what's on your mind what's the next week going to involve
i don't know i mean we haven't we haven't gone through a bucket list of what we want to do but I think it was just you know going on boss going to the beach just cooking all that sort of stuff.
What are you going to cook rice? Have you
not been nah bro lizard Oh my cat to blog era. That's a good
that's a good point. You doing those fucking nachos with Kane. Wow.
I can't wait for you to get a call from your dad. being like, you've taken the fun. And the favourite like you're not
happy? Yeah, no, I mean, poach steaks, that'll definitely be a thing.
You can do them in red wine like this.
Spit a bit of white wine vinegar.
But why don't any swirl? Yeah white vinegar?
Yes. Well you don't need a swell with video. Just leave it you should boiling It's fine.
It's good to spoil this is not it tell us about a cute Tom Josh from your relationship in the early days. They're just that sort of young love
But so many there's so many examples braces sitting on the couch
Valentine's Day. What year 2010 Yep, maybe 2009 actually 2009 I reckon, and I was picking her up from her place. And she got to the passenger side where she was going to be getting into the seat. And in the seat belt was a little stuffed
bear. Oh, big little
little The size doesn't matter like it was it didn't really matter it still. Yeah, I strapped to me. Okay.
And just on the bottom belt.
Yeah, okay. And the Bay in his arms was a McDonald's cheeseburger
that's crying. It's loud. It wasn't the way to brace hop right. Loved it. That's very cute. Yeah. So there was that. What What stands out for you?
I just got a text message from George who's on the couch next to Bri. And he said, Bri told him this story two days ago. I'm driving, Were you the one.
You told me that story two days ago as well.
It's a fresh story.
About what about something that's not on a day that was like obviously special that you just did something special because special things don't have to rely on special days. Sure. Take notes with
me. Thank you. Definitely stuff
once it's all about just taking notes, it's just taken note. I mean, she's moving to Melbourne. So what have you done? One time? Well, we were doing so. Oh, there was a long distance, but we were seeing each other so saves your facetiming but I mean, I we're having weekends together. And when we get to the Sundance, it's sad because it's like, Huh, we're gonna leave now I'm flying back to Melbourne and sounds a bit sad. That has to happen. And once she was mentioning something about shoes and we got on this that you know, it's like chocolate shoes. I don't know. We just somehow got onto chocolate shoes. I don't even know the origin of it, but I knew there was something special there. And she loves chocolate and she loves shoes. And then I saw a David Jones in Sydney, the fancy one in Bondi Junction, chocolate shoes. And now like Like meaning he may be five centimetres long beak
like happy practical
non edible chocolate shoes and now it was almost like five five centimetres long having
his was it strapped in I said that the small Teddy and you're like was a big like you're obsessed with like you that ruin my story because I couldn't say anything you should have just pumped it up you could have seen Teddy I didn't that wasn't that
I just really wanted to know how you strapped it in if it was really small, has that any like
just just about absorbs And so anyway, you got the five centimetre which there's very small,
quite small but still shoes and very sort of carrying over to what we were talking about. And so I bought them when she was having a nap and brought them back to the house. hid them in a shoe shoe cupboard at the back. And so when I left and I was back in Melbourne, as I can be fancy, she's not not
bad. Find our data bit so small smelted
now they're out the back anyway, she found them
back with a little bit of prompting,
with a little bit of problem.
Like the fact this is a giant age, I think I'm a romantic guy. But nothing is coming to mind on
being a romantic guy.
Here's the thing, guys. I think the romantic pneus can come out like you've been in relationship for 13 years.
Mm hmm. Forget about it. No, I'm joking.
No joking. But it's it is effort, romance, romance, being romantic in the early days is the easy bit. So if you're not romantic in the early days, you fucked up because it only gets harder. life becomes normal, living together, sleeping together, all that becomes normal. And so you got to dig deep when you're sort of in the trenches, you know,
like a slightly romantic thing was I surprised Bray with wood wanting to go to the US? Yeah. And I bought the tickets and surprised her on Christmas. That's a good, that's fun. That's real good. That's the, I mean, the sort of the downside was that part of the reason that we hadn't booked them was she was worried about asking her work for the annual leave. And so I sort of forced her hand so it was sort of like they were having a spat. Yeah, I was like, yeah, and so she was, um, she asked if we could change them. said, No, we can't change up leaving that place.
I mean, I have a saying, which was like, cute. It was cute as fuck. Cute is fuck.
Cute if, yeah, but
I got I got her a singlet printed screen printed. That said cute as fuck. I
think she still has it. She's like, Oh, my God.
I gotta get her a nice purse from Billy Graham. She gets compliments all the time. It's great.
That's not That's nice.
What are the things? How are you have you ever done anything romantic?
No no, I don't think I have I got a mama gift voucher for wine once but it came with a Cogan delivery does that count? It was like buy 100 bottles spend $100 on wine three coke and you get $5 off so it's just you got it you're gonna
play the bass or you just
need a mum.
I mean, I peeked it at my proposal,
which I guess is a classic
because I I had to get I had a talent agent you know in the case I get a fake email drawn up to be able to show up as in sent to me Sorry, not even brought up written up sent to me by this lady who helped. And I showed I was like, man, landed the gig. gotta gotta Sydney.
The sad reality didn't navigate.
I had no gig. And so I said, I look I've been booked. I was booked on out unconscious,
I think you'd say on neighbours
to insane events, I was super low level. So I was like, almost believable. Like, they're just paying for the flights. I've had that before where I've been paid, you know, to go and stay somewhere and do that. And so she, I knew that would not throw off. You know, she wouldn't start sort of thinking What the fuck? And she gets to go home to Sydney to say I might. So I was like, great. I need to book her on a separate flight. That's not Qantas. Because I've told her that I'd been booked on Qantas. I was like, all booked. I think I've been able to book you the same time, but just with Veronica. And maybe it was I think I went virtual bus. I think I went virgin, but at the same time, and so she had no idea. And so I had the idea of where I wanted to do it where we first sort of started sitting when we were hanging out together. And yeah, we just got a cab to the spot. And I was so nervous. I was like, let's just go get a hot chocolate from this nice place. So now you like and then we're going to kill a bit of time before we get to this place in double buy my. I told her that's where we had to meet because her the woman's office who sent the email to me is in alibi, so nothing got nothing in her head. And then we went to the beach into this into this spot on the harbour and did it there. But I packed her favourite dress for that night tonight, and I had known that we're going to go celebrate this area, and we go to friends to come. And so it was like we hadn't told them. So there was the multiple surprises, Amy got the surprise of the engagement. And then we hadn't told her mates but we're like, oh, we're staying here. You should come. We're drinking on the rooftop. Looking over the Sydney Harbour. You'd love rooftop trees. inside. Good. All right, George. George is nodding. Real it's real good as if you didn't like drinking at the rooftop at the standard in New York City looking over the Hudson River. It was nice. Here's lovely I reckon you'd appreciate it two more now. She said yeah
they can be a little romantic things.
Yeah it doesn't have to be big stuff that's why I did the shoes thing and the mic it should tie the other weekend for Bri felt like tie. She compromised so we had time. Yeah, I mean I'm that's romantic. I'll give it because you got to do that. You got to dig deep. What like it's like in the trenches,
but saves me bedtimes. I compromise.
Yeah, but it was so weird that what some big level romance that you can do.
Yeah, I mean, maybe you been taking note mental note. She likes what
rested how little you've done for Bray, I feel bad,
I think is definitely highly beneficial for you at that point, you know, I've been my problem too, because I'm like, Fuck, sweetie, you would love this, but it's like, I know I'll fucking love it. And so the
the I get the problem with like, Like, I don't I don't like doing surprises because I always reveal them. Like I just can't. I shouldn't really surprise.
I'm the same.
He was so annoying. I just it's odd rather than No, you know? Because then you don't have to worry about making
memories feeling bad for me. She's now texting me things that I've done.
Now this is good because no, but maybe you are the big cutie that you don't even think that you're doing the Qt thing.
Yeah. Well, I wanted to book us Miley Cyrus ticket. And I asked her boss for her to take the Friday off. So to go to Sydney, or this is rather the story and her boss at NIH.
But you decided Didn't you maybe what about I
mean, ended up going the next time I think we saw Molly and Melvin we're not trying to get Josh into a corner.
That's not what we're doing. I'm trying to think
the other I mean the the proposals an easy one because he is
shooting but what I'm saying is I'm also i'm also saying no but then I'm in the cave. For me, is that that was early days of a long distance relationship where we were seeing each other. And it's early day relationship. You're trying to woo and do things. What have I done? What can I pull on? At the moment?
I don't know. It's just maybe on Thursdays I'm now getting the coffee's in the morning.
Sorry, I just lost it. I've been there. Well, I find that so funny. Can we just
okay if we're all useless in the current state, not early day relationship because I'm sure you guys have been together.
I did I cold Love Song dedications.
Got it? What about Yeah, that's great. What about the you went to 320 seguro the perfume joint when you were young? Oh, yeah. You
know, I bought Brea underwear from her but she was working in brows and things and pray things that this is highly embarrassing, but I went to her boss and said Hi, I want to get a little something something and it was a little it was slightly weird because It was sort of it was her dad's wedding. And I surprised her with some jewellery and a registering
what you're wearing tonight, sweetie? Yeah. I was
just for the reception party after the wedding.
So that's good. But then what so what is something so what makes up a romantic moment? It is thoughtfulness. It's putting someone before you it's thinking about something they would love before what you would love that's my problem. I do this shit where it's like it's a joint thing
like so many romantic moments on our world trip. Yeah, it was all based on like, Oh, we both want to go to Slovenia or we both want to do these things. Sylvania wins, winning. Right. Like played beautiful.
Yeah, I mean, throw a kid into it toads pretty
in like bled
I know I mean, just into the into the romance debacle that was like, No, I think it is a debacle later in life like
I want to pick this out I want to fix this. Yeah, that's right. I want to just do it. What can we do? I could make the bed in that like so there's all that real small things but they're all very admony I think there's like,
I think we all we can do while booking a restaurant like for you as a big gronk it's like break coming home and you've cooked you've put in the cooker, a beautiful meal and Bree knows that you're you're a bit of a pain in the ass when it comes to cooking. And I've claimed that would be the big thing. I think the other thing too is she loves not nothing like it you don't
even want to be he can cut your finger off.
Not be slicing on the three fingers. The the one I was going to say was the the the Bibi onions is actually right over the onions like Bray wants me to cut the onions because she cries every single time. And so it's a big dog that weighs goggles.
goggles. But when he
does it does it go through you know,
writing the math, you get a slice of Britney Sydney.
Perry sourdough. It would be nice. It's Yeah,
you have it hanging out of you math and it absorbs all the fumes before they get to Europe but yeah,
okay. I remember I am offices. Yeah. Did you remember if you remember, Ray just just texted me. I wish I had
just run a mouse. Yeah.
What have I done romantic code? Yes, babe in a meeting.
The selected colour. It was it was income.
It was Fun. I think it was fun. I call my son bitch and
that seems to go down. No. So what I did do was I am
How are you? And even in that fucking meeting who's been talking to
lots of people
No, so I actually remember this. It's it's a bit sly. But when Brian and I were just friends, I got a visual diary. So you know like the ones that you get like a big visual diary like a fright. You've been pushing for one for you. What are you laughing at saves?
Right What romantic story starts with a brace just off camera guy. It's
justice just mirroring it. Yeah. Yeah. I can tell the story. there so the mics too low. It's annoying the Academy. Okay, there we go.
Damn before didn't know I pulled it up.
I can. No So what happened? So I have this visual diary. And I am and it was black and I used a metallic pen. And I wrote it in it. This is before brain I was dating. I drew like a mind map. And it started off with like, how do I get Brie as my girlfriend? And I did all of these arrows cam show it was like real sad stuff like hang on way was Bray she know about this fucking mind map. So this is the thing is very key. I saw I did this mind map. And then I just put it somewhere where she would officially wish she was when I was just under the bed. And then I'm pretty sure I was like oh, we should do a studio ads and can you just go get my Oh
no, no, no, no, no, no,
no, not that book. Not that book. No, no, no, that's not what's in this book. I'm like, No, don't look at the book. It's a mind map
drawn a possible roadmap of how we compete against gang. Shot. Yeah. So that was that but now I've done that romance, romance romance. Let's just spend 30 more seconds on Okay, what
would something romantic be that you would like Bray to do not
she does it or like it's stuck around like so the problem with me is that I always go to financial things. So I always go into like spending like spending money is my love language.
Yes. Are you spending money on Bri? Yes, or just spending money in general but maybe we're getting into something. It's a love language, what is it for the individual? Sure. So what is it for barrelling very appreciate
quality time and acts of service. And so if I was to go get a coffee, that would be a win if she was with that being asked.
Yes. But even like it that falls into by like doing a break. We're not recording shows on Friday. We're going to dial in for the way.
I'm very good at math. So I've always been like, you know what I've been like with weekends. I've always been like, not don't do work on weekends, just chill, all that sort of thing. But what's funny?
He's laughing. He's sneaking
TVs. But I remember every time I would travel, I've travelled a bit.
I went to specific mobile everywhere. Name his name a city.
Yeah. 13 cities in counting.
Anyway, we're counting on that.
All right, sorry.
No, so San Francisco. No, no, no, no, no. So you were in San Francisco. That's the story. You bet.
So when I went to San Francisco on the like I would went to Macy's. He's a fun fact to go to Macy's. Give them your passport, they'll give you 15% off, right? Give them your posh army passport and then like get your internet. You have a 15% Macy's Is that like a department or something? Anyway, so I remember I got brain Nike shoes. I it was just, it was almost like a Bogan pack. Anytime that I would travel. It's like, I got I got her watch. I got it like all of this stuff. And the funny thing is, you can go back through Brady's Instagram and archive it if it's been archived. There is love that luxury. There's
would be no love that
she would take a photo and be like, so good that Josh is home, and to photo like, bed spread with all the shit that I got it like it's like,
it's also the sad Instagram of a kid whose parents nonstop travel for work and all they've got to show Is the shit that they got when they're away
Why remember their real sad movie storyline isn't
in Singapore saying that they're sort of was that it maybe it had that vibe,
but he was fucking having a good time and he's making up with Nike I don't want to
run Singapore again but in Singapore when we did that once in a lifetime opportunity the the private room a lot of wealthy people there were used points. The guy there was a guy that was like speaking to his kid on the phone. And he's like, oh, no Daddy will buy you whatever you like, whatever you want. What do you want? Like just tell me now and I'll get like, come on, speak to anything. No, no speeches at night. Come on. Come on, get in the kids. I literally thought now what do you want? You know, I was like, Ah, that's a bit sad MacBook Pro Retina display. Absolutely. No,
I want the touch bar.
But make sure it's got the one terabyte
SSD because I won't be able to yeah
yeah. iPad Pro with stick
pencil now what's it What's another one? What's another funny thing that you get? Well what's that like if it's something very niche
I find 11 Is that what you what have you got? I got the
products useless I don't have Instagram got nothing
quite looks good though quite looks great I should be getting my luck licence in the next week
ah that'll be exciting yeah so I'll be able to
do I don't know I told everyone but I've worked out how to tie the shoe laces and not get the not really
so I was I was catching using Velcro
no I'm not have you have you been a Velcro kid I could have anything
I didn't have my head tamashii laces until about Easter dude on on Fairfax camp which was an arts camp
like think about Brody's got velcros now he's three stay that way couldn't have Jordan he could do it. Now. I recommend you to teach him now
and I recommend why you have to be released. Five years old.
Those kids Yeah, well beyond five.
I think Velcro shoes is sick nowadays for young kids
good time. It's good to learn for the pay. I want to get that in the notebook. Yeah
orokin grab it there's an app Get it? I said
no, but he weren't learned or taught by fucking times how to do an office like the half hitch. You literally need to be like okay, Bri I'm getting out. Sorry. It's not romantic, but I've got not training. Bible God not training for 30 to five. I'll put in the calendar. I know you like that shit.
That's true. being organised, accepting callin bots. That's Yeah,
it's remembering shit.
Oh, it would be good. I'm gonna design something romantic to do that I'm gonna do in three months. Just do three months.
You don't need you don't need to go big or small. Go small. Go hard go this way. Okay, as the next
Let me think about it and be thoughtful.
could do it today because you think the week
so the problem is that anything that I suggest I feel like it could be deemed sorry if I got any form of food delivered to you instantly from it. Yes, even
what is Bray like that you don't like that is the most romantic
thing in romance about doing something that you don't like, but
romance romance, to some degree is self selflessness. And so it's about like,
what is it love? Or what do you think woody? What's the I? What could you do for me? That's romantic.
Give us some time by yourself.
She gets up every morning at the moment that she's been doing that not this morning, but he really what happened if it ran down? Where's mommy? Well, Mom, mommy. It's always messaging me again. She's saying booking and going out to dinner. That would be nice
without the bullshit that you spend but now without the like, you almost needed to drop the light. How long for who we gonna say like,
make sure we get a table where we don't say anyone
all that like yeah, you gotta try. If you could just understand that it's a visceral reaction, which it's and then it hacking you like go
but is it too hard? Is it is it unromantic? Yeah. Because it's been suggested to you yeah, yeah, definitely you get it right cuz he can.
I think that's something so Bray has been every single morning and
blowing up the tos in the eye 30 like pumping up the tires and the author Yeah, just
change change the oil. And what about fluid isn't a fluid?
I could I could. Actually that's fucking right. I'm going to put new windscreen wipers because like it's not it's not the water issue Ray was saying. During the wake when we went to Roseville, she said that the whole glass is foggy And she says it's the windscreen wipers correct. So I need to get windscreen wipers so I'm gonna do that. I'm going to order them
now fuck that go to order
which is like my eyes
on the front. Can you help? What do you think about my? What do you think I do about my bike bridges had just booked the cost of
booking it and taking it
it's not romantic but it is something that Bray always brings up the fact that you get to return your iPods. Yeah, you're not romantic, but I just I just feel like he works to it if you make headroom on all these little things and it's it's quite nice. And so
I'm just trying to think of because I feel pretty inadequate as well. Mother's Day like that's a day that I've relied on like
so you take it you do.
Mother's Day bad luck. I nearly did ledger just a bit grumpy in like no no shouldn't be any pancake. Like,
I knew I was
making them. I was like, it was really like I was like, how did you I know it
was like you say, what do you want for breakfast? And she said pancakes, Julie like, No, no, I didn't know.
I was like, anyway, I was
The absolute bit this is I went down and I made toast avocado, eggs, scrambled eggs like pancakes, orange juice, and set out a picnic on the table. Bodie and Amy come down and we will have a picnic. It's called like a picnic breakfast where you're just telling yourself how she does this. Well, you know, because I fucking I was just being a bitch. And I was like, No, I just I felt like it was dumb. I was I better just override that feeling. Yeah, it was like it's not about me. And so but I had to fucking work at it. And I nearly fact that royally just imagine you just fucking throw in the towel. Yeah,
that's the thing.
The point is you end up like you enjoy not too bad if you've had a good meal, Cashman bottom zone I mean, that's about you but it's like Mason cantana What about my braid? You want to go to Mexican Cantina tonight? But that's, that's is that
maintains that Yes. What did she say last night Harry?
I don't think he sails romantic. No, but she was there many many moons ago. What did she say she wanted for dinner.
What does she was she craving?
I don't know. But I think Mexican teen canteen is very remained at the
point of the season. What's something that you unbraid did years and years ago, it was amazing.
And you like Krispy kremes and get fucking 6000 and just smash it.
Now but something where you be somewhere we've driven Yeah, something there. I think you'll I mean, you're you.
connect dots you need to connect dots from years ago and then just sort of make the data bit bigger. Why don't we go I find out where all her exes live and we drive around Hollywood to a little too. That's pretty funny as fuck boy.
What about it? Like a full block of photo album book?
to it? So February 30. I did do the big photo. Yeah, but you took them down three
days later, they fell down. Yeah, the blue tack didn't stick. Put them in a book.
That's right. Well, yeah, we have talked about that.
Yeah. I think when you go on walks, that's romantic on there, but what are you gonna
say? What are you gonna do? What are you gonna do? Like you need to this is your time to shine. You need to show grace what
you've done. It's easy.
But so but he's not explaining any of it.
We'll do I need you I need I don't need to enter.
That's the whole thing. You're gonna like you touch your brain. We can talk about attach her shoulder and she'll be like, Ah, okay.
No, no no and romantic things to do as a couple.
It will come naturally.
It's the it's it's the things like having like making brekkie like I think it's those and going on a walk and going for like, you know, a picnic,
that sort of stuff. And so you'll clean up as well clean up.
What about what about Catherine? Kim? They did he pop listens together.
What does that I mean, I've done that. Yeah, that's kind of really romantic. Doesn't feel romantic, romantic. There's like, so let me run you through the 99 romantic things to do as a couple. I won't do 99 I'll just start with maybe 10 pull out a couple number one bring a picnic to the park. Yeah, watch the sunset. Is that good? It rains a paddle boat. We've done that as well.
Yeah, Bri actually
did that in Slovenia on like, bled it
it was awful content at that point for the
Take it dance class.
No. See, I told you no one. Like I should have a girlfriend.
Oh here we go find a fireplace to your home town that the fireplace wants too much about you go to a spa go to go to a fondue restaurant Yeah,
what's fun do
it's like dip things it's gonna be chocolate oh
actually it's not chocolate to begin with it was the fundo is the cheese one which I've never seen or really it was cheap it's a cheap things and then they then they go to the I mean, I mean they have a chocolate fondue but wouldn't want to try cheese on one day. Make a fort cute. This is going to take a ride in a horse drawn carriage so that's something that I'm you know, I should do? You can do horse horse riding that's really nice. Take a pottery class see if I just surprised me with a pottery class very few fucking loser mine.
What's that movie?
I was thinking Dirty Dancing with I like make the verses. That's good. No,
that's ghost ghost is the one bye
Okay to film clips have taken off I'm pretty sure this is go to a local bed and breakfast. Go to a drive in movie.
The racetrack thing does not finish. No no no. Where they ride the horses what's that called? firming do to the mountain car? No. At Flemington that turning it into a driving concert venue. That's great.
You can do that. That's cool. Yeah. What else
make to get dinner together from scratch walk through a botanical garden that Yeah, we do that every
weekend. Go to
go for a hot air balloon ride. That's real cute. capita. Yeah, go to a vineyard. Rent a plush hotel suite for the evenings fuck I mean swim with dolphins very cute. Take a whole dancing class. Wow. Watch fireworks. Oh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean you That's it.
Yeah, practice yoga in the park. Go to a new coffee shop, go on a ferry ride. Watch a romantic movie write letters to each other. I mean, that's a that's a missed opportunity for a lot of us. Simple note to each other like,
yeah, pick these fucking clothes up
next time. Watch old home movies, paint a room.
This has turned into admin.
Nintendo, plenty dream vacation, make breakfast turn your power off. Really scraping it now,
turning your hair off.
Turn, elaborates on it. Turn your power off. act as if you don't have power. And as the sun goes down lights and candles and turn off television and phone do we call the power company
to stressed just like Bray
Would you like me and we lost. Nicole.
like you've really removed remove the romance.
Last time, bake a cake dance. Take a break. Bubble Bath during bath tree. Dream drink some champagne honey, hand fade each other chocolate. Oh
here we go tag them in a main
good old days of Facebook that is conduct packing lunch one that conducts con conduct a year in review. Alright, here we go break a record.
Guy play. Yes,
Oh yeah. How bad see if we hit the KPI. Was that my
rent a limo? What are your fuck boy?
With the year IV, CP he
was about four times ago.
Yeah, rent. Just pump through them quickly.
Yeah, go to where you first met.
That's cute. How I'm secondary.
Yeah, probably not take your partner in crime. Zoom.
first time you met first man. Let's just chat on DMS for a bit
Build a campfire and make s'mores. That's a good one. We could do s'mores on the gas take your party partner to a cooking class. You know why comedy show cat? paints and pottery play and then really just recycling doing pottery then paint. What else? Let's get down to the hundred thought.
I started no idea I don't think goes to 99 died from idi please Okay.
ideate visit a bookstore. Love that. Taking a good one. Class I would go to Byron,
I go to go to a morning movie. What are you 70? Was that one or a parent? Go to a morning movie. Man volunteer to walk dogs at a local shelter. Are you a good person? Yeah, Mike. For the dumps. Yeah, make homemade ice cream.
This is I've got a great one. record a love message on your partner's phone. set an alarm for the time when you're not around saying check your caught at slash voice memos. I like oh, that's
that's very sweet way I am. Hi, Mila.
Dawn This is dancing the Rhine at 93 go to Carrie go to a karaoke bar. It's kind of cute. learn a new language a bit hard. Go to a film festival. Go to some open houses.
I love what so we can have a blow up about what we want.
I got stuck in an elevator and Ivan has import fairy. They had to pass. Yeah, I think I missed it. Oh no house and it had it had three stories
in the lift. His mom specifically told me not to
know. The real estate agent helped me. So 98 people watch somewhere outside where a lot of people tend to walk by crazy backstories people as they pass by
your love you do that? Yeah, yeah, that's a big one. Go thrift shopping.
This is the ultimate treasure hunt. You never know what you're going to find. And it is a fun thing to do with your partner. And you can share the thrill
I feel like the problem with the thrift shopping for me as it becomes this magic thing where I buy 50 books my whole days whole days. I'm worried that the bloke next to me is going to take them
I recommend that I've done that with you
all recognise I reckon you being selfish. You think about books that's what you want from a thrift shop. I reckon it's close though. Like it's all about. Imagine trying on clothes at a thrift shop.
not about you would bring it to a
thrift shop. Oh, oh.
I spend a lot of time on the timeout website. Royal Botanical Gardens actually have a little gone to LA is that with a co we have the main up the back, steer in the BART into life. At the Botanical Gardens, what about that?
look cute fishing on a boat. There's lots of stuff.
You know, it's a daily talk show. Good luck sibs. I think taking off the week. Yep.
And you'll leave any any final words.
Danny hand over, Doc.
Ah, well, I've got a checklist so it's close enough should be good.
I'm just in the loop with everything.
No, I should. I should um, Lupron should jump on a zoom just
Yeah, real big. No.
I get it. real big a man happy. How happy is he? It's annoying.
Not gonna, and he's gonna come back at home.
That's what he's gonna look like next week. Yeah, he comes back from holidays. Just refreshed.
Yeah. I'll be able to sleep now as well. That's true.
Fucking Oh dad. I didn't sleep much the first
couple years of my relationship.
Weekends were like see each other on the weekend. A lot of catching up. Just hanging out, loaded just banging up next to each other sniffing
For somebody it's not crazy. You'll be the first time you smell each other.
Yeah, do you know what? joke Dude, I was into it? We had a joke. I was like I was so into Amy's sniff face the whole like, she would smell good to me, Amy just her skin and her smells great. I love it. Yeah.
that's I think what it is dude. I'm just like fac really into your sniff.
of the shampoo. Could be but it's all those things the connection of like a perfumes
A token my language.
Tommy said to be my second a basis. He's loving it loving them. Yeah. Thanks for coming on. And thanks. He's gone through and done all of our episodes. You named it
Legend viewing next week. Yeah. very confused. Boy. Oh,
yeah, no, I'm half asleep. Hi. I had two coffees yesterday. worst idea I could have had from AZ Mart. I love me at my coffee and Chai. And they they know me by name now, I know the feller how low is that that you recognised in your local AZ map? The crazy thing
is, I think it's a coffee comes from you know, Shane, but yeah, you still need to know the table there.
Yeah, because I always have problem with my tapping. I'm like, hard. Sunday. Way too quick or what? No, it just doesn't register. So got a call Bendigo Bank in new one. Yeah, shoot. Oh, shoot, actually, what's the pushback? I don't think there's any pushback. I just I'm I'm with Bendigo and I can't be bothered changing. That's screwed up.
appease girl. Yeah, Abby's been Yes. I'll send you a referral code. Thank
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Ross case was saying that Bank of Melbourne and giving people 50 bucks if
I go Bank of Melbourne did say that.
I think there's potentially a minimum deposit. Absolutely no, I think the texts are out there also a decent bank just in terms of that and invest in them. Fossil fuels so it's been Yes, yeah. Ben Yeah. Bendigo and Adelaide which apps connected, like comm bank and stuff.
Can I use multiple referral cards? No,
no, I'm getting five bucks. So George is gonna get me five bucks and he gets him five bucks. So we can both get a coffee together.
Yeah. We've also got to get the mugs from from dum
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to daily talk show. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday everyone and we'll see you on Monday. Just TJ and I, yep. Happy Harry. We might even join us. Yeah, okay. Okay, great. See you tomorrow, guys. Have a good one.