#673 – Four Bedwetters/
- April 10, 2020
We chat about our Hot Cross Buns Fat Friday order, wetting the bed, emotional push back and George getting angry.
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show, we discuss:
– Fat Fridays
– Wetting the bed
– Watching your first MA15+ movie
– Parents and going home
– Emotional push back
– George and getting angry
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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 673.
What's happening guys? What's going on? Happy? Friday? Yes, Friday. It's Good Friday. It's fat Friday. It's Friday night drinks. All of the above. We said yesterday. Well, I think you pushed it Josh. It's about Friday. So we're bringing our hot cross buns aren't we? Or am I the only 1am i the only loser that's rocked out?
I got told to come in dress up and it's not
Don't worry I've I fall because if I wanted to hate him hop I use my sandwich press. put any pressure on them. Do you want it? It's an absolute nightmare. The
ban with that, but that was
beautiful boys. Did you did you bring anything? No.
No. Well, we meant to bring Hot Cross Buns or just any thing, anything? Well if you have George
races Oh yeah.
Oh, Butter Cups.
Yeah. Which I've never had before, but I forgot will bring something and luckily, my sister's boyfriend brought that home last night so I took him this morning, if you ask, oh, you just gank them. Well, that was sort of a gift for whoever one of them so I claimed them really dodgy
George dodgy Georgia and straight up. Yeah, I've
never had races before. But Josh, I know you love him.
Yeah, they're mad. I'm pissed that I don't have them. I
can we just um, the four of us end in the comments on YouTube. In my right hand, I have the top side of the hawk cross band in my left hand I have the bottom side of the cross band, which I am a top or a bottom. Either top has the cross on the bottom with no cross. Which one I top or bottom
is just saying I'm just press record. Slight slight delights can be annoying for you, but that's no that's okay. I can
What um, what do you Josh top
look for me? You can't really tell I I'm a bottom guy.
mainly because I think that there's more stuff in the bottom. Yep,
yep I'm a bottom guy to George. Bottom guy top. Yeah,
yeah bottom for me.
Yep, abs saves top guy. Really guy?
Yeah Nice little thing on the on the top it looks nice. Yeah, it looks
nice but what is it
what is it? I don't know what is that some icing thing? Not awesome that's for sure. That's for
sure. It's like when you thought shortbread was savoury
sits down honey sweet.
I am Amy just Amy's a top girl. And
it really you want to have one needs to be born and one needs to be tough. That's the rule.
it's pretty, pretty sad if you're both down the bottom What do you do? Josh what's great?
What we never share so I wouldn't I'm under strict instructions because we got three h I've had I've had two of mine This is my final one. And so I was under strict instructions and not to go beyond my sort of my allocation.
The thing about hot corresponds are it almost feels like it the visual that comes to mind is a sock down a drain pipe and it clogged like that's how it makes my insides feel because it's so like hot corresponds to dense and they've got you know the fruits and they can get your stomach you know, just a bit fired up. Horrible for someone who's gluten intolerant. If I ate one of these I could imagine it would just be all over like you can get gluten free ones but obviously I could imagine
just saying top always show back at Alex is saying bottom Shannon's bottom Grace's bottom. And Casey his bottom plane is
a lot A lot of bottoms a lot of bottoms. Yeah.
Yeah, last night
a lot but I love bottoms.
You are about them. I want to know I
feel like did you ever do sleepovers as a kid? sleep overs? Josh Did you?
Yeah, I went to bed until I was like 11 and so it was sort of it was annoying but I feel like as soon as I got to high school all of a sudden I don't know what happened oh, you just sort of stopped using the bed which is really handy. Oh,
you know this sweet story it's The Sweetest story that all that will ever be told. And it was an I don't remember it. But I used to wet the bed Josh as well had all had everything I had the alarm system that was this rubber mat that when you read it would go off. I had always had to have the protective sheet on just it was so annoying. So annoying. And anyway, I was quite late as well Josh I don't think it was 11 it's probably like Ice went on. And I remember with my mom like I remember going to like places to get help before. And I said to mom one day I think it's time. It's it's enough. Like we were crying or something. I was like, Mom, I think it's time and then I never wet the bed from then on really so it's either I'm an absolute little shit and I was doing it on purpose. I just said I'm over it, or, I don't know something turned amount of seeing the pain that it was causing my mom when she was having to clean the sheets every every morning. I feel like George you would have been a bed wetter.
You're actually right actually actually was
the light, quite light as well. So we will open wetness? Yeah,
yeah, because we've done an episode that was cold. Wet is one of the criteria of if you want to be a gronk and there's nothing more gronk ish than wetting. The bed is
can we can we get a chicken in the YouTube call it Susan who's a bad way to put your hand up? Yeah hands up for bed weathers laying into its bed wetters you not and then tomorrow we'll do cold sore, cold some herpes, you know that? No because the reason I bring up the the sleep thing is because I remember like coming home from a sleepover and being absolutely exhausted like it was before you you drink and so there's a difference between getting smashed and then the next day sort of feeling hung up that's a different feeling. But when you've just had sort of minimal sleep, and you just feel like it's almost feel a bit fluey it feel like you're a bit hot all over you know, that's, you know, sensation. It's almost like you're feeling your sinus to that's what I've got today. Because last night, Bodhi and I camped outside.
Oh, that's right. Yeah. Would you are the How long did the laptop last before it ran out of battery
Well, it lasted until I told him that he has to turn off because he wanted to, he would have pushed through. He was the kid that wanted to stay up real life. And I was the kid which wanted to go to bed, which was usually the case like it's still pretty true to form. I always wanted to go to bed when I was at sleepovers
and so it was a much noise. What was the experience like overnight Bodhi is not used to it obviously. And he was moving your batteries you're normally sleeping the tent one every few days.
Yeah, it's the dog house. It's actually says it on the song.
No, but I woke up he woke me up probably 20 times. And so I just feel like I've had facto sleep and then this morning, tried to take him for a little bike ride. And he just lost it. He was so cranky, and so he along with waking me up must have been waking himself up. And he's just absolute. He's rubbish
was on there as well. No, it's just by the sheets. I don't
know, did she? What did she call it early?
No, she never committed to it. I said I wanted to. And she had a phone call. And so then, like Bodie almost didn't stay in the tent. We got in we watched this movie. I, I said, you know, Spider Man. homecoming. It's, it's a good one. It's on Netflix. Anyway. Well, that one's I think it's be close to PJ we skip forward when there's any scene where anyone sort of dies. You know,
is he like at the end of it? Like Where did everyone go?
He knows all the characters, Peter Parker is Peter Parker. He knows there's Tony Stark. He knows all of them.
It's great. It's pG 13. It is great.
Can you check the next one? The idea? It's just
a wife away from something far from Yeah,
five. Do you guys remember your first ever sort of that ma film that you went and saw
Oh yeah, two girls one cup.
jackass for me.
Oh, jackass. That was a good one. Well, he was.
I reckon that would have been
nice. 2005 maybe?
Still? No, we couldn't allow you to be how old 15 Yeah, so if you were 15 you would it would have been 2007 or so. Sorry. Yeah, it doesn't seven.
And so Bodie got out of bed and went upstairs. And I thought, okay, I'm sleeping in the test by myself now, Josh. And so I was going to push through because I was like, Nah, I'm just gonna stay out here. I might get a good night's sleep. This could be nice. It's quite
fresh. It's like that rich roll. You know?
He sleeps in a tent. Yeah,
yeah. Yeah, I have to. I have to sleep in my tent. It makes me you know, so grounded. Anyway, and then I hit he this door. I hear the door open and Bodie runs out. gets back into the tent. And then we went to sleep. Tried to at least.
anyway, that just threw me right off. For today. I haven't felt great
not feeling good.
Well, not just irritable, you know, like just a lot lack of sleep.
Knowing my photo thing is still the same thing, which is like if I'm struggling to get a good photo, I just I get real grumpy embrace like, this is my favourite part of the day. You need like, just just be be be calm about this. I just get really desperate. Like I helped a guy for like 15 minutes, trying to show him where Richmond is. I think he was looking for the ladies dealer or the safe injection injecting room. But I helped him for like 15 minutes. I never would do that normally, but I just did it because I knew that I would get a good photo out of it. I'm a bit of a scumbag like that.
I mean, this is the thing. Creativity is painful like you want You're going, you're putting yourself through this pain because you want to get something great, right? And so, when is a time in your life where there isn't a pain isn't internal pain? Or Yeah, I'm
always I always just look back at things in my car. That was amazing. But every bit of travel after everything I've done, there's always been some form of stressor. But it's not about, you know,
do you think it's your personality? Like, are you just you? Like, I'm not saying I don't do that?
Yeah, I think I can. I'm pretty wide. And so because I'm wide, like I'm always like, I think it's my expectations. I go into everything with ridiculous expectations. If you have high expectations, and that's not met, then that's why it's disappointing.
What are your expectations around the photos?
That I get 10 photos each day, and there was a conversation that brain I had, I'm like, I took like 20 good ones yesterday. Do I use a few of the photos from yesterday? As if they were today, and I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
Now I appreciate
Well, yeah, I was going to but then I started with 10. And it's just sort of snowballed. And now I'm like, I need 10. And I just don't want to I just feel like, I have a bit of a complex because I feel like when I was young, I always said I would do things and never did them. And so net and we've seen the promises, but I feel like there's certain things now with my wife, where I'm like, I need to like, I want to do it.
Yeah, well, I think it's what it's this if you can do the small things like if you can do a bunch of stuff that you've said you're going to and you fulfil it. That's like the muscle right?
And then you feel great. So I feel so good now because it all worked out. And George, we've described you as quiet you've got Good what's a cold good sentiment good five good vibes So does that because you're not like you never get real angry? Does that mean that you never experienced like real excitement?
Nah Not at all. I get excited all the time
do you get angry like have you What's your biggest blow up that you've ever had?
yeah yeah sometimes they get angry but I'm
just what I like what is the price it never talked about
it was a lot of angry
if you have to think this hard, dude, you're a guy that doesn't get any damage
Yeah, I don't get angry this morning.
You didn't just saved yet.
What happened? Yeah. Are the the internet I switch internet provider yesterday and I was so happy with it because it was instant like it just switched over as soon as I press Submit and I thought it's gonna take like five days or whatever but then our Wi Fi went down but but we had cable like Ethernet internet so I just left it all night and then woke up this morning and had to spend like two and a half hours fixing it suddenly
What do you spend two and a half hours on? What do you What did you actually do?
Just like factory resetting everything and trying to figure out what the problem was but How good does
it feel when you fixed it like it felt rewarding
reward? Yeah, I guess a little bit but it's not worth going through the two hours of fixing it for that reward.
But I mean what in life is is easy with a great reward. Not it's it's very annoying because I don't think there's that much buying chocolate
now but then the rewards not like because then you feel terrible afterwards. Yes. Yeah,
like and that's why you asked yesterday, Josh. Well the other day it was just about when do you feel great or something was like create when I when I do something creative or what energises you and so as much as the friction is so the pain but afterwards like, Ah, it's almost like you can there's clarity for a while.
It's like the mat
has it like the Shakti matte paint? Doing it?
Yeah cuz it's like excruciating pain, but then by the end of it it's meant to fix you back.
Have you acupuncture?
I did it once. Yeah. As far as allotted. I didn't do that much for me. But I tried when I had my herniated discs. I did everything like I did all of them. So, George, when when do you get excited? Like when's the time in the last few weeks we've gotten excited if you can't think of one we've been mad.
I got excited. I mean, the other day was pretty Pretty fun. I got a lot of great, great feedback from the video. How's it sounding?
And how does it feel to bottle?
tip down the sink? Really?
What's it like it? So what's that excited feeling? Like what is what's the talk is through that emotion.
The exotic feeling was being able to create something, you know, you guys letting me just make whatever I want. And also feeling grateful that you've already built the audience that are going to watch it.
So we've been through the pattern, and then you're just getting the benefit of it.
So you guys have already built that built the audience and now over the next few weeks, I can just kind of know I would have felt great. I was
like, I was like, I was feeling great. And I wasn't I didn't even do it. But just like, you know, I think it's really cool. What did everyone do last night? What do you do last night, George?
Nothing much just cooked stir fry and went to bed.
It was pretty relaxed Not tonight. It's gonna be the night that okay, me just getting made tonight.
What are you going to do? I bought tequila off run.
when it came when it came to this on the sleep over thing, I found that one of my anxieties around sleep overs was if I woke up early or woke up last night Did you guys tend to save we actually don't know did you have sleep overs? I could imagine you never having a sleep over.
No, it No I've had I've had sleepovers. I've in the room that I'm in right now. I think I had
tax returns where you fall out.
Just is inside joke once saved. He's mates around and then at one or 2am they said, let's do our tax returns. And so he got loose. He got
Yeah, but this because this is I mean, like the downstairs rumpus room. But we just set up a bunch of like inflatable mattresses and then I must have been like, maybe like eight, eight people, or down here. And with the people. Yeah. is enough. This is back in the day
when I had friends
What happened to them? I mean, cuz I know two of them. The coconut chrome consists of two others and you. Yeah.
I don't know. They're just like, that was just like our circle friends. And it was also like, around the end of primary school sort of time. So
when everyone's so nice, everyone goes to the birthday parties, all that sort of thing. Yeah. Josh.
I used to stay at a kid's place. He's Was Redmond and he used to live, you know, 30 metres from my house, a couple houses down and I met him by throwing rocks at him from the other side of the road and he was throwing rocks at me and then we became best friends. But I used to stay at his house and I, I once missed the bed there. And that was annoying like her. I still remember it. It's quite, quite, quite a vivid memory of just, you know, horror of pissing the bed at someone else's house. Like you just didn't go You didn't do sleepovers until you stopped. I don't know why the hell I thought I could do it. That's risky, risky business so risk
sharing was saying that she didn't wet the bed and Casey and Casey and her being talking they reckon it's a boy issue.
more common in boys. We kind of just Casey also shut
it off. Casey also said waking up early at someone else's place is still definitely asleep over anxiety.
Oh yeah, dude at Redmond house. I woke up he's he's family. We're light, light sleeper. Yours and my family were early morning risers. And so I would wake up at like what's you know, 730 in the house was just completely steel on diamonds house as well. And when you're young, like you don't have the confidence to get out, I mean, who's diamond? diamond in
Now that was a nice nickname, but he surname started with day. But anyway, I I didn't have the confidence to get up and go and sit out in the lounge room or something. You know, it's like you're really, Oh, I hate those feelings. It's really bringing up some mould stuff. I remember once waking up late and actually haven't hearing breakfast being made, which is absolutely nice. Because then you just had to I have to do I have to leave the room on my own now.
Was that George? Did you have any?
Yeah, I do. Yeah, yeah, that they made some but it was just, I just didn't like I would have preferred to have gotten that when my friend got up. You know?
On Joe Rogan's podcast, he was talking with this guy, very one of your you fanboy around him Lex Lex Friedberg, Freidman Friday nights,
Friedman. Friedman, I think isn't a very,
very smart scientist guy, but that we're talking that has some relatable content going on there talking about when you go home to your parents place, how you instantly transform mentally back into a kid. And so Josh, I could imagine for you, it's like, get you know, getting told off we're going to get a biscuit. Like it makes you feel like you were when you were a child and you're at home. And this guy was just saying how he's like, he, he feels like instantly walks goes into his house. He wants to prove to his parents that he's no loser. You know, like, it's Yeah, but I thought this it's so true. Like, you slip back into a pattern when you're around your parents. That is, it's maybe dependable like, man, can you get me a drink? 100 I just like a like you are a child Do you? Do you do that job.
Yeah, I think I think it changed. I think that like, over the last like two years, there was a big sort of shift, where it used to be like that. And I was like, are when you do this, it makes me like actually, like, deconstruct, like, I would never have serious or sort of emotional conversations with my parents. And then so I was like, hey, like, I know that you think that this is all fine or whatever, but this is actually how I feel. So then Susan's been okay. I want to know what it was. I'm trying to remember. It was, it was a there was an interaction. I can't remember the I mean, I've had a lot of interactions when I remember when I said that I was going freelance, moving away from invito. Like I called mum for the news. And she said, Oh, that's, this is something I don't want to hear. And then I remember getting off the phone and saying to Bri, I'm going to show all these people and they're going to fuel my fire and now
It was pretty sad it's pretty upset.
In the end
Yeah. Yeah. Work Work. Work Right. Yeah. Yeah.
That made the work work joke.
Did he do today?
Yeah. But he was stressed out
on a not drinks.
Oh yeah. I don't know if we're letting that throw to be
too late or I can send it my brother's just signed up. Show Baker said hundred percent especially when my sisters are staying at my parents. So like maybe when the families back together, it's like you instantly transformed back into the dynamic of the youngest sibling you know You're the eldest sibling.
They don't like my brother James like the big blow ups the way had let's look at Fitbit stock By the way, let's see how it's done.
On Now, just to drive the family further apart.
Off the actually they sort of they sort of big bump in October, they went from 431 a share to over the course of just a few days to 714 they're currently at. I think I think it might have been some sort of equity issue. Go buy them out.
Oh, yeah, that's right.
Yeah. Yeah, we did. They got acquired by alphabet, I think. Oh, that's right.
Um, do we have an update from your brother over in the states in and how he's travelling? He's posting on Instagram more with his child. Yeah. It's amazing to get the content out there with a kid.
Good, I think. I think it's all I think it's all fairly fine. I mean, basketball. He's a assistant coach for women's college team. I don't think there's any basketball. We should we should get him on. Yeah, he's been he's been reading and stuff in mind. Where's he? Carolina, North Carolina.
Yeah. Great. Well, do you reckon we'll get a bit more Round a George today after he's had a few kilos maybe he's like,
Oh, I was so angry the other guy.
Okay, is Hannah home your partner George? She home tonight? Yeah, she'll be home tonight. Yep. She couldn't have if she joined us.
Yeah, get her on.
Yeah, right. Cuz maybe we'll find out is it actually maybe we don't want to know the stuff that
what about if we should I should we use some of the questions service. Can you ask some of the questions from the all the questions I've generated? Maybe we could start a conversation with George using that what have you.
I do it now. You want me to do it now? Yeah. Can you remove
your knees while you're pulling out that saves? Casey says re going to your parents place. What does it feel like when your parents come to your place? Josh, what does it feel like for you when mom gonna come around? He's Lynch. I think
when they do, I feel like that needs to have some form of cash. on the TV, we don't have foxtel. And so I have to sort of like having a kid on and trying to find Cat Dog or whatever.
Or Cat Boy, that boy. And so I
ended up YouTubing drag races from, you know, the night. So
I think I Casey I probably I get on the backfoot like, I don't want to be told anything to do with how my house is all presented, you know, like I don't. It's almost like not my space. Not that I don't even know my mom isn't even doing anything but I just feel like it's, I think it's probably when you're a kid getting tall, you clean your room or something. It's like, now this is, you know, it's always the push back. I put that shit on the ground purposefully. That's how I like it. You know, like you. You want to really just push get resist.
What about when you're like with adult siblings when you start having kids? TJ is there more sort of issues around like all of a sudden you're being compared from a parenting person spective from
from mom and dad How? How we're parenting the kids. Oh, I think I think our family I think mom and dad are pretty great. I've never
like What about
it? What do you mean?
also know the the sibling rivalry over now like, Oh, yeah,
you brothers family sort of bonding it's really bonding. Like even for my eldest brother who doesn't have kids and then the connection that he has with Bodie talk. Well, we were best mates anyway, like, I'm close. I'm really close with and my eldest and I'm really close with Mikey and and then they've got their own relationship. So I feel like God You know, I can only do my bit but there's Um, there's definitely a lovely when you have a brother or sister that has kids and kids come together and there isn't. It's nice. It's Yeah, it's science. I kind of explained it really like it's a it's this it's a weed new reality like it's it's just this think about it you've never you've never something you've never experienced not you personally but when you haven't experienced it and then you're like in this thing like wow look at this like when I've got Jamal Murray my arms like or baby Rupert Mikey's other kid It's so nice it's this weird thing. Weed thing. No it's really just my mind it's trippy but I love it
a lot what do we think about I was thinking about getting married in whilst all this stuff is happening?
Oh yeah, do you think is dropping sorry hang on just dropping that in?
Yeah, no no I get it that's that's great because you don't have to invite anyone yeah I love the idea.
So I think it's great but he's attack is it sort of I'm wondering if I if I was to propose it feels like something very unromantic about obviously talking about it on the show. What about like,
your brother's kid? And you know, Jake, kids like uncle Josh got married during the Coronavirus. It'd be like, you know, Uncle Roy he got married during the black plague.
I it will probably be remembered your brother's wedding. Well,
how about it? Well, that's it. That's what I need to sort of figure out
how I feel. What about a zoom wedding? Yeah, we'll say that's the whole thing right? That's what you go
you just live switching? Yeah.
I realised I do this the whole episode.
We do. Smile.
That's good. Anyway, so I don't know if it's tacky or not. But if we're in it for a while Like I think that isn't it. It's one of those things where travel I always sort of pictured that we would be in Europe or somewhere like part of my plan, which shows how much of a selfish fuck I am. But it's like finding a place that we really love. Or that I want us to like cement is like we're going to go there a lot. So if you like or not, but not exactly, maybe I'll get marrows on that.
What is Bri think about the NAT This is Bri you want to live on the net.
Now I think that that's the the friction point. It won't be the nap but we ended up living none. But it's Yeah, it'll be somewhat like and this is a thing where he points out that I do. I love being close to the city. But I also like being able to shut my door which is good because every apartment has a door. So you don't have to go like maybe somewhere like Abbotsford is a good sort of middle ground because it's got the girls Binary, because I love that. No, no, no, I'm just talking about living.
Okay? Yeah. Yeah,
yeah, I mean you can. Yeah, Blaine's always here for you, man. If you want to make the move suburban white get lane. It's your man. It's one of your key values to get laid in my lane. Blaine.
George, what do you think about marriage?
Yeah, I'm planning to get married one day.
And so you've been with Hannah For how long?
Seven years. So it's, it's getting up there.
Eric in the next few years, and you get excited on
you winning time.
Show. I cry at weddings. Do you really? Yeah. Yeah. Can't help it. I've been to every wedding I've been to I've cried when when the bride's walk down. Really
Fucking trying. God, that's awesome. I've got so much toxic masculinity that if I'm at a funeral I can't even cry your wedding?
I cry easily like that. Yeah, but it's always like, happy cries
All right. Have you ever cried George ever cried it out content.
No, get out. Get
tingles you've definitely had to I've had tingle.
I've had tingles
hands. If you've had tingling throughout content Yeah, that tingling content
that's that's what Yeah. What else do you cry at George? musicals theatre.
When was the last time you cried? Bring
like he cried probably cried. Oh, like Yeah.
Not had a proper cry.
I've had a proper cry. It's good going I mean
when dad told me he had cancer Yeah, that's that's probably a taste fine yeah full on. He's Oh, he's so good now but that would have been lost. I was a proper cry. But tearing up just the other night when I was watching saying from Muriel's Wedding, the musical on YouTube
the whole thing
is so cute.
love you, you if you watch the lion, you would lose your shit.
I have I've I've watched it. Yeah. Did you watch it? Yeah, I did. Yeah, so such a good movie second favourite movie behind the big sick.
It sounded when you said that in the comments. I couldn't help but laugh because they, they quite. I guess I make sense that they sort of
got Some similarity I guess probably not really just right now, but it's a good feel. And that reminded me Oh, when one that was on the show and he was talking about crying on the on the plane Oh, yeah, I watched wonder on the plane. Have you guys seen that film? No, no, it's about the kid with facial dysmorphia or whatever it's called. Like some
Yeah, you cry if you watch that you should watch it tell me love I actually
reckon I'm a little boy locked up. What? Why I laugh. I I can't help if I feel like I'm gonna cry. Like you're you're you're telling us about your dad with cancer. I had to fucking mute my microphone because my instant response is like this nervous, nervous little laugh and it actually have on the first day the brain I went on we went to was like at Bayside Film Festival. And they had all of these comedies and then they had a documentary about disability. And the first 30 seconds I was in hysterics to the point where I had to leave the theatre because and I had a rat I had severe like a fucking had a panic attack and it was just I didn't find it funny at all. It just completely caught me off guard.
I just read on Quora. Is it weird to laugh when you want to cry? And that's his direction that's you just wait.
I would be more I get nervous about like getting at my past funeral. My Nana sort of did a little stumble as she was going up the to do a speech or
whenever he laughed about it.
I definitely am getting a look.
I definitely think it's it's all read what they said this guy responded to that question said if you want to cry, but you're not laughing. This can be a sign of sudo bowl blah suit pseudobulbar affect your brain is displaying a separate emotion from the one you actually want to express. This is generally caused by some issue in the nervous system. However, if you are willing, if you are willingly laughing even though you want to cry, it's maybe a way to avoid feeling the tense the intense emotion wonder if that's
right can that does that
well resonated Oh Grace's There is something about that you do the opposite of the emotion that you meant to do. It's all about counteracting that feeling trying to balance it all. I can't remember where I heard such read that.
I mean, watching lion I was like, I felt the wall I felt this bit was like up against the wall. I'm like, I don't want to into this. I know that I know what's on the other side of this wall. And I was trying not to lean into I was getting fidgety grabbing my phone. And so I think some people are just more comfortable. Just opening that door to just, you know, opening the floodgates essentially
for me it's the same feeling as vomiting that that feeling of letting it out. It's like, Oh, this is this this thing that's like not controlled, controllable. was the last time you vomited George Obama,
a lot of it
was that Why are you so slim? kidding?
No, I've just I've just always been a vomiter. Like, just from my brothers tell stories all the time when I was a kid vomiting from all sorts of things, stupid things like scraping weight bakes into the cat's bowl.
Made you vomit. buddies.
have babies like same as like 100 stories, and, and it's carried on now to drinking like vomit. If I get really drunk.
Also, the first time I ever gotten drunk, was before brain I got together and it was at her friend. Alys party. And I thought, you know what I need to I need to sort of fit in. I haven't I haven't had a drink before I was, you know, would have been 16 turning 17 and I thought, okay, yeah, I'll just get into it. I'll just go with the flow. And a few of the guys had these, who I wasn't really friends with, but I was just trying to be one of the Falcon boys. You know, one of the boys and they had a bourbon. You know, like jack jack daniels. Is that bourbon?
No. JACK. Yes. Yeah.
JACK and cokes? Yeah, so they put they put that in a sports pump bottle that you could just squirt. And I was just like, I was just like dancing doing that anyway, that was I freakin cried and cried and cried at the party.
That was the last time you cried isn't it?
thousand seven, but no, I I And then I went to PS and got caught in the ad barbed wire fencing. And I fell on the fence. And so it was it was a bit of an incident because, you know, braid, sort of the only reason I really got the invite was because of Bri and I was like, why? Me? After the rain? I didn't drink for a long time.
Yeah, and the moral of the story is you can you can still land the one when you behave like that. It's crazy.
A few months after that,
Russell Ross cases said last time I cried was at my uncle's funeral. It was exacerbated by seeing my my father cry for the first time.
And what's so the first time I saw my dad, I'm like, I don't think I've ever seen my dad cry ever. I've seen him show emotion. And I saw him almost cry at my grandpa's little funerals, like you know, wasn't even a funeral system. We all got around it our Auntie's place and that was 10 of us or something, and I saw him give a speech and almost cry. And I was like it got me like seeing someone. I don't know there's something about seeing a fatherly figure, you know, sort of show emotion. Like Bodie hates seeing me upset. It's this weird thing. It's like, Daddy Don't be sad like he hates it hates him. So I want it's a no yeah, it's a weird one.
Yeah, I think even I just remembered about my eat my he hasn't my ears haven't been ringing lately. Like it used to be. If I'd say something nice to someone. I would get like tonight as my ears would ring. And so it was always like the fact of the last minute of the daily talk show where I thanked the guest and said yeah, is really great like that insight. Like, it's so fucking distracting because my ears are breathing. I'm really fucked up.
I actually think I say nice things anymore.
No, I think that I just said I've just gotten used to it just got into the habit you know?
if it seems like from what you're saying there's a there's a version to feeling some emotional feelings which I think is totally normal that I think we all have a version of it and for you JJ might be the the feeling like the cry like it seems so unnecessary right to what you said filming cry like, why why do that to your fucking self? Why?
Well, I think it's a control thing. And that's why I asked yesterday about control because I feel like so much of this is it's like this external stimulus this whole like you crying right now is not a not a reason for me to cry. Which which is not productive. And so then that like, that's obviously I think they have tried to get better at it because it's like the whole sorry thing. Like if Brady's crying, she's upset about something and then just bang like, it's fine. It's so good.
Why don't you
Why don't you lean into it? It's like when you watch like the veteran videos and stuff you just put on more and more because you have like this great period of time where you just real upset and you're just crying and just leaning into it.
It's where are you when you're watching these
It's usually in bed. Just
this real comfy. Just you guys.
Yeah, exactly. Some people know that I it happened the other night because I was on Instagram and those that video of the girl who came who'd come back from having chemo treatment, and she she was driving down a road and all the neighbours were outside like clapping and cheering her on. And everyone was just crying. I was like, Ah, yeah.
But then 7pm and now we're actually clapping for the National Health Service Workers.
She's just got home at the same time. Now
I started tearing up watching Scott live video when he was filming New York City. Everyone clapping
That's nice, but I think the laughing thing is normal like, you know, a lot of people laugh just have a reaction that maybe being angry is actually that reminded me you saying I don't get angry that much because I don't whenever I do get a bit angry. I had a laughs and it can't
stuff when you're angry. What do you do? When just give us a minute?
Apparently I used to crack it but now I don't really crack it that much. But what would you cry about? Like what's the I don't know.
Just what is something cracking it look like what
Yeah, I just I don't know. What is
that even? What do you say? I slammed the door. I had enough like, is it what is it?
Let's bang pans. Just like, just pissed off, and then she'll just start laughing and giggling and oh, it's like serious. I'm angry.
God, what do you what do you think that comes from? I'm still trying to understand this tool and
what comes from,
like, just not getting just not being angry. I love it. I love this.
Just pretty relaxed. Like, I'm the youngest kid in my family. So I kind of just saw him i don't i there were fights like, like, my mom and my sister and my brother. They were all wise fighting and I was just sort of like that it just kind of watching. And I never got into arguments or anything like that as a kid, you know? So
funny. You're mysterious guy, George.
Yeah, we're learning more and more about you. You start to put it together. When you hear that you're a big crier. It's nice. It's a brings a sweetness. To your personality George Casey
says, I feel like George would have a journal. Do you have a journal George?
Now? I've thought about it, but No, I'm not.
I don't have many retains. Like,
maybe I should journal stuff, but yeah, I don't
what's my you know that you know that photo on your Instagram where you're emceeing an event? I think it's your most recent one. Yeah. What sort of energy Did you bring to that?
What's a comedy?
Can you give us a demo like
the two sigh like how did you
were you pumped?
He caught me on a low energy day, guys. I'm actually high energy.
Yeah, that was my sister's 30th. And so I i hate public speaking. But I was like, now I'm gonna do it and did it and loved it. What did I say? I just kind of said some nice things and made some jokes and then I made a video which I applied. Which not a dry eye in the house, my essay,
and it was because of all your tears, just everyone.
And yeah, it was. It was fun. Okay.
He says can we have three questions? maybe throw one, your own question then two from the massive list.
Okay, well, I'll start with George, what's your love language?
I think this
was my lovely like,
do you need the options to what do you want?
Yeah, yeah, give us some options. So what
acts of service quality time
that's the other one looking at love length. It's physical touch physical touch.
words of affirmation.
Yeah. I think they're different for different people. Like Yeah, that's okay. So you but you may you were expecting different things from different people. No, no. So say I think for a family member, it would be acts of service where I you know, create them something nice like a nice video or something and I've done that too for a lot of my family over the years. But for my girlfriend, it just be quality time American just hanging out and lazing around and watching TV and going for drives and staying at Airbnb, that sort of thing.
What's the other one? What's something that most people don't know about you?
Most people don't know me.
actually can't think of anything
well I mean most people don't know you hear George so just anything's probably gonna work
I've got four for you if you want
now let him I'm enjoying this I just want to see him actually I can now do something yeah
well I'm trying to think of who most people are like most people that I
know you it's you know as in like, what most people don't what like, what give us a secret like a low level secret has to be because most people don't know what
I'm trying to think like older people I pretty much know everything about me. So
it's the thing about us though like what are we what do we not know about you? Because we only found that out George Instagram account like
Do you not know about me
Once done stand up are you a vlogger? Have you got a secret vlog that we haven't
seen? What's your bedtime routine?
When I was a kid again that was it. You got a George
he grew up in the AC t he lived in Byron. I mean, we know that Yeah, bar thing, but
what's one thing you bought? You bought a lot? I don't know. What would you might not know.
Well, this is what I'm trying to work out like,
your 111 hundred Chinese or something? You mentioned that that's
Yeah, everyone knows that. Everyone
knows that. I only found that out the other day to three weeks once. Once you
know, you have to pass on that one. I actually don't know. Okay. What would it be for you? I can't think for me when you say most most people like everyone I know. I'm trying to think of George I was once having a sleepover and I was ranking and the kids mom walked in and I don't know if she saw me or not, but
Yeah. Oh, actually, I do have one now.
actually reminded me when you were saying that you went to bed at your friend's house. Yeah. I went to bed mates hospitals later in life. It was like
I drank way too many Red Bulls.
I think it would have been 18
That's a good one.
Guys. Well, thanks for the thanks for
that is a real solid one.
Yeah, good. Yeah. Okay.
So, last question. Was there one more?
Yeah, I want this one that you've created sibs.
Yeah, yeah, sure. Yeah, okay.
What what is the what is the thing that you've most enjoyed? Doing with Hannah like an activity or a date or a holiday that you've been on?
I think great question.
We've been on plenty of holidays. I think the highlight would be Japan 2016 that was just an awesome time. But the thing that I love doing the most is just doing nothing. Like it sounds bit shit, but like, just coming home is sitting there and just talking and, you know, watching movies and stuff and that's, yeah,
you're spot on. He sounds
like you don't have to put that on a dating profile, you know? Like,
I actually do like, a value that time just coming home and just being home. Yeah, but Travelling is great too.
You just need good internet. If you had good internet. You Wouldn't
You're a good one, George.
I can't wait to hear from Hannah tonight on the on the Friday night drinks. Saves have we? Is the link gone out? Yes or no? It's about to go out. No, no.
Yeah, it'll go after the episode. I've already got it. drafted and everyone's a mouse in there. But I think we've got a few signups during the episode. So I'm gonna plug those in and then send out.
Yeah, Jacko. My brother's in there. The full family happening. Amy will be coming. It's all happening, guys.
Yeah, I've actually got for the show, bro. He's gonna be in the other room. She'll be set up at her own spot. And then for kick ons, when the DJing and dancing starts, then we're going to congregate into
Baby, right, right right this
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