#270 – Hand Games To Get Girls/
- January 28, 2019
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show we discuss:
Blowing out on the weekend
Primed for shopping
Gronks in the drive through
Listener Kyle asks for advice
Tommy’s a boss at the gym
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It's a daily Talk Show Episode 270. Good a good number. Happy Monday, everyone. Yeah,
happy public holiday here in Melbourne, Australia,
here in Australia. So it's in lieu in lieu? Yeah.
So that's a new thing that's, that hasn't been in existence our entire life. Like, I would love public holidays going up, because I had school so it's just another day off. Yeah. But since in our in our lifetime, we've seen the AFL which is Australian rules football here in Melbourne. If I can, we got a holiday for that. So we get one long weekend, the Grand Finals on a Saturday, but then we get the Monday on or it's the Friday, so it's the Friday to the Friday. Yeah, the Friday before I think but then this is Australia Day, long weekend, Australia Day fell on a Saturday. So they're like, we'll give you a public holiday on the Monday.
So where you know, it's currently 730 in the morning here at big media company. Yeah, getting out the episode early. Yeah, I'm off to braise mom's birthday after this.
Is that is that a you interested in that? Like Yeah,
I mean, the thing is that it's what I've discovered over the years is the it means a lot to Bry when I go to family things because you know how there are the awkward uncles who don't get doesn't go to they don't go to anything. So it's like if someone says husband he's always like just stays at home, which I feel like I could get into the habit of doing but I think it's good to like socialize and
here's the thing about public holidays, you treat them maybe for me Tony if you do food wise I still treat it like it's a weekend. So you end up blowing out for another day because I try and eat healthy during the week on the weekends I let myself go but today you're going to blow out
again not to make it about the food diary. Which spot given that you know, I think I've made done enough damage in the last Today's a lovely one had three Maxi bonds.
Maxi bonds are like a you know, Klondike bars in the States, but they've got caramel in them one
ends and Ice Cream Sandwich one is just dipped in chocolate. Yeah,
one of them's like biscuits sort of thing. But yeah, I we got four of them. So you bought a box? Yeah, we bought a box. And then even Yes, I was like, Oh, you know what, I'm going to sort of be healthy. And like, we actually just need to get the Matty bonds out of the house. So my
garbage truck came in.
Do you feel like bad after eating sugar? Not bad emotionally, but like, are you definitely emotionally though? Yeah.
Do you have an issue like Amy Amy, my wife is stopped eating sugar during the weeks. And then on the weekend, like last night, we had a whole bunch of shit food.
Like why would you want to keep
a whole bunch? We had to keep cat
like a family block
a family block? And then she's like, does that make you feel sick?
She's like, yeah, my stomach feels really bad. So she's having an effect of the sugar. But she's a sugar fan. So it's this like, you know,
la la. Like,
the body doesn't like the drug but she loves it. Yeah,
and I don't feel I feel that great.
I mean, there's the problem, right? Yeah,
I guess the biggest problem is if you feel shit, but you're addicted to eating it, and so you eat it despite feeling just like heroin.
Or you get the nods and shit. Like, we had friends over and I just said I'm feeling like I think that I don't tell me I don't have a game face. I just tell people exactly how I'm feeling. So after our friends left like we had with Jeremy and Lucy came over had a great time. Embrace it afterwards that are we not that into it as I know. It was great. She's I might wind she said, cuz you said you're lethargic. And then you put on the holiday the movie and then
Well, I put that on. And then I'm like, does everyone else want to watch this?
And everyone was silent. Okay,
we'll have to watch the holiday now. So we played What? What do you mean? The board game? Never heard of it.
It's sort of like
a board game. It's like Cards Against Humanity. But you put up an image. That's a meme. Yeah. And then you have a bunch of cards to describe it and the person with the funniest card. Referencing that picture. We know it sounds fun. Yeah. But I also went to it. There's a awesome shop called milligram. Have you. I've talked about milligram to you before, I think what is it? You know how I had that nice pencil and then you the sharpener? Remember I spend? Yeah,
I mean, you buy a lot of widgets. Yeah.
But if you don't even buy
that much shit, but what you buy is small. So I polarizing. Yeah. So we went to Doncaster, which is a shopping center in Melbourne. And we went to Billy Graham, and I it's like a gift shop. And there's so many things I want to buy. And what I'm trying to what I'm wrestling with at the moment is paying more for things because it's at the shop. Like there's very few things that I need right away. And so gift shop, their job is to be like, they provide bespoke products. It's like very niche. And so my concern is that
I want to be able to support them. So the only reason I'd buy in the store from them is because I want to support them. But the thing is, like I had chrome open, I had like four tabs of all their products that I love. Yeah. So they've gone to the effort of getting a whole space. I was walking around it, but it felt like a bit of a drunk move to use their space go around, look at all the cool shit and then buy it somewhere cheaper online. I see any did do that? Well, no. So I've bought directly from them before. But there was like a card game that I wanted. It was like $36. And I was like, You know what, I think the market is up significantly. But then I went home and it was like 18 euros. So it's not that
expensive. I'm probably 18 euros to IUD and then you're waiting on that
is $28. So for the extra seven?
Well, you support them if that's your movie, if you
really so so that's why what what I'm trying to work out is what is the
the the level in which you're willing to pay more? Is it 10% more, because I told myself that if it's nearly the same price, I will support the store. However, I went to a bookstore the other day, and there was a $2 difference between amazon prime and then amazon prime was cheaper. But I love getting packages.
this is where people who shop online so the time they don't like there has to be like what are you there has to be given takes outfits. You're saving a lot of time by buying online. Maybe that's the way to go. If you can save two I've saved so much more time going into store paying a little bit more and getting it that day.
Well it depends if it's in a rush and so this is the thing with the milligram thing there's such a fucking good store. They have like a mole skin shit really good products. So I'm going to go back in and given like they're not trying to rip you off. It's just expensive shit. It's like completely like I was in there with just a bunch of women it's like a female focus store in irrelevant
man. It's like
all stationary stuff. I just yeah, just me and a bunch of women looking at pins just getting site and gray LEDs and clicking things and looking at going colors. night it's a high clients. And you probably want to be called a high end sneaker.
I went to Southland the opposite side of Melbourne.
Very local, very low. Westfield,
very local episode. I like this. Yes,
but my point is we went to a shopping center yesterday, I went to the Apple Store. The point was not to go there to shop. It was to just get in get out.
I see the physical What if you're not shopping what
you know, now
to the Apple Store. I had to go to the Apple Store and ask what we're getting. I thought my phone was fact and it just had a whole bunch of shit in the bottom of it.
I did a little blower. Yeah.
Oh yeah, they fully got this. They did. They did surgery took out this huge bit of fluff there where it came from my pocket, obviously. But the woman who did do it she's like, man, and should say girls phones like coming out of a handbag, the shit that is inside of that. Anyway, my wife and baby were with me too. So she was walking around with Bodie. But you can see the physiology change in her in a shopping center. And this is I think probably what you go through
looking at pins just
shopping center unless you their escape the heat, then you'll probably fall into the trap of buying something. All that is set up to do is for people to buy things and so people are just primed like
I fucking can stand
well, Bray said yes to getting this slow cooker so there's a pressure slash slow cooker that will become obsessed with because our mate Rob Ward from quad lock. They've made heaps of neat like the quad lock crew make all these different dishes with it. And so you and I have been sort of obsessing over it now. I was like, I'm going to wait until we have a place before we get it. But it was on sale. And I was like we haven't actually brain our working out we hadn't cooked since.
How fact is this? We haven't cooked since
we haven't cooked dinner. We haven't cooked it outside of bacon and eggs. Yes since June 28. Dang
Yeah, that's fucking Christ. Is that right? Just
so I'm changing that now. I also do because I know it would get a reaction from Mr. 97 Paul just Yeah, right that's outrageous.
Sorry, I'm live with my mom.
And you're still doing live with you man. You don't
97 just on the on the Mikey? D how many of the meals that you have made by you versus your mom?
Pretty much all my lunches in my by me.
Okay, and dinners. dinners are a shared effort. But he's eating lunch not most of the time leftovers.
Now we don't have enough the leftovers. A little brother at all. Okay, there's three boys in the house mom and dad. There's a lot of mouths to feed but man he's putting in way much way more effort than I did. Actually. When I was his age. I was meal prepping because I wanted to be so 9719 9919
old he still ride that free train Josh is riding in at 2928 28
so bad so now we've got it but the thing was when I realized that I was primed to buy shit, I could embrace that. Yes. I was in this in at the shopping center. I said you know I've been thinking about she said What am I getting an iPad Pro? She said
absolutely. physiology change
your prime. I went to JB High Five I was looking at all this smart speakers shit.
Because we don't have a place yet. Yeah.
But I want to if anyone wants to buy say this is what some people use their audiences for
what selling their selling the fact that it's Gumtree. It's
a bit people might want if you're in salt. If you are in Melbourne, and you are a part of the Sonos ecosystem, you have sonar speakers. I'm looking at maybe getting rid of my sonar speakers. Yeah, in exchange for Google Home and doing all of that. Okay,
I say, but you may get the home first, and then get the Google Home.
I we got this we got this passage. I didn't
think before we get to the parcel just reading at Kyle's email because it kind of relates to what we're talking about. I had a few ideas based on this email. Lovely email from Carl Richardson. He said I'm a massive fan of the show. Currently binge listening the podcast from the beginning. He's up to Episode 103 holy shit
100 and he's been
he's done over 100 episodes. I forget what we've talked about. My people
say things. Like I saw an Instagram dm where someone's like, hey, on episode 10 You said I was like what the fuck does an episode 10 they said the first person who send you something for the P o box. You send them something? I can't remember.
be Michelle. I'm sure we gave Michelle stickers. I feel like I'm Michelle something more
Did you you ended up sending those to her. Yeah,
yes. Okay. Michelle's got the stickers. So Carl
says while listening to the conversations you blokes have received significant value from the unfiltered perspectives opinions and ideas that you share which are helping shape fresh values and rig reinforce pre existing beliefs love reinforcing pray he wants some advice he said I'm beginning university to study nursing. This will require most of my time during weekdays do extensive nature of the course if I can 8am to 5pm every weekday that's what he's that's a lot of time. I'm currently working at Mac is during me nights 11pm to 7am back man I think this is this is hard work.
I McDonald's is the hardest job I've ever had a you worked at my last there for less than three months. Because I
ya know, I was at McDonald's probably the worst McDonald's in Victoria. And I was working drive through and some junkies came through like when I came through the drive through
and said can I have a Kit Kat Mac flyering
Oh no, I said on we don't have Kit Kat McQuarrie cc I
want to keep cat Mick flyering
I just know that and then they sprayed me in the face with something I quickly closed the door. I think it was like I'm with some sort of blue liquid like a like a Windex maybe or some shit. But that was it was good because it gave me was fine. But I used it as leverage for mom and dad to be like, I'm done. So mom and dad enforced the get a job Josh because I was freelancing. And they just thought it was ridiculous that I was like coming home on my computer. And then I would I was doing from when I was 15 I did 30 hours a week of work so I did it was like five hours a day. Wow. That's cool. Yeah,
well at school the school work fell by the wayside. Yeah,
wasn't doing any homework. And they actually the school came up with a great an agreement that they said if you drop your hours down to 15 hours a week, you don't have to do German. Like that subject.
That was like bad, right? Yeah,
so I was the only kid that got like that time to do admin. Anyway, so McDonald's it's fucking hard. I wish I had another go at me works in
hungry Jacks Mac is that she said just some creepy old guy. Like in the drive thru was like making passes at Oh, she's fucking 14 or 15 or 16. And then she walks out. Somehow she ended up taking food out and then seeing him with the wife. And it was mentioned that I could miss his kids. But yeah, just don't be drunk in the drive thru. Anyway, Carl says I'm asking for advice on how myself and potential other university students can earn an income during university that doesn't involve working in the fast food industry. I mean, are we qualified to talk about this, neither of us went to university. I've never worked in fast food. But he says I value your opinions and would love to hear what your thoughts are on my situation. And why should do about it. The thing about like working in fast food is that they are open 24 hours a lot of these big ones there. I mean, you don't need a whole heap of experience they take on young kids. And I was thinking being in the supermarket. So what do you actually do? It's an interesting thought because I mean, I worked in a nipple sin because my uncle honors and then I worked for my dad, he was a landscaper, and then I started my business when I was 17. So like, and then I've had my own business and works for other companies. But one of the things Apple Store, like working at the Apple Store, because I've got a bunch of mates that have done it. The genie is passive, you know? Like, I was talking to the girl at the Genius Bar she would have been 21 I can you so much like an old man.
I cloud? What was the job that people lusted for? when you're a kid? Ah. When you're a teenager,
I can't even remember
how old he was a big one for us now. I just remember them being like everyone at my school saying Yeah, man. You get fucking 20 bucks an hour and you get to sit down yet the chicken? Yeah.
Like you don't even have to fucking bag the shit. It's the best job ever. So I actually did when I remember now. I actually applied to be the welcome guy a big w Really? Hi, how are you?
Hello. Hi. Yes, I just check your bags. Have a good one. Thank you stand on the rubber Mac
I actually saw one of the saddest things I ever saw was last weekend. Going to Harris scarf. I think they must be going into administration. Really? They were just like having a closing down so
what do they sell clothes cook Cooking like
to see if I could get a good deal on the fast slow cooker. Could
you say yeah,
anyway, but there was just a guy there who's just like he clearly he wasn't gonna have a job in a week. But he was still doing
hi, you're coming. Everything's he does he go?
like I was probably have a similar vibe, where it's like, the difference change. Someone's selling it because they want to versus like in crisis mode. Yeah.
So Apple Store. I mean, some of those, these big businesses that I don't necessarily get behind that. But they do employ a lot of people like they came as big W. So I mean, first of all, like for Kyle, working 11 to seven 8:11pm to 7am.
Not as much you losing your weekend, you actually just losing fucking your sleep? I
think it's I think it's good. I think that, yeah, I reckon there's nothing wrong with working at Mac is a good thing. It just doesn't like it. If it doesn't like it, what I would suggest is if you're good if finding art and freelancing is overrated, when you were younger,
not enough, security
wasn't even security. It's just like, when you starting out, you actually just want to be around people, you want to be like learning processes and seeing how people work, I'd probably recommend the, there's a bunch of organizations that deal with people with disabilities, and you can look after them and they can have flexible hours. So it's like someone like I made a film, someone who had cerebral palsy, and he had
someone who looked after him for, say, three days a week for two hours after school or whatever.
Amy sister does this, this is a fucking great idea. Because
a nurse he connects. So I reckon probably I mentioned trying to find something that is close to where you want to be. So you can actually so you feel like you're not only getting paid, but you're also flexing the muscle, you're going to be such a bit of fucking by doing that. Yeah,
that makes so much sense. So work out what are the elements of nursing that then might have a job that sprout out of those. And
those ones? I guess a good The reason I suggest that specific, there's a one of my old clients half h a. t H, if you go half Australia, and if you Google that, they they do this stuff. And I know that they were looking for consistent young people who can can do this. And so I feel like it's like the people who do these jobs are exceptional, because the amount of like, shit, I just have to deal with just from the job. But they love it and they build relationships. And they'll have and it can be as simple as you know, my job is to go to you know, Kyle's job is to go to the movies every Wednesday, with someone who's got, you know, a disability, or whatever it is. So it's quite cool. That's what I
hope that helped Kyle, he also just has a couple of rapid fire questions. How did you to become best friends as adults? And how to make friends and connections as adults?
Would you want to answer that one? First? Let me go through all them.
I'll just quickly go through would you turn the day talk show into radio
show if you run a job, or keep it as a post job I get in radio I'm taking?
No, there's no to that. Number three, has Josh seen the matrix yet? I haven't
seen the movie. No
question three. No to question two. We're not taking a writer job. And question one. No to the fact that Josh and I are best
I mean, it's funny finding friends as adults. Yeah. I mean, I don't think it happens as much like the I'm open to it. My brother Mike once told me not not for making any new friends. Did you say you hurt inside? Well, I was like, it shows something there that hurt people hurt people. I that's a lyric.
Is it really people hurt people? Russ
Mason is 97 that you know that line hurt people hurt pay mix there if you
I believe my my dance is that as well as I thought it was a Christian. It probably is.
Who's a pastor says it? Yeah.
Russ also has a rosary beads tattooed on them. So I'm sure he's he's bauuer borrowing from
it's a property man. There's an
African proverb. Yeah.
But I think
we do talk about that, without getting too much into I think we have talked about how we became mates and we explore that, but Josh and eyes for our friendship is new, relatively new. But I think what you'll find, Kyle, when you become a nurse, you end up like the people you work with, you spend so much time it's it's a weird thing between the people you work work with, and how close you feel like you are to them. But like, my job, like, for instance, conspiracy, Jimmy, we've got nearly 20 years of friendship, right. And so I spend more time with you giant, you know, then most of my friends that I've known forever. And so there is this sort of Quick, quick friendship, like, hours. Yeah,
the amount of hours you spend is it's like, and the other thing too, is? I mean, it depends. For us, it was like,
where the friendships come from, I think it's finding core values or core direction and saying, Okay, I see, this person has a similar idea, or they want to do a similar thing to what I want to do. How can we help each other?
And then from there, it's about like, yeah, extending that, I guess it's, um, I think it's that we've had different, I reckon it would be easy way would be, it'd be easier having a friendship of what wasn't a business partnership as well, right. Like if I, if think about how, like we're so vested in everything each of us is doing because it impacts each other. And so I think, if we both had our separate businesses, it would actually be so much easier, just to be friends. without having any friction, we're actually closer to fucking being in a relationship than we are being friends.
Back up, back up, don't you agree? Yeah, I know what you mean this, because it's also like
how many like you can have friends where it's like, oh, this person's really annoying when it comes to, if I can, paying for a bill at the end of the single bit like finances, all the things that you have, within a relationship, everything that brain I have, there's a lot of crossover,
it's the trade off, if you had to choose one, or the one like say this, that what you're explaining versus being in some position that you don't like, with people around you that you don't like, but you have to spend a lot of time with it. I definitely choose the and that's why. So having a job is
what you're saying is our job is our sort of life. And our friendship is a part of that.
Well, I think that we've built just like you have, there's a risk in having you're turning your hobby into a job. There's a risk in putting your friendship as a job. And I think that there is a certain thing that there's certain elements, I feel more like family than friends. in some regards. It's like, we're where I feel like we're closer to brothers. And that relationship versus
Yeah, I get that I get that. I guess what I'm saying is that what you do for work is pretty important, because it's a lot of your time. And so if you can find somebody, find a workplace that has bunch of people that you really like being around and it gives you something like I guess what I'm saying is, you couldn't do what we're doing. If you didn't like a chair?
Yes, it wouldn't work. Well. The thing is, we're built out like hey, Mrs. even spoken to me about this. It's like when you he has a successful radio show in Australia, Hamish and Andy, he uses his French that it was sort of saying once you he was talking about weaponize in your friendship. It's like, Oh, that's sort of what you're doing. And so there is something that does happen when you do when you make that choice. All of a sudden, you're extending the friendship as well. Now you've got like, all these joint friendships. It's interesting. It's, I don't think it's that dissimilar to those, you know, like a relationship somewhere, guys.
Making friends as adults, you probably end up making most of mine have been through work. Most of my have been through the jobs because you spending so much time you relate to some people. I think it's needs based as well, I think that you'll find that it's like you'll have your nursing friends, but then you'll get sick of the politics. And so then you'll have friends that are in completely different industries. And you'll see them one a month. So I feel like I've got all these different friends that serve. I provide a different, you know, they have different needs. And so I can provide that not every person. Like there's a lot of people I hang out with who don't give a fuck about my podcast, like most people.
Exactly. I'm cutting him off now. I
think it's healthy. I think it's healthy that they have just another perspective. They're looking somewhere else you can pull from and yeah, yeah, it's interesting. I know you're itching. I'm sort of itching to open this thing. Well, this is nearly half a kilo of something. Somebody so
I know a little bit more about it. Because I searched to the center details. This is from Santiago, one of our loyal listeners. who moved to Melbourne recently. He found his
address you've you've looked him up No. So there's there's a there's a p o
box there, but he sent it to our P o box if you want to send us anything p o box 400 habits of Abbotsford. Victoria 306 700
so you know what's in it so I can Well yeah,
you open it. So I've
it's already been on Okay. All right. Hello, there. We hope you enjoy. So I think this is like a card. Wow. Yeah.
So I've already pulled it
out. No, I haven't fuckin Porter, the
rapper. I took I took this some. What's this called?
It's just like wrapping
paper. It's there's a word for it. What's this call? You know what this is called? Get some fucking Google every tissue tissue paper shoes.
That's taking the tissue paper off it.
But that was it. So I looked at what it was to make sure that it wasn't a bomb and to make sure who it was from isn't hard. I haven't read the
card from Santiago. Oh, this is nice.
So it's a what he's given us here. It's a real colorful to really like beautiful looking. box to the right. Yeah,
I'll read this. So this is it's coming a couple of weeks late, but I'm sure you go around to it when it happened for our birthday. The Daily talk shows one year birthday which is January 16. Yeah, so we said Happy Birthday the daily talk show for many more episodes. We'd conversations and stories about Bronx here are some Argentinian traditional
something for you to enjoy on fat Fridays. I just Santiago is from Argentina. I think I wonder how you say
alpha on his Yeah,
alpha who knows
maybe bonus all whenever you want. We're definitely
This is a fat Friday. Just we should just do the whole thing and
let's have a look what it is. Yeah,
cuz no donate one.
Donate one. Let's have a excited about whole weekend cuz it's Monday we
hold the fucking public holiday. You just gave me a lecture
about no I say are you still blowing out today and
I've done as damage in the last two days have
a feeling that this is chocolate related? Definitely. Oh, I look like a slabs of butter. So I think that they liked
beautiful cookies filled with salted caramel coated with dark Xiaomi
cannot we have one? Hmm.
I didn't know she'll get Monday to Friday.
Monday to Friday. I'm gonna
have one now if you want to share that's all good.
I'm having one now. And then you have one so
this is a snowball effect.
This will move
if you ate this now today. Will your diabetes gone? like have you thrown out today? Where are they? I don't want someone to it looks
like a wagon wheel. So these are it's like an Argentinian My mouth is watering. You can have one
I've got self control bro.
Oh my god live this salted caramel in that. Oh, it looks like the like the part of a milky way.
It's like a soft be
skinny. Yeah, so this this place I think where he got them from? I can't sell a horse. Can you Google? alpha jaws? j o Rs?
Oh, okay. Yeah, of course.
And they're handmade in Australia that's actually in like widely or something so nice. I'll put it we'll put a link in the description to because either fuckin delicious either way. Yeah.
Well, San Diego. Thank you. There'll be more conversations about drunks because drunks keep revealing this once you once you once you awoke to the fact to 9071
now and I
can not see drunk behavior. Drunk Scott cut through anyway. It's we've lost
it looks good. I mean, breakfast it is 7:30am
those so young
thing is whenever I'm whenever you're eating something from another country. Yeah, it feels like it's okay calories because you know, it's a cultural experience. Is it?
Is it sure.
San Diego is about three mouthfuls if you haven't watched the
video. They are
Mr. 97 Do you want one?
He doesn't doesn't want Why do you not want one?
Jump on the mic? Tell us I just understand a bit of this. It's the wedding to fat Friday's only. Yeah, we
still have many we've got 12345 perfect. Yeah, so there's one one more for me. You guys get two or or if we got Gemma watts on Friday. Perfect. She'll,
she'll enjoy this.
I've been getting
obsessed with the
not obsessed but just naturally spending a lot of time on YouTube.
Naturally spinning? What do you mean naturally?
No, it's not like I'm getting obsessed. I just realized that I'm just spending a lot of like, my YouTube habits have changed.
How do you predict it?
How do you use YouTube at the moment?
I use YouTube I like I go down rabbit holes. There's a couple of things. Maybe I've slipped when you say naturally maybe it's like sometimes I'll naturally be slipping down a rabbit hole. lately. I've been using YouTube for free meditations. Because my Sam Harris app I haven't paid for yet. And he's got free free Sam Harris meditation your
mom has an what's your mom's meditation insight timer, which is a huge platform insight
insight. Yeah, I'ma and so what is it? It's it's another platform. You can download the app and is like free meditations from gurus. So your mom has created
a meditation. My mom's old school. She's old school meditation.
assigned to you it's funny meditation, like right now has never been hotter. Yeah, have never been hipper. But I was thinking. It's also because we've never been this. Haven't been in the 60s either. Yeah,
we haven't been this connected with social media. People have influenced doing podcasts that we can access to hear them talking about how meditations change their life, rituals, morning rituals, all this all this stuff. mom's been doing it since she was 19 or wherever, like, I'm 17 now. Yeah. And so she's been a yoga teacher for my entire life for like 40 something years. And so she's been meditating for that time. And so she's seen this sort of rise of this. This is why versus saying it as well.
Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. But was it has it ever been as big as it is now? Like when she was getting started? I feel like the hippie movement, there would have been a lot of meditation. LSD shit. Did she ever do LSD?
like my dad and mom met at a yoga center. And everyone at the yoga center thought my dad was gay. Because that was the vibe back then. Men who do yoga guy. Sure. And thankfully, I'm here because my dad's not guy. I mean, he could be guy knows. It could
be a big guy.
Who knows he definitely wasn't guy in the moment that my mom and dad made me.
Well, he just he he's very fine with the sexuality. He loves plants. Yeah.
I mean, he does. Yeah, my dad meditates. He does yoga. And so that's how they met and so mom has started doing some online meditation
just quickly on the guy thing that's a great in when I was younger everyone thought I was my secret weapon was doing the hand games and began so I'd be playing with everyone
boys, so boys, sheets and liars there's such a big destroy they will tell you anything to get the second baseball baseball he thinks he's gonna score if you let him go all
the way then you are horticulture studies flowers Do you think I want from us please cup purchase.
One other one is Apollon a stick makes me sick. It's what's worse
is that I actually
it was it hit my difference was I did those games with the girls to try and pick them up. You did it.
I did love the guy. But the thing was that Ray tells me I was the first guy that her dad ever let stay over at the house. Yeah, cuz he thought
sucked in death suck. He's now burning. Your daughter
there we go. There's a title for the show.
But so your mom's meditation stuff? Yeah,
let's bring it back down. She's been doing it for a long time. Anyway, she has got some she's actually she's a big deal online. I didn't know this surgery. You're on insight time. And now search Joanne jacket.
a book as well,
And so we did a meditation yesterday, together.
And so what's the difference between rather than using YouTube? Do you think that having a she has live streams
now I know you probably can go.
Go can go live.
People are forced out.
Finally, how many
downloads of how many people have listened to her 149,000 plays have listened to her.
So 66,000 people have done 149,000 plays and attempt 36,000 hours. It's pretty crazy.
And so insight timer is just a place like I could be using that. But I I've just been using YouTube because I wanted to listen to Sam Harris's ones. And people have written them from years ago and put them on there. So you can use all these different types but uses
your algorithm change. So you do sign in. I sign in.
Like I can open up my YouTube right now. You can see what's going on here. So yeah, there's What is it? I'm excited to mind. There's a lot of UFC stuff I do watch a lot of Fighting Fighting stuff. So
the tumbling Actually, this could be a fun experiment. Let's see that top four videos. I'll tell you tell me yours first. Okay, mine.
So number one fight companion Joe Rogan are these are recommended. So where are you in? Yeah, recommended. Yeah,
so that's interesting. So subscriptions. Yeah, that's fine. That's like, Well, obviously entering into it. This is more unconsciously YouTube thinks you're this person. Yeah.
Okay, great. So Joe Rogan, I listen to a lot of him. And I like watching fight companions and stuff. You say stuff. Toxic femininity is real.
Interesting. I'm what I sent this to a mate of mine, not that video I sent. I said have you seen this vampire? Because there's this woman named Daisy cousins. And I'm not being mean saying that. I just actually think she looks like from one of those movies. The sort of pale skin sort of eyeliner on what else have you got there? Yeah, so she I just sent that so somebody can be heard of what does that mean? He's a guy that beat Conor McGregor. Yeah, so more fighting. Are they the best and they just wireless headphones. This is a vulgar though.
35 violent? Yeah.
Levi, and then scamming reveals how he stole $1 million. That's from a guy named placing green. So that's that gives
you a sense of what you think
that second one is not see this. Here's the problem if I was searching
Brazilian bikini contest, because someone sent it to me and I opened it up it would send it into my fit. I'm not looking at Brazilian bikini contest. But what I'm saying about that second one is pushing stuff in that I've watched like one video of Yeah, okay.
It seems very bad been watching Brazil became It sounded like
you're getting very defensive. But I'm interested because you're because I let's listen to yours. So mine is that so Sony? See a 6400 cinematic vlog footage Okay, so let's take a break view or like, yeah,
this is I fancy a strike girl toxic relationships and giving love this is from a girl named Lucy moon.
owner ruins armed robbers day. Yeah,
I love that kind of shit. So what is a TV? This is what I've been getting all weekend. I
went down this fucking thing where I was watching pirates getting shot at from vessel. Oh,
dude, I've watched that. That's
why it's fucking happening. It came from you. Remember we said that stuff that you watch I then get so I was I was getting so all of a sudden. I spent like yesterday.
I was I watched like nine game
15 minute bit of
cops. Shooting suspects. Yeah, literally all it is. Yeah, it's fucking
with my brain. Yeah,
dude. I've spent hours watching private security companies that are employed on two big cruise liners, like oil rigs, where the you know, Somalia there in the Somalian ocean and there's these pirates coming out to get them and they've got legally these massive like cannon caliber and they firing off they were trying to kill them just trying to tell them to get out Yeah.
What you better that then watch
toxic feminine approach
followed by you've got multiple tabs open you've got the fat and guns
going in one
bit. The know
the other thing that What else you
got here? Know what what else today? knows there? Is that what I ate today
update. dari channel? Yeah.
So this is I've seen her Yeah, responding to comments because I watched her a little bit Her name's Bonnie. She used to be a vegan. And there's something about the way vegans cook that are like
because it's all like, because the thing is when they make food, it's all like aside balls. And they put so many nuts.
And they put like
so much coconut. She those ones how much was just eating big things of fruit like yeah, today I'm having six watermelons. But she's ended up going. She's like, she did that diet. And then you say like, two years later? She's like, yeah, turns out it was making me really sick.
the armed citizen public defense, yeah. Just how try reveals she's never watched her something. Anyway, that's that's the sort of stuff but that's where I'm getting a lot of now. Is this fucking guns stuff
now? Yeah. Um, so what we've got is our own personal YouTube's a link to the daily talk show. So we're thinking somehow, it's this bit of overlap. In what we're viewing as
I do sort of wanted it is very clicked by the I watched a pharmacist do that I shoot an armed robber. Really? Yeah. fucking crazy. I mean, I think
a lot of people. Yeah, a lot of people will watch does that make me a bit sick? No. I curious.
Curious. The one thing that I do, yeah. Anyway, I mean,
there's not much difference between the person that you sort of blows out and the person that doesn't it's just like watching like, what would it take for you to sort of flip out it in some circumstance in life after watching all of these?
What as in go post on? Yeah,
no, definitely not going to go post or
now but I'm really not.
But they just seemed like is the is it fucking with my brain to watch all these people getting shot? I don't think it's I don't think it's great. I think
if you to sue the mind
watching something, I think I need a little bit more Joanne
doing some time insight timer.
I tell you what, it's something that is probably it's Patreon. I don't know if patronizing the word is the word. But when Pete like, I don't think it comes off nicely. If you tell something, you you'd actually benefit from meditating.
You would actually benefit from it. You know, if I was to meditate tonight How you doing? Yeah.
If you've already filed because you telling someone else how to meditate. Now this is how I would do it. This is how I would do it. The tm course. Yeah, Transcendental Meditation where you so I was talking to him about that. It's you you get a word. So it's like you can't tell anyone the word but the thing you can recite to bring you back. Which Maxi bond
biscuit and biscuit in this kit Maxi bon? Yeah. Which there
is mom was telling me some history about it. It was started by this famous Yogi. And all the celebrities. It's expensive. I do I think about 1200 bucks,
which is expensive, given this fucking free
sugar free meditation and it's
nj. And so how much have you spent on? I haven't spent that much on self development? I haven't done
you probably spent books. Is it you have that self developed? Yeah,
no. But the thing is that some but you know how there's guys who it's like I've spent over $100,000 on self development site. And now you're doing this.
It's wonky to say that.
It's like it's some sort of badge that they're wearing. I know executive weird flip.
It is that you're dropping coin. Yeah. What about the person that can they can get it for free? Yeah, you can get this stuff for free. Yeah, I think, yeah, I can imagine you're doing because you like actually you can't keep a secret. So you couldn't keep the secret. Mom reckons that you don't have to mom reckons that there's some school of thinking that you don't have to keep the word secret. So maybe you could do it. But I think it would it I think it is it's great. It's
Well, I've made my first step in self development with the the gym stuff, but being 100% been pretty consistent. I was talking to Bry. About how much of a boss you are at the gym,
in defined boss. You can't be a boss. Well, the FBI could be negative connotations with
that we were doing a circuit. Yeah. And we take like four bits of equipment, if anyone tries to fucking go on any of It's like my we're on that. Yeah, we're not on that way, like three steps away from being on it? And how does the what is the, what's the protocol in regards to how many pieces of equipment you can take up at one given time.
And I will say though, because if someone's watching, they do that go to the gym, they're probably thinking, I'm an asshole, we're not taking the bench press, we're not taking the lap pool there, we're not taking the leg press. These are all machines that require someone to invest a bit of time in, what you're talking about is a bench, like a flat bench that isn't near the squat rack or anything. And we were using the ground will using the corner of a crash mat. And so some guy just said he said he shit up at the corner of the craftsman. Whereas he just hadn't seen us do that.
What about the let down let pull down stuff. I had
no it wasn't below um, it was it was a drunk move. This guy was doing a stupid exercise at the lat pulldown.
You're saying hey, Matt, you don't use that bar for that. And I need that bar.
Exactly. Because he was using this fucking he was using the wrong bar in the space when there's all these other machines that you can do it with. And the bar was just like, there was so many other bars. So the lat pulldown is where you put your arms up, and you're pulling down, you pulling the white down towards the chest. So you're activating your back. And the fact was, he wasn't doing a lot colder. He was there just doing some straight arm thing. When there's so many other places he could do it with different bars. He tried to school him. I just said mate, that's not the best use for this exercise. You can use that there.
And then he said, I know. I know. Yeah,
my point. Thanks for making my thanks for reiterating my point, buddy. Now move along. This. So the way the g8 there's some unspoken rules don't bicep curl in the squat rack. Don't do student
Now I think it's like if someone's sitting down there was a guy sitting down on a bench the other day on his phone and I just walked up and I said
how many more sets you've got? So it's a way to get in to find out
using the machine. Oh, no, I'm not even using this. Okay, so that's a bit cranky.
But you told me the other day you like hey, you just mind this thing? I'm going to go get the stuff. You weren't that clear on which one you wanted me to ya that so I was sort of at a fault. Oh, Danny, you're standing next to two things so I was sort of just standing where you were standing not really knowing which one to protect.
And then you like and then you bet on me.
And then said the guy
you got close to the Yeah, and then you will like and then you went up to a guy so I might were using that one we hadn't even started yet that was quite brazen. And then you said to me like that's why I asked why
Yeah, I mean at busy James it's hard. This is the thing right? I've had the experience of working and training at a lot of gyms and this is what happened so many food never
the biggest fight you've had in the gym.
No I haven't I've seen fight so like another guy keep the guy up the ass as he and he's trying to get daddy kicked him out the ass and made him at the gym at the one we went to he this
records connected with toxic Eminem. I came and said the word femininity
femininity in the G like that's like the thumbnail very quickly pinkness as wicked women.
She's interesting that woman Daisy cousins,
So what did I say? Oh yeah, this guy that I know was watching this dude just throw weights right? You can't throw weights around at the gym and don't leave like shit loads of weights lying around. Just have some consideration for people. And so he this guy was like, God told him off. He said can do that dude. And then the next time he fucking did it and he like Swan ease fade off the bench. And anyway, this guy ended up making like reporting him. But there is there is a problem like dude who just headphones on like a testosterone flowing just pumping lights of noxious since so many noxious?
I don't know how people were the ovary headphones like the
five you have been like the noise cancelling ones? Yeah. Yeah.
Like if you took them off after a workout.
Just wear sweats. Disgusting. It's, anyway, you're learning that you definitely have been sticking to the gym, and your time last
week. But three is the is the aim every week. But I've been fairly good. So far. And I'm feel I'm definitely feeling the difference. The problem is that I'm definitely justifying at the moment. I'm like, you know what? If I'm I'm getting compliments from people, I don't think they're justified. What do they say? They're like, are you looking looking good? And who's saying that? Jason said, Did you hear that when you hear Jason? Yeah.
It's 97 concern. Right? Good Now, yeah,
Jason fox said it to me, which was lovely. I had one other person say it to me. That's right. Simon said it to me. And I said, Really? I've only gone to the gym a couple of times this early days. He said maybe it's just because you're wearing exercise where? Which is true. I'm being wearing it all the time. But there is a risky I've been thinking more about the whole going thing I don't want to be I don't want to
go to retraction. Yeah.
Another apology for the end. Apologize for anything.
Crazy. Can you believe it? We go through a whole show. He's got nothing to apologize based on that
IV and bring to surface for me. You can tell me what I need to apologize. I
didn't I feel
like there was something on Friday that you were joking about an apology on Monday. Tell me what it was now. But anyway, now I would like to build up a bit of back strength. I've been enjoying it you've been really kind and been giving me a boiled egg boiled egg? Yeah,
sometimes. You mean I just print my food and I'm chopping out for the dirty shit.
And so I'm gonna start boiling eggs soon as well. Good idea. Do you reckon I can do it in that slow cooker? Or you
know just just use hot water in a in a pen? I've
got a nice we're in
a marketing source but since you think don't overcomplicate shit
You don't need to use a slogan to boil an egg Well, I thought I was excited like if I could do saying that slow cooker I could do like 40 eggs. What can all of us
that will go rancid by the time you read it
How long can eggs keep?
See this is the I wouldn't keep I wouldn't keep it boiled egg longer than a day
and a half.
Because you can do it like I bought my routine is get up meditate, smoothie and cooking and boiling the eggs while I'm doing it and then out the door. You can do it every morning
as your as your habits improved greatly over the last few years do you think feels quite tweaked?
Well, I think it's the kid like having the kid and the business and just having more responsibility taking ownership. I think most people have got a good morning routine. They're just taking ownership of their life. Yeah. And so I just hate the feeling of just feeling like you're behind every morning.
And I have you is this you think when you first had Bodie was it like six months of not having that
survival mode getting up
trying to get as much sleep as you can.
Like body wakes up at 615 every day.
I love getting
like us getting me getting up at six this morning to do this. I managed to trim my neck
Today talk show. Hi the daily talk show.com if you want to send us an email,
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these didn't melt because there's been some seriously hot days and I
couldn't believe it to end because Bry works at a chocolate company. She was sort of sussing it all out. How to do it so good. He's a delicious offense. Thanks and you take one
for Brees mom. Yeah,
that'd be nice. That would be nice. She I'm just present No. Because that's the thing if I if I bring it all just always it to be honest.
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