#610 – Thirst Traps & Impersonations With Gemma Watts/
- February 16, 2020
Queen Gronk joins us to chat about giving compliments, impersonations, thirsty photos and gatsbying, and we debrief on what happened in our group chat.
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show, we discuss:
– Giving compliments
– University and TAFE
– Snapchat and drunk messaging
– Thirst traps and Gatsbying
– Impersonating Gemma
– Radical honesty
– Our group chat
– Looking through Gemma’s phone
Gemma’s podcast episode with Zoë Foster Blake: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/glow-journal/id1436666232
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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 610 Glenn gronk back in the studio. That clap for me.
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I'm pretty upset that I forgot the crown But okay, well, sorry. I was just you know, I was annoyed about my glasses they feel crooked you wear contacts? Yeah, can I let gunpowder cuz I lay in Yeah, yo Yeah, I'm blind is a bad thing. I did say that when you look, I'm quite close to you right now. They're clear but yeah, your eyes really popped other key
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grain Do you have
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Do you wear colour context? that would that would scare me. I mean, the colour of my eyes is exceptional. I don't
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know your strengths and I think that's probably for me. That's why
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you're in the camp with my wife but also your eyes Josh and braze I mean, we're all poppin me my son I have the struggle is with what do you call them? No pop.
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That's what the optometrist calls them what's my edge if I My eyes are shit like visually because they white better than you I saw his
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facial my mom just think they are also handsome. He's got really good hair is. I mean I'll all the time that I walked into the bastion office we found a ferg and his brothers the CEO up in Sydney and I'd walk in the office, and he did his brother would just collect their best hair in their building. That's nice. It's not a dislike it a bit. Oh, yeah. But what about when we went so nice to be complimented on your appearance?
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I was trying to justify why it might not be good. Because I never get it like no one ever said oh like you like Yes they do. I the most I get is I like your socks. I have told you you're handsome very many times. That inflection. That inflection is not a not wanting to take seriously, never again. But so when we were at Jason PJ. We were in we were in the
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Studio and then we walked out. And then one of the producers came out and said, Tommy, you gotta you gotta come over here and there was
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killing going on where all the girls were like, Oh, we think you're hot. I was like, they cried fool. Yeah, but that's a friend of all of ours recently, but we'll probably keep that one offline. Sure. Are we talking about paid page
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is a hot guy.
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Like, if, if we were to each today, the four of us in this room, say stop trying, trying, you've at least two people compliment, not necessarily about their looks, but it's something like I think it's lovely. I mean, it's funny. You've said the Sorry, I've just completely interrupted you. I have a very bad thing has happened in recent months, in that when I am drunk, I've become super nice.
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Yeah, I don't like this side of me because I'm not like affectionate. I'm not super in touch with my feelings.
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Then I will have you know some drinks and I might email should
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go around and just tell everyone what we love about a show.
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No.
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We did that in LA with Holly. We're all holding hands. And Mason had my hand I'll do it to you. Yeah, but you guys started doing this Oh, actually using
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a kiss you
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know he was we were all a bit emotional and he was drunk for the first time.
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And I'll let me ask my excuse me, guys cool nothing. That's good. I mean, I feel like I'm sleepy on your face. Oh.
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saying I love you never been like I said to Bray. I said a lot. Actually. I realised the other day that like was sitting on the couch and within a five minute block I said like three times she loved me to say like, I love you. It's like, do you love me? Yeah, I said, He's like, Oh,
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yes. I'm like why? like doing show
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That I do say to Bray I love you I love it. I probably say it like 20 times in the day it's almost like a bit of an airfield silence type of thing.
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That is the best reason to say
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you know when
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you're on the couch it's like I love you.
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I get in a needy modes and I'm like, You love me like I know me loves me. You know, great. Love the master here. So nice. And then like I think about Bodie. I caught I say to him non stop. I love him beauty. You're the best I love you so much. But in the side really want him to love me. He would love it. I'd say say I love it. I love you Auntie Gemma. He'd say that. He loves people just to the fist. Yes. Yeah. Because he he did punch you at the last event.
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This is actually this was brought up on the show he did it really cuz I walked in and then someone had said he just
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he just punched Yeah, cuz then he came up and he was like, I'm sorry Gemma and I said what what are you apologising for dude, but he didn't
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Because he punched you must never even notice. Now he just throw a hand out. He had a fist, because it happens all the time. I'm just walking along. This happens punch me, it's fine. Okay, so it turns out my next door neighbour had a crush on us. I mean, well, that's certainly the version of events that I've been told.
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It was established that you went to high school with my next door neighbour.
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I mean, yeah, the the the gronk separation goes fat like it, you know, there's some connection through. Yeah, it's a buddy small world. It's good. And so how did that come about? How did we work out that you're not so there's Michelle. Tim's on one side. And then lower there is can we give What's his name? Liam. Laila love lamb. He's got a high Lux is going to be car big truck. What is it, but he calls it a monster truck, though. It's a monster truck. And Chris is having issues with his unit at the moment or what did I
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know he just took it?
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I said I use
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An analogy and apparently it was controversial but I think it's appropriate he's had his car service and essentially what they've told him is that he's car has terminal cancer and he's going to die at some point but there's just no lag time on when
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he had his a car something about the engine I don't know I need a few
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hours Chris got a ute
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couldn't tell you the big you know
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not even a tiny bit like an SS you didn't take apart a door handle the other day and I was like, I've never been more attracted to you understand my job? Yes. Like I would love to come to work. Was there something about stupid thought that I thought chicks who could drive a manual back in the day I was into was there something like Dom that you look back? Oh, so damn, no, I it's done but I stand by it.
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When a boy reverses the car but puts their hand over the back of the let's say, Mama I've got I'm
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just review camera so I
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do know that you know how to do that in the test I'm pretty sure you're not allowed to turn your body hold the seat and use one hand
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very sexy. The real breakout it's a rule right here into keep going. And so I got to you anyway and so he at some point when you were you went to high school together same year do we know he would be three four years younger
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than me? I don't know how old you are. I am 27 good. I thought I was 23 that's something I learned the other day. It's a few things like that. That even happened with you guys thought I was older. No, I thought you were older. Cuz I'm a
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genius.
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You don't think baby geniuses are all because you still think they're a baby.
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Lj
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How do you think you'd go with your VCA? If you were to do it now I I made it to rk but I stopped trying because at my first preference was they didn't look at your enter scores based on portfolio and interview so I was like, fucking charming. So Wi Fi, and it was I'm, I've gone a bit off like, you know, like types and unis sort of thing. Hearing Harry describe all of the stuff that has to go through in regards to like, doing a course. I feel like it's a bit of a scam. Where is he? Not
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we're not looking at like a brand new two year old and
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he was saying stuff like he goes there and it's like, Okay, this is how you open Premiere Pro. And he's been Yeah, she's been using it.
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But there's also when key for me that was useful like I did a bit
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Everything. And that shit was useful, but at the time I was like, I'm never ever gonna need to know how to record sound. So what was it one thing that you took from that was the best thing that you ever did at RMIT. You know what it was actually the first course that I did, because I was the baby. Everyone else in the course was much older and was already working and had come back as like a skill refresher. And they said, Oh, you want to write you need to start doing it now start submitting paces. So I did. So that's why I started working when I was 18. So
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what was the actual clock? It was a god. It was a diploma, which is now an associate degree, which is a no it was a diploma in professional writing and editing. So I went to RMIT typhus. So then when I moved over to journalism at RMIT University, I was exempt from half of the things because I already had two years of a course under my belt and that was rashing. Florio Yeah. I mean even you had xlv on on
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Sure, it was a great chat. I enjoyed it a lot,
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too. She was talking about how when she was getting started, like he didn't do all that you didn't have like the site and all that type of thing. It was just like, you would finish high school and then be like, oh, what am I? What am I going I've got some paper and I'll go to a job interview. Well, my next door neighbour, lamb, no, Michelle, I should just build that the whole community
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is later they want that Michelle's gonna come on the podcast and so just cool. And suddenly I'm lives with his brother, twin brother. And so Liam's brother is the one that had the McDonald's. Yeah, that's the story. Yeah. Anyway. 1416 year old girl lives next door, Michelle de.
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But
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I know like, I captured glimpses of what I remember this sort of 16 year old life was about you know, I said to her, yeah, two days ago. Michelle, the 16 year 916 year old said
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Have you ever listened to a podcast in your life?
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I said Tick tock, right? Yeah, it's like Tick Tock. It's all Tick Tock to it. I don't know if kids are listening to podcast is I think it's one of the mediums that will people like am it's like the new age I am radio isn't potentially a voices to the shift. And then I say, look at my Tick Tock. And then she's blown away with the amount of views and what you do with Tick Tock with her. Yeah, I wouldn't mind that'd be funny.
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somewhere. What are you doing on there? So hang on, actually, no, I'm on there twice. My my, my cousin's 10 year old Christmas. Got me when I was so drunk. And she was like, No, he talks really cool. Like, you just do a dance. I'll teach you the dance, and then we'll film it and I was like, Nah, I'm a really good dance. So I'm not even going to teach me I'm just gonna follow along. And then in the morning when I was hung over, I was like,
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I'll be better now. I was not
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at your news a party I was just I've got such long video. Yeah, we're just like and we will never speak of them again. It's quite impressive, but I feel like there's some there's probably six tick tops in that one video Jesus snap Snapchat. Tell me got me to download Snapchat to my dick pics Is it is it really no Snapchat now like it literally just a messaging So yeah, that's most people
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like a great message on there. I don't know if you guys are familiar with the concept of group messaging I current method you know why this is brand new. You try to use it a certain type of it raunchiest riskier messaging. It's actually because a lot of them have like fitness goals, but the only way they will speak to them is if they are held accountable. So they'll film themselves doing a workout being like say I'm just
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doing it. interest and then I'll just send back a Yea. Big. I mean you're onto it. I messaged you the other night light.
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Then I listened to the show and heard that you were having an impromptu piece up and I'm like man did TJ drunk message me?
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I enjoy that more like the the other night on Saturday night.
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Last week. Jase Hawkins did the post of the day.
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And human I just got on the back and forth. And I could tell he was a bit pissed.
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And we were just like, and it was one of those things where it's like you'd be able to tell if I was sick. Well, the conversation should have died, but it kept going. That's why just tell what is your tell? How would we know if you were for messages how we know that you've had a lot to drink seven empty pints in front of
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the eggplant emoji.
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Yeah, that's lovely pieces of luck.
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Online guys doing a reverse park with their armour. What do you think of this guy? Probably
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reverse pack and sorry Snapchat you think he's for group messaging? Yeah, I use it as a bit of like, like if I'm still at my desk and it's quiet life I'm like, Ah, look how hard of a worker I am. It's just like a flex for people that I haven't spoken to in ages. Is it riskier? Like is it a certain awakening? Get a different version of you on Snapchat if we do? No, no. And the other actually the other thing that I do on there, Fiona, are you have both met when we want to vent about something that we know is real petty. We will use one of the Snapchat filters that like puts a bunny ears on and changes your voice and then we will record ourselves venting and send it to each other. Because then when you hear yourself winching back in a voice it's
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kind of like this. Yeah.
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Before that out counselling we should just watch this podcast back in speed just double speed yeah but you've got to have some sort of funny is
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funny shit that we've heard is when people put a slow motion on slow mo in the podcast that like slow you down 2.5 and everything sounds like a bit of a slow do it don't segment on
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Fox footy on the couch with Jonathan brown they will just slow down something brownies said he's
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drunk because he's been he come in drunk. Yeah, he died. It sounds really funny. Now I'm just thinking about it. What's the funny sentence? That that was funny?
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Funny, the social social media etiquette of trying to support people online. opposite sex.
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You're in a long term relationship.
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Do you think that people in relationship
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Chips should like and comment on whether it's a guy topless or bikini photos. Should Tommy be liking model shots or commenting?
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I think it's just it depends on who you are and who your partner is and what they're cool with.
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I'm just going to explore feed and just seeing if there's a most of what I do on Instagram is just like Sebastian stands for Paradise is the best is some of the previous some of the
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The Winter Soldier
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like I'm just looking on awful oh my god Sebastian Stan with his hand on the back.
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Maybe forget that in the cameo.
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This just like I've seen will never see me again. Some of the gym I've tried to call you three times want you answering some of the very busy people writing on
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Unless your mates with Steph Claire Smith and you're looking Yeah, if you send your senior bomb saying great staff here working hard, they drop of water and there is the sleaziest people and then I click being funny, because the other day I, I, there was a Steph clay Smith photo. And someone had written it was like spam. And they said, I'm doing follow like, if you follow me now I'll follow you back. He had a like a tick. And I said, we also doing PC for peace. And that's why Kylie Jenner turned comments off. So yeah, or I think now you don't have to turn them off. But you can just receive comments from people that you follow. Yeah. From Yeah, that's a good idea. Yeah. I actually when you're a celebrity, maybe that's a good way of getting no because then you need it, then you've there's a lot more pressure to start following people by Yeah. Or you can win on comments off for if they use specific words. Right. When you have 70 million followers. Yeah, this is not a problem. At
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Emerson have, what So what? What's the general rule Do not be just fucking thirsty So, but in a relationship with Daniel, I think that thirsty can be. I feel like if I wasn't in a relationship, my version of thirsty would be like, ah, like, I'm not being direct but uh, haha funny and I yet so I'd be like writing wiki things just being like like so for instance, you've written on Teles, see, we have, yeah, and this is the thing. The other thing it depends on the relationship you've got with that person. So from the daily talk, like I think sometimes we write from the daily talk show,
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which is my mainly 97. But which one was it? Which one of you was telling me my new profile picture was really nice. That was me. I knew it was.
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Right. Yeah, I wanted a different. So the front of you made a funny joke, TJ because tally talks about how
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get obsessed with her ram phone case and tally had put it's a basically like a liquid that moves away. Yeah until he had taken a bikini photo. Yeah and Tommy had written nice phone case. Yeah cuz I was pointing at him like he's funny but it's also funny yeah but I'm making a lot of how she's an influence and then she appreciates some of it has just a bit it's a bit you know, influence a lot like you are just taking a fucking bikini shot. And you got your phone guy i thought was a funny like, but I ever do that. No, I ran Oh, that I had no wonder I've only just get a vibe from if someone's hitting on you. I can absolutely tell when someone is listening amaze definitely been like, on the very on occasion, where I'm just like, Ah, this person like, are they really nice and they posted a photo and arts a bikini photo, who give us a real world example. Who you following bro? No, it's literally like just the guests that we've had on the show.
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That they post a photo but the funny thing is, when I do it, I'm like, I'm being supportive because it's like the only reason you put that photo online is because you want likes, right?
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Like
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you're not just sending like the drool.
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And so I liked it. But the hilarious thing was, it's like, the one time I'm like, I'm gonna test this out like just do it. I liked it. Like three seconds I embrace like, Oh, you like the first
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photo? Is it? Let's be honest. I was Michelle Andrews. From shameless I don't think Michelle thinks you're hitting on this is that but this is the thing. It's a bikini bikini shot.
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Probably just give her I like to share the likes around that's the other thing is there are like different genres of bikini fighters, Michelle's bikini photos, she's not like passing and got like a finger in a mouse and any of that like has not. They just yeah, so what's this track? It's very good.
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trap what's the first trap photo? versus like don't we isn't every bikini photo with you at the beach smiling with you made the thumbs up versus the girl taking a selfie pushing her arching her back no bumps poking up and there's a G string that she's wearing correct it's like isn't the mountains in the back but there is actually mountains behind the sea you know like that's a trap over Yeah, I'm on the beach with me nights and I totally
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manoeuvre. So the closest thing I get to a thirst trap posting is like you've never posted this trap
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Right this way.
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The festival the festival content authors trap.
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Funny buddy Jesus.
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This trap
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by the Gemma was confident stick to that.
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I don't think cutie says trap. But there's another thing that is harder.
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spot that they call
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Gatsby, which is so you know how the whole point of The Great Gatsby, you read it to you, man, that's
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okay. And I haven't been on the train.
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So trying, I don't know a talking about
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what is the gap. So the whole point of Great Gatsby, if we're talking about the film, Leonardo DiCaprio has fallen in love many, many years prior with Carey Mulligan. So he moves in to this like, crazy mansion across the water from her and throws these ridiculous parties every night. And then you find out that he's just been throwing these parties to get her attention hoping that one day she would rock up to one of the parties. So gets being on social media is if there's like one specific person whose attention you want. So like let's say hypothetically, if you were single, and there was a girl who loved music festivals and that you happen to know maybe was in the St Kilda area
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You'd be like, hey I'm just in St Kilda today like and hoping that they would say it so what we put out
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there was
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to recognise I think I was speaking to no one
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to MTV audience so I'd like to get your stories on urban dictionary if not if it's not a it's not a thirst trap why why would you get messages like this so this is is a photo that I posted last night I got some interesting jams so cute I thought this traps there was one so thirsty over a nine year old
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look they're not they're not he's not this order here other comments.
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Okay, little JJ is the cutest
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Yes, you big cutie. That's from Bri. I just thought that that was quite like a Romani from your missus.
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I want to posted a photo. And I was just being silly doing this or something like that likes it your flame flakes.
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But then I put it up I took it down because my parents were so tight you could just see my pain
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because it was stupid because yeah I hate fucking any of that shit biggest they kept the moment his
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nipples like
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talking about this with lay in this next door neighbour it's very cool now I'm not earrings to that pacing what do you what does it take like if you are because I think it's like fashion wise women are doing it more like I don't think guys unnecessarily resurgence of the 90s so Carrie Bradshaw Sex in the City shape hi and it just not wearing a bra and he's there to make sure that you've always you're at the point where you want to be in regards to Not that I'm aware of but that would be a concern. I if I've not got a browser on which is often I typed mine down because I don't want you to come on. That is a
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That
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is I don't know I don't understand it not execute official I saw so many nipple rings nipple people can see what you can see it's like this bar that runs down I guess that's the point why you doing cool well yeah it's a private Peter like a private area that you then show off again you could measure wit like crochet or a needle again but they want to but it would get caught and then the government would unwrap
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and so we just think so
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let's go see what it goes look like
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like you might like the look
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I'm I'm more like surprised of it that
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I'm talking about men so it's a you and you gals
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like guys with a tops off on Instagram like I follow a bunch but they're more like in the bar me up slightly not for me but I am in
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reversing a car I've got a very specific type and it's not well what's a strapping a man? What's he posting? How does the first trap player like add short obviously yeah get off of the base. Yeah look me quads. Yeah
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well see this is the thing a lot of the people
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like they bodybuilders all they're like fitness model Yeah. Like so they work on their body but then they become obsessed with the muscle shape and I don't know if the girls are like, necessarily thirsty or some are you but not all of them. I think it's
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mostly men. Yeah, but then not all guys. Like, you know the J banger in the ntds personal proof. Yeah.
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To each their own. Yeah, I mean, we were three. I've done it again. I'm kidding relationship.
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To listen every episode look like that because you used to sound like you're white Joshua.
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You always talk about
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and dig What is it about you win? Yeah, and then you put me in this position. That's your Gemma voice is it? Yes it's also easy to hear and Gemma impersonation catmull reckons she can do one but she's never she's too scared to say to me Oh
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my gosh. It's just like I think there's something about
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like you're speaking at the very top of your mouth. Okay.
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Did you get the confidence to
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bring this up? Can we please get used to trauma
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using SPF you can show
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Uber driver rocked up he started putting sunscreen on 30 Plus
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he wasn't helping shape.
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The best sunscreen is the one you want to wear.
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You're a great tan. Anyway. Nice. I think it was Spanish. You have a great time. Nothing healthy about it. So give Gemma watts impersonation oh crap. This is no pressure. Let's start with silence and then first thing you do is just gonna go Okay, he's laughing he's gonna try 3210 my god, no prayer
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was too high.
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I appreciate it. I think everyone's tried. And can you impersonate us? No, I'm no because I'm smart enough to know.
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Yeah, it's like that. Guess how old I am. You can't wait. It's like the honesty thing. TJ was talking the other day about like, he's being extremely honest in 2020 radical radical honesty, which means there's gonna be tears but on the other side of T's is, is a is a more robust life because you don't have to lie. Right boss what a good word. Yeah.
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Yeah, and so, um, have you something about that? Like, just feel feeling? What I think it's like how you define a lie or not speaking the truth or a lot of like grey hair? Like, yeah, it is. But I think No, I think what happens is when the rule is, whatever it is, I need to share it, you then start being able to define where you've blurred the line, and it's become a grey area, like leaving out something, doesn't mean I'm lying. Like, you convince yourself that's not lying. Somebody had asked me and I just was like, it was a flat out lie in the end, but I justified it, because I was saying, not the truth was away because you know, to smooth the situation, it didn't really matter and blah, blah, blah, but you see the sort of reward on the other side. So it's an interesting one, like, even Derek with these kids and wife and talking about Apple Watch, watch the
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couldn't do that didn't give him that works. That's Yeah, I couldn't take
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it. I mean, you just look at and that you just gotta apply to yourself. And I've done that shit.
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Yeah. And then you I guess you have to work out okay what like, if you're lying doesn't then harbour guilt, but then he's actually you end up expressing in other ways.
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Anyway, long to meet him. I haven't in a while. I don't think I said hey, you going today? Did you lie? Did you ask him going? I didn't know.
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Yeah, I'm real good. Yeah.
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How am I feeling? pretty tired today, but he kept me up. Yeah. Mentioning kicking me in the face. Good stuff. How many hours sleep Did you get to you? It's just broken from 10pm until 545. But it's just there's bits
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that you loved it was
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get reminded
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That fucked up thing where the parent who lost a kid was like I said by the back door hearing the door bang, and I and I love hearing it because it reminds me the kid but when the kid did it, I hated it and I yelled at him. And so that I don't know I try and go it's the best thing ever because he's my son and he's healthy and it's like, so you're just trying to reframe it because it is the most annoying thing but I don't want to be caught up in thinking this is so fucking annoying. He's a little shit you know? Beautiful he's so beautiful. I asked Pete to come on the show but he had an amazing paint does this thing where like I'll say a really nice thing to him and then he'll just send back
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the
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expect from a guy like me I'm fucking name is great a shot of he sent me a screenshot how you will act on the show tomorrow and he's going amazing. And then I replied with the screenshot of me being like I miss paint. Can you get him to come on? I had already told him when I spoke to you on Monday.
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I think I'm going on the show this week. Can you please. So I sent him that screenshot where I'm saying, like, I miss paid. And he sends back these emoji we saw was so
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I mean, there's a resilience to, because I was the opposite, like growing up with friends with dating. I always wanted to be that guy, what guy, the guy that can just that doesn't enter into whatever anyone else throws at them. So if someone throws it, it's like when you
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when I called you, Jim, and you were like, Ah, you didn't write you didn't write back to the group message. Doing this. I wasn't going to do this. But I have write a reply, because I have been, I have been grossly misrepresented. And the situation has been grossly misrepresented. I didn't think we're going to do this boy fucking doing it. I'm sorry. I said it. As you should be. I answered the phone not saying nice of you to Cole because that's what you said that I said.
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Basically what did you say? I had assumed you'd lost your five
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small funny ones more bitchie The other thing that was the talk surrounding group messages. Yes, it is absolutely normal and not I don't believe it's impolite for a group message to fade out. What you neglected to mention was that conversation had happened and a date had been set. It wasn't just like I didn't set the date No, but a date. Should I agree?
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Waiting you said was that it? I'm on the phone. I made it sound like it was just your responsibility to reply. No, I was pissed off at all of you. It just happened to be that hey,
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God that just doesn't really by
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attacking him. Why are you attacking his attack anyone? I just sit on the
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reply. My point is attacking you for saying the wrong thing.
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attacked, organise anything else I came on the show
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Settle these sheets that didn't happen fucking happened you just basically said it happened just slightly different one and i i will second not to jump off Gemma's bandwagon off the hyperbolic nature of what he interprets what you said and then repeated his outrage
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misrepresented
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get the exact fucking words you
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just fine if anything What I said was as abrasive what optimism bit so I don't
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talk surrounding group messages you will lack you know what sometimes great messages just fizzle out and that's fine. Yes Bosh a date had been set. And then the following day after I sent my follow up to no reply. He's talking about how Hey, Andres, I had tentatively in their calendar that they would be going out for dinner. And JJ his words was to the tune of isn't it annoying when you've got something in your diary and then it just doesn't happen because no one's replied to you.
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And then you just end up seeing it Hi.
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Did you ever put it in that you're not my diary in my handbag saves in big lead? I'm actually impressed. So what I was going to say by being attacked on my own shot or not attacking you you apologised over the phone and I said apology to your wife and then you came on the charlatan
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so what I was gonna say is what I like about paid
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is that you can say all that sort of shit and people just but
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all of a sudden I get upset about it so emotive reaction when like, I'd look. I am so I started defending myself. And I was like, Look, I was never gonna I didn't want to go to the club anyway to be out like I start getting all defensive. So hang on. Okay, step back. You're right. I should have I should have actually just told you.
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But then I seem like a big fucking baby cuz I'm sort of trembling a little bit.
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Like a baby when you then came on the show and you're like, you know what I had?
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A great message I'm sorry, I haven't totally podcast
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and I want to talk about my feelings. I even one thing I
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did I didn't know what to
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say.
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And Jim says, What do you think? That panic tell you know what to say? I was getting near a truck and it was a little bit noisy I'm like I am just about to get hit by car just give me
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time to compose myself
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and be like, yeah, yeah, it's fine. Anyway, I wanted I just I would like to cable is when I'm being attacked. I mean, I just feel like throwing away
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you know the energy. Did you know the energy you bring in that situation? Or in general say, Yeah,
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I was cold. And I was calling to say goodbye. Yeah. And so it was a bit much like when I'm calling this a good day.
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I then had to like I sort of it wasn't until like the it was signed to ring round. Like I
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We're meant to do that and so getting that like getting if I know if I was really guilty as charged if I really was that way I would have never thought I would have just waited and done what? This guy didn't just sort of like it somehow now he's the hero No, I'm not saying anyone's the hero and it's all good. I just would not be here. I just I just would have loved to like a like shit double booked or honestly. TJ Can you sort of wrap it up for me anyway I'm
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sorry to wait
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call Gemma and have a conversation that's the whole thing isn't and I better because I did that now that you weren't called you just said you're calling to say hi not to talk about that exactly. But I had the conversation but if I spoken
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to don't fizzle out so you, you express yourself to me, I got everything. I got the full.
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I don't want to care so much. You would if you do
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So much you wouldn't have felt so I was saying I wish I didn't feel attacked. Okay, you need some swishy that you felt attacked and I would have said I'm sorry. If I'm saying I'm being attacked, there is no way you would have said sorry. Look, I'm
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okay. With that may that's actually what you would do. That's the first version of
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what you would say it was. TJ. This is just unpredicted anytime he doesn't want to hear something I just had to protect
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my diary because Tommy's being unproductive
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there's also you I take everything Gemma says with a grain of salt because she's
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sarcastic. This is the thing I took your what you said with no grain of salt. I took it with all seriousness and I took it on and I felt the feeling that you felt that did you tell me the planning with a grain of salt or did you take me saying
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I am upset that nobody's attacking myself. None of it was a grain of salt. What I'm saying is that through the, through the group message, I was just involved, but I definitely wasn't a leader. I didn't know any of the nightclubs that you were mentioning. I didn't have a go at you though. I was like, why did no one reply. And so I think that what we learned is maybe Joshua says, I will never try to organise, again, definitely need someone to be hitting from both camps. So it's like, if you like the front end drinks that we did. I was really pushing. I didn't have the energy that I put into those drinks is for that night. I was saying just an apology.
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Absolutely. You know, I don't I don't require an apology. I did. I said sorry, though. So is that
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I just think not to go on about it, but saves, do you sort of understand where I'm coming from? I understand where you're coming from. But I just think if we looked if we zoomed out a little bit what would see us I understand that you're saying that it is
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Need to say sorry.
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But I did say sorry. And I appreciate that. And none of these guys who said sorry, but somehow I'm the I'm the one that's creating all the problems
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you've talked about because you were the one that then came on the show. mezack Yeah, now can I believe was
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it was that bad? Yeah. Yeah, it is. What do you What were you listening to that coming home from that event? Where I, I'm not out without us. And yeah, it was actually me on the table. Like so weird. I thought we're all having dinner. Um, no, I'd actually had had a really awful, awful, awful evening, and I had not been spoken to very nicely and I was like, you know, I'm just gonna hop in the car and listen to my best. Listen to my best friend Joe. So
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I had to listen to my favourite people. And that's really gonna lift me up and I'm, like, 20 minutes into it. And I'm like, yeah, this is good stuff. I feel amazing. And then I
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here all night well
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I meant to and to be honest it's happened with it's the
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it's the thing about having anyone close to you listen, even breathe listening to stuff now it's like I know that like she'll say you misrepresented the machine I didn't care about I will laughing about it and you're saying, Yeah, you make me sound like a psycho. Well, then I don't know if I'll get in trouble. Can I tell them how I text you after I got home? I don't remember what. Okay, I sent a text when I got home and I was like, mate, like, you took what I say out of context. I was upset because I felt we had all locked in plans and then no one replied, you've taken it out of context. And you were like, Man, you sound like Bray.
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I mean, this is what I feel like I'm dealing with like,
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you guys if you've if you have been contacting is these are the two biggest rise in the business Gemma and Bray both in the rah rah game. We are in the reira game.
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show a little bit of podcast rah rah doesn't hurt anyone like I'm a storyteller.
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Sorry, I can't tell like it is fucking boring to be like, even though Bray told me off about the Instagram, it was only a joke. And I don't even know if it was Michelle. But it's funny you're saying that, like say that's not funny now. And so now you've maintenance library now you've had the whole thing now I feel good about that. I think the biggest learning for me is that next time I would like to organise something with my friends. I will send a calendar invite. Yeah. And there'll be
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for me personally, if you actually bring your wife when
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he says, No, no, no, it's because I can't not have organised a date with my wife and then prioritise, getting smashley Tally. Will tally actually did ask.
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The girlfriends invited and then no one replied to. So yeah, I mean, this is the empathetic view.
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We don't know everyone's situation right now I like to
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always like I can't be spending money on not getting peace with you gronk as opposed to the money I could spend with Amy having a nice dinner or going white like a situation. So I would just jump in and be like, sorry guys, and I can do but trust me, if you get on to me, she'll be like, I mean, I loved him. So he will happen.
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And then she'll be driving like, great. Tommy we go, but yeah, right. loving this. Okay.
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Next, why don't you just give me access to your Instagram?
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Sure.
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She won't even want that
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problem that you guys have with just Hello at the daily talk show in that one person raised.
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Christian boy. Before we go, would you have a problem with Chris looking through your phone like now? No. Yeah.
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Pretty content you want to do that?
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Would you give us two minutes
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Now Yeah, you would grind
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to that but back in the day yes but I wouldn't have liked
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it is not a it's just more just what sort of boy you're young and single you just following shit that you probably wouldn't
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you know kind of relationship not even like I think you just build a muscle when you're single of like it's mine It's my light pink colour maybe it's on the couch or you go to funds. No No
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don't walk so heavy to
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lift the boys and what are you? What are you going to look for? I record my strategy will be. I'll tell you what to do I deleted photos.
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I think Yeah, I looked at my embracing calls. So I text him text messages or I can hear you speak to your partner searching for searching in text messages. Oh my god is it Josh is search the word
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Finally to my girlfriend Josh
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come on you're
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not replying says this chicken down. Yeah, cuz I said to Chris I am not going out this Friday anymore. Bizarro Josh When did you say? That guy who I thought looked like you are That's right. Okay this is all pretty cool. She's being really hurtful. I don't know why
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she's against you.
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Okay, I'd go to like Tom I thought he'd be going through Instagram I Williams you've got a lot of good Bart Kappa. Oh yeah. Okay, so this is there's a story about that. screenshot that Chris sent me mark capital how much shaded into the whose go to her search history a bit you won't be like, he's looking at business Rouse. Emily's my manager are all the porn tally head on a browser. I know that.
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You're pretty good at you would have been nice rooms. I've just googled on h Daesil because
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Salman brownie that would tell him that that's what the slang for Prosecco is,
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is outport seawater you're pretty clear on
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UDL bogans mouth what he's going through Snapchat now and so on bogans mouthwash see that's the group chats not listening to commentary. She's feeling stressed about Josh having a fun little bit or not pretty relaxed. There's nothing interesting on here. So these part of Snapchat is all just slack. And what are you looking for? You're gonna have a little now it's just it's interesting. His name and my message is hoping to find something incriminating and I was just like, there's nothing if you
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see the thing is trying to turn you I was trying to pay I thought you were just gonna go straight to Instagram Damn. A life of nothing to hide is very soothing. If you actually have not just fine for that. Yeah, Nah, that's good fun. Are you surprised that I'm relaxed about it? I
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see, it wouldn't
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surprised me if tally was worried? I wouldn't. If I was showing us everything what's telling you to hide. Now American if you went a bit deeper there'd be other stuff. Let's have a look at them. Like what's your What's your name and look at it photos like I just didn't want out of respect. I didn't want to try and find any Sam's necklace. No, I don't have any on there. Yeah, I mean that's the other thing if people are taking notes on their phones 10 requests it's quite a lot of I don't open a lot of business ones.
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Yeah, I think it's really unprofessional button brands approached by a damn so I don't I do that Amy follows us. She's really nice.
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Anyway, that's good fun. What this is all six hours ago.
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The sound of radio influence. Oh, that did you say that story that was so funny. It doesn't have a top on and you did emerge? hysterical. If you put the volume up. It's like your filters and he's like, Oh, I didn't know they live.
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Really funny. It's funny.
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Anyway, Gemma watts.
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Thanks for coming on the show. It's it's funny little iPhone that like being an older iPhone oh yeah this is it's Yeah, everything's like
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completely different so as I said it's like swiping up doesn't do what you think it's exactly what I had the bone to pick for so long with your offer but now I have it so I yeah
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flow journal check out the Zoe foster Blake app it was Thank you Thank you. Yeah Really good who's on next week? No one cuz I go fortnightly
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next fortnight on Priscilla from bangin body. Right What is bangin body? She It started with a like body moisturiser that just went ballistic because Daily Mail picked it up and now she's got a body scrub and a lip balm and there's more products in the pipeline. Do you put it everywhere? Yeah, you can do your face as well. I don't use it on my face. But it's Yeah. In the evening after exfoliating. Correct. Very good. Thank you.
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Hi, the daily talks about
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Come If you enjoyed the show, please subscribe. Soon on the Friday drinks happening anytime. Yeah, yeah, we've got the event coming to the adventure 29 nobody can come to that. Oh yeah, cuz I was like I'm in Sydney and then Tommy was like, I don't think Gemma would like it anyway, why do you like bike riding? I love bike riding this be two so you would have never I remember you saying because we were thinking about drinks that day. What are you doing in Sydney? I've got a wedding. We've actually got two weddings that day, but not in just two different styles. Join Sydney one. Okay. I'm not crazy. Yes, we will organise some sort of drinks anything else service before you go? No. Okay.
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Anyway, I love you 711
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Love you all. Bye bye.