#333 – Breaking Wooden Spoons/
- April 25, 2019
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show we discuss:
Catching up with Mr. 97
Entertaining fail videos
Jordan Peterson’s parenting advice
A merchandise opportunity
Telling other people’s kids off
An update on 3D Dyl
New studio updates
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It's a daily Talk Show Episode 333. What's
going on? It's good number real lock at 333
is that if 666 is the devil? Yeah.
half a devil. I
guess it. No no devil.
I was saying it before. Yeah. We haven't spoken to Mr. 97 in a while. I mean, he's here if you just haven't heard him. Yeah, he's in the room.
You were telling me about your falling down the stairs? Yeah, and that's it. How you feeling? Yeah, it's pretty much show healed up now. What do you mean? Oh, healed. Oh, he's
young. he's a he's a young little mutant that heals quite quickly.
But what was actually broken what you have to heal.
I just had a big bruise on my back in my elbow. Elbow was a bit so
so he's real swollen. See if this was me at 19 I was either in a fight or really pissed. And all that happen.
Otherwise, it's not happened. It's a nice Evan was holding his dog when it happened
way. Yeah, yes. Yeah,
so I literally I got home from a party time, too. I am
too. I am bad. I definitely don't even drinking. What the hell you getting home that like like that? Doesn't? Why you want to be at lights? Yeah,
it was flow. My job was to login.
Why were you out that light?
Uh, it was just I mean, it was it was one of my best mates his girlfriend's party.
And how do you go not not sort of drinking because there is a lot of a vine
or because all pretty much all my mates don't drink. Okay. I mean, yeah, one of them had a few. But
yeah, I'll tell you what. I mean, what are you drinking coffee? You don't even drink coffee? Just stamina. I think there's like, people like people like Why? Why do people? How can you stay out? So like, it's like when you're drunk. You don't realize the time Yes, I'm raising is like you just keep drinking. It gives you some energy. But when I'm not drinking, I noticed being out like because I start looking at my phone. I'm like, I'm feeling tired. Like I physically feel sleepy. Yeah, I'm like, I want to get out of here. Do you get a feeling like that?
A little bit. I mean, towards the end. We're just like sitting on couches, and I was getting a bit tired. But I mean, you just you sort of talking to people just gives you energy? You talk to Oh, absolutely. Yeah,
it does not give me energy that lets me dry. Energy. The couch thing reminds me of school days. Everyone's how many people you can fit on a couch. Yeah, yeah, that's not really Whoo. Just so like sitting on the couches and stuff. little stone sitting on the couch had a real purpose was it was their family as well at the event? Yeah.
Her parents are their twin sisters. Actually, sir. Okay. double it. Yeah. A lot of cousins as well. And version. Yes. The whole patient community.
And so you got home and then what happened? You've just picked up your dog. Yeah.
So my dog was sleeping on the couch, I think. And she sent me people on the couch.
This was at your house? Yeah,
this is this is what I got home. And yeah, she came she came walking when I opened the door and throws just just take it down so she could sleep with me. And because you your actual room? Is not? Is it attached to the house.
Going over there. You have to walk down stairs to get there. But that's what I find confusing. When he leaves on the slope.
You leave lock on a bit of a slope to block. Yeah. And so that the sort of living areas upstairs Yeah, yeah. Well, it's like I've never been there. I know this because I've just driven past these house. And
so I never thought about which one was his word? Or constantly, literally, leaving the garage.
Could you could we hang at your head like
we could do an episode? Yeah,
but not even doing an episode. Yeah. Just content aside. Yeah,
come over for a sleep over.
How would that be? Just remember when you're younger, sort of like you have friends over
it is true. Because when you start getting older, you're all sort of a bit Fuddy duddies, like you you've got your own thing.
I've got a toothbrush now we get
your you've got your house, you've got your routine, you get home you and Bry like you've got you little you little ritual or whatever it is just you consistent pattern of living like a me and I think about tonight, kind of idea home with Bodie and Amy we just do a little thing, have some dinner, or sit around on the floor having like, it's really not avatar.
So it's almost like a
low, low sitting, sitting restaurant if I'd like to,
if you just if you're if you're eating off a coffee table, you just call it
there is a Thai restaurant, that this is what people have aged. Do they go? I mean age, they go to restaurants and they hang out together, which we've done, but I guess if you I mean, Mason, Are you someone who Mr. 97? Are you someone who likes to entertain? Like bring people to your house?
Not that often?
No matter if you had friends over? Would they be in your room in your knock? It would be in the lounge room
now? Probably probably Meyer. Okay. Yeah.
Did anyone at the party know you from shameless podcast now that doesn't have a category like that.
We need to get t shirt like merge at 97 come we're just so people put two and two together. And so you're okay you're not you're not severely injured from now.
So I was I mean, like we dressed up for the party and like suit sort of stuff. Just suit pants and a shirt. And I had like 10 shoes on and I was walking down the stairs and I have to dock to like, there's like a little bit that you can see on the stage
that you can you knock your head on a little I don't know. I don't know what's that but you can hit your head on it. It's like a wolf sort of thing. And so I ducked and I like leaned back a little bit, and then my heels just like slipped and I fell fell back and slid I was at the bottom and slid a few stairs down.
He's what's happened he's worn a suit shoo, shoo suit suit shoe pants about one surgery pants three times. Three times I haven't even he hasn't walked on concrete. Yeah, and he hasn't scuffed in some grip. Yeah, that's what happened and then you hit the hit the stair and just just
slid down and did you make a noise? Yeah,
I literally thought I got away with it. I thought I thought like it was it was sort of like a quiet full it was just like like one of those but it turned out like everyone was like getting up and that's who I am. Yeah. Yeah,
just checking on me. And you know, did they make a big deal or was that like
Mason? Yeah, okay. Yeah,
I my my dad came down and just checked it out and then and then he just went back to sleep was like it it's all right.
I reckon that would I think if the same thing happened to me you would have done your desk
I would have died Yeah, that I was gonna say my my elbow was literally like it was puffing up I have a little thing on my back like a bruise and that was all swollen as well
people die like yeah,
like well that's what like I was that's the show I have with fail videos on YouTube. I can see some very very very very funny videos on YouTube. Where is the same scenario that someone would be in and die? Yeah,
well I did I get you on to that because I got in the habit of habit just like I was being just hard on this these guys that do these fail videos where they put electric current running through the seat and then I put the box somewhere and then they get stolen. They sitting down they press this button zap and one of the I've just done some really horrendous one hot seat they use a blowtorch on this is
these guys these fucking idiots it's all men trying to steal this shit. Dumb man just jumping on. Oh, do you think it's like what is prank videos and like that kind of
shit is not ultimate privilege or whatever being your house on a Saturday night ordering in over eight and just watching fails.
really hurting themselves? Is that what privileges the privilege is the guy who? Also stina because the person didn't come to their door?
Did you know Bry told me the other night. She's like, Oh, we got free delivery. I was like What do you mean? We got free delivery. Uber rights. Now. If someone is close by that he's ordering food, you can jump on to their order. So it gives you like a fight. She said, If you order Betty's burgers in the next five minutes, it's free delivery. I mean, so that was
cool. We still spending money but we save. Invest is disappointed not happy. Everything that you think is a win. He's He's nailed.
Anyway, I think I got trolled on our Instagram page.
About time. HP max challenge is their instant handle.
She's written and said you guys need t shirts. Tommy jacket. Is your shirt white. I think she's saying that my T shirts looks a bit all for you gave that comment. You want it's hard. I mean, I've got like
cases on you know, is it Oh, you just watched it. This
is on the newer side
yet. You're just a bit of a you're a bit of a boy.
Not you know what I'm more of a grub now that I've got a kid and I know it's a great excuse to be able to use body like wipes green smoothie on my shoulder like Amy's had to change her clothes multiple times when we're about to walk out the door. Because Bernie's got peanut butter and just
wiped it all over. So annoying. It's very annoying, but whenever I would do what do you think I would do? Where would I be like in those situations? I think
I think I think you'd learn a lot about yourself being a parent. Yeah. I think you especially out of all my friends.
I would I would feel it's a shame that I'll never know what you don't know if I can say that.
I don't you might it might be an accident and Yun Bry will be having a cute it's a beautiful thing to have a baby.
It's amazing. If you think that I would add of all of your friends
and all my friends likely to cope. Well.
I watched the
I don't mean Well, I mean, a realization and because it like you would not it's not about Josh anymore. Like That's so annoying. Even when you get upon it. You can be all about Josh and and still have a partner because I've been that person and I think I yeah, but I think I think you'd be a good dad. I just think you'd learn a lot about the peanut butter thing. I just don't think I would I wonder what my reaction would be. Yeah. It's
like absolutely not like don't put peanut butter on me. Yeah,
they just don't know it to you gotta discipline. I've been getting into some, you know, some literature around. Parenting kids like disability given you
some shit. Yeah.
What do you mean literature? Yeah. Have you bought a book that's listening to enable
your audio book, you're
trying to be smart with the audio? What was the audio body? It was actually Jordan Peterson's book. There was a whole chapter on parents. Okay, which is good. But I mean, I've been wanting to sort of start looking at some other options for disciplining kids. You know, because there's the kids that fall into some categories is like,
the ones that wouldn't experience not working currently.
like we use my fuck I got so my mom broke so many wooden spoons on me. Actually, bro. Yeah,
she was a boy she wouldn't spoons or severely harassing. Well,
the thing is that I would I just remember the one. I remember one my put my hand out. Yeah. And, and bright. Funny. Like it was like, every time she broke a wooden spoon,
man. I remember we had a wooden spoon that was in the family for 1015. Really? Not at three But well, I had three days but I wasn't getting beaten. I remember seeing my dad throw a ruler. I think
they I think they just cheap. The ones that were you got must have just been cheap. Yeah.
What is it? So
playing in bowtie at the Bible?
not physically. But there is this this chapter is looking at physical physically reprimanding your child. So the term I hit my kid doesn't really make sense because there's so many variances.
Well, there's what force Are you physically hitting your child because this like, he talks about like flicking your child. It's like anchoring a moment where he's from his body, like runs out straight for the road. And if we just and he's laughing, you pick him up and he thinks it's hilarious. And I've just like, what do you do the severity of what happens if he runs out in the road is more extreme than flicking him on the hand and saying that's not okay. And
I'm gonna sign this if I ever say anyway, so what I'm doing it now So
yeah, that's a little flick, flick. And that's this is. So that's when you say do you physically have
my mom would use her nails. That was sort of a good little trick.
Because she could be subtle in the shop. So if I'm having a meltdown, she could grab my like this but really inside if you don't fucking stop screaming right now. It was good because no one could say the fact that she was having a full blown so then
the problem is what she says if you don't fucking stop this right now then one, because if then what actually never comes through
is the naughty boys home. It was a constant one she found his place in the neighborhood would say you're going there.
Well, so So Dave, right. So it's like look at the threat that you're giving to the kid. Will you follow through with it is the is the threat so that's his threat that's so severe that she won't follow through it you knew and so the threats need to be not so severe, but just enough that they know you will happen and you will act on it if happened
What were you so my my parents also would threaten my brother that he would go to like a Catholic High School has not gone him as an odd
I mean, you can't threaten kid nowadays with that because it's got implications. Not ideal, so I'm taught shit.
Can't we can't mention school names and then say that
I just said you can't threaten kids Catholic schools.
These guys. It's got a lot of baggage in there. And
I fuckin seen pal. Yeah. Anyway, I had the naughty boy beach. So this was a little bit older. Not I don't think it was. I don't think it was you seven the naughty boy.
man. We go into the naughty boy age, which was
meditation. What the fuck is the naughty boy Ah,
oh, I guess I'd like when it was time at it was like, I was probably losing my shit. And I was maybe 11 or 12. And my mom, I think is a good idea. took me out of the situation. down to this spot. You know, like we're in Melbourne. There's the Brighton Beach boxes. Yeah, so it's like between there and the Brighton bars which is this nice stretch of beach sort of being in there's like a little What do you call it like a little rock jetty thing? And so we just go and Sydney there. And I just remember is like, we drive past now. It's like out there is a naughty boy beach. But it was something it was an active
discipline. So it's like, it's just timeout.
I had hot mustard on the tongue if I What if I said like a which is better than soap? I mean,
I love my head. That was it. There was definitely a transition for them. That was very difficult. where it's like, I went from, like hating the mustard. Yeah, absolutely.
just like get you right in the nose. Oh,
good army, but I had soap once. Once. That's not good. Oh, well. It's not like I just remember just getting a bit of soap. See, my parents probably wouldn't remember that. I had to I definitely wasn't disciplined in terms of physical force. Yeah.
No, I never never got to hear anything. The worst one was probably can't even remember this Mom, mom and dad tell me but we were all throwing a tantrum in the car.
And I was trying to for some reason I was trying to throw my favorite toy at the window on the freeway. And so my mom decided that she had enough and so she dropped me on the side of the road and my car chair so she pulled over took me out left me on the side of the freeway and drove 20 meters up that's
car chairs on easy to get out.
It wasn't it wasn't it wasn't a rational
she was tied to this. Yeah. Early 2000s of leather
strap from India to the like, that's what happened. I remember Yeah.
It's every trips fucking right? The amount of times dad's like, I'm gonna turn it back in power around. It's It's so like,
how we're disciplined as a kid like in Jordan's book, he, you know, he's coming from a psycho psychology background of understanding how this happens. What happens is child and what you morph into as an adult? And he said, like, what do you think these people just all of a sudden appear? You know, these young teenagers out of nowhere and their little assholes and monsters. It's like now they're actually bubbling away. They were a sweet kid ones, but then they like not disciplined. And they're not. You know, parented. Right?
I wonder how much judgment he feels because he's daughter is in the public's sort of spotlight. Wonder how many people were analyzing her and saying, Oh, she's this way because she only ate meat? Because
he's made because of her
really did it first. Yeah. Interesting.
It's interesting. Like, I hope that we're not when bodies growing up that yeah, it's like,
how do you actually get met? So if you want to get mad? I think that's what I struggle with in general life is how do you express your varying levels of anger? Without it just feeling like a blow up?
Well, I don't Yeah, I don't know. shouting. I think my go to is raising my voice, which is like, it's probably just the easiest. Thank you. Yeah, but I don't think it's that like it's something I'm probably trying to
work out. What are the alternative? If this is my go to just because I stopped these like, it's so easy to say because most words with heightened tone, I
guess part of it. Like I remember watching him Supernanny if that's unacceptable. Remember, she knew what the word she would say the most. She couldn't say? unacceptable. Yeah.
completely unacceptable. The kids didn't know what she was saying. But she was saying not acceptable. Yeah. But yeah, I remember she would get on their level. And she would look at the like, make eye contact it down. And then they would say, you know, she would use your name. Yeah, Tommy. That was not okay. Yeah,
we say that stuff. We barely Look at me in the eyes and you say music? Yeah,
dad, he doesn't want to. But there's, it's interesting the flowing effects from how your child behaves. And then when they're out in public, and then how other people saying the imminent how other people are treating them directly adds to their development.
What do you do with nieces and nephews? How do you discipline? Like a kid? That's not your
kid? That's not yours? Yeah. If they clearly slapping another kid in the face, I think is it? So
do you think there's rules around it? where it's like, oh, you know, because I actually saw on Instagram, Joe Rogan must have been his old one of the old reality shows that it was hosting fee.
So this is
this lady hit a guy on the reality show. And then Joe was like, You can't do that. You can't assault someone. And then the husband stepped in and started like, yelling it like stop punching out with Joe. Yeah,
big mistake. It was it was sort of like he said the one he choked the mad. Did he did he
wasn't on there. They sort of look like survivor.
It had survivor vibes where he was on fear factor. Maybe it was fear. It was the Yeah. And so what's the what is the protocol though? Especially Do I have less or authority in regards to telling kids off based on not being a dad?
I think I think there's probably a set of rules that we could work out not that we're going to but I think we can unwritten unsaid stuff. So it's like, if you see him birdie hitting someone in the face, and you wanted to say that's not okay. And grab him. Yeah, I think that I think most parents would be accepting of if I didn't say it. It's I think if the
if all of a sudden I was disciplining every time. Yeah. It could be an issue, wouldn't it? I read a book.
Yes. I've read some literature.
Just like let me deal with him. Tommy, you guys relax. I've got Yeah, that's unacceptable. Yeah,
so now I do. I do wonder about all that. All that stuff.
I mean, we've gone far off the T shirt thing did I did we finish that with
peanut butter on the T shirt? That I'm that I'm wearing? Yeah, sorry. Max it I think it's Helen.
Helen. Sorry. Yeah. Helen said that. T shirt that white. And does that mean that they going fucking yellow because I'm not bleaching them through your little face mask? Are you doing your T shirts at home? Do you even do the washing? I do all my washing?
Do you have any wine? I can't even say that.
Well, it's all my clothes are at the point now where it doesn't? It doesn't really matter if you mix. What and that's what I thought I fucked what Bruce t shirts that way. Yeah,
that's what I mean. It's when it's older. It's fun.
Are we actually Amy fact? One of these t shirts with my new Jay one of these teachers?
One of bodies' new t shirts expensive one? Yeah,
my buddy's got an expensive t shirt. He's got ridiculous. What brand?
Is this one baby brand? I just know it's that one. Was the those t shirts expensive? Like I'm talking probably 30 $40 30
to $40 for maybe 20. You spend 12 on yours? I know this may.
It is a lucrative industry. It's separate.
Why can't hang with a $12 ones?
I haven't bought him a piece of clothing ever. It's all
we could do. Can I complain to him? If I haven't before we could do we could do a freemium we could do a premium like t shirt with the yeah do you think how would How do you think Amy would feel if we're like you know what? Based on big media company companies merge budget Yeah, he can be our first ambassador and only has to do is where the merge so we pay for his clothes. But they will have to be the
branding What do you think basically bought bought real estate on a human? Yeah. Well not because I don't Jason visited the to the to call that the kid his clothes he has are actually cool. But that's why I like we're gonna get back embroider high quality. Yeah, but I think the says I mean you cute because he's Mini. But other than that, I don't think like, tops. That's a no for me. But these new top right, this expensive one. We didn't know these jeans around now like blue like navy
and made a wash denim. Or does that really change up when you had a kid who shoots himself? I'm gonna
do Yeah, exactly. I've become more dirty since I'm a kid. They would do it in they need to be washed. But it it dies yours not mine. Sorry. Yeah, so
these clothes, my clothes. It died his t shirt blue. But it's actually looks fucking sick. It looks like it's meant to be like that. It was a yellowy top and now it's like this sort of dry is we know it's not great. That would look shit. It's this blue color. That looks fucking awesome. Now I don't think
I could recover from that. I'll check it out.
He doesn't know though. Yeah, well, that's
why that's my argument of just getting him $12 t shirt.
If we don't get him into the daily talk. I mean, who we gonna pick up parents. Other kids died that will same in this.
I think it's got cut through if he if he's sort of. I think it's just a good easy win for everyone involved. Maybe. How about we start with us?
Last Word is wearing merchandise. We've got Mr. 97. We've got three day deal. Who's booked the tickets? We haven't even talked about that fact. Yeah.
So three day deal.
The relationship with radio deal started I would like to say in January. Yeah.
He reached out nice email. He'd found us on Matt developers podcast roundup show. And he. And he said that we were he's creative inspiration for the which is somebody said, Yes, he did. Okay, Tony narcissists. You've. You've just,
you've got their heart. And yeah,
my ears were ringing. sort of moved me.
And now he's moving to Australia for months to
be a part of the beat media company.
So cool. So beginning of May. We're going to meet him at the airport. Yeah. Can we? Can we take it? We haven't spoken with.
Take the 30. Yeah, because I've got the baby seat. Yeah. And they can speak fact.
so bored to get. So they'll be 97 hours or more have some signs? Maybe? Yeah,
I reckon we could. We could.
There'll be the live. I was like, maybe we open it to everyone who listens to the show. To come
to the airport. I reckon we could get
all right can Russ would take the dial.
I know a guy and I've talked about him before in this podcast. He's a prize pig. But he's also like a celebrity Hunter.
Yes, yeah, I remember this.
And he goes to the airport, when he hears celebrities flying in any white. And it's not like he's a job. It's not a job, bro. He doesn't get paid to do it. He just does it because he's a bit tweaked it slightly tweaked. I think that Unless Unless we just see it as like, That's his hobby. Right? Right. Good on him for doing a thing and finding a hobby.
I love it. I love like,
I don't like going to the airport if I'm not leaving because you do. Well, you can leave.
Well, I've been pulled over by the Fed federal police before for was I was stopping on the side of the road near the airport and getting I just got my f7 and so I was getting 40 lines. You can end because I was stopped and then I was driving back and pulled me over. It was awesome.
It's not that awesome
now. Yeah. But it was just like the Federal Police. Like it takes a fair bit in the scope of what the federal police will get you for. Yeah, pulling over the side of the road to film planes is a pretty good one. It's
better than getting down on drug charges for importation.
So three day deal.
We'll have him on the show on the Friday. That is anything well, he's super jet lagged. Like I hope he feels up for it. I think we need because he flies in very early in the morning. We need to we need to keep him up all day. You'll be buzzed anytime I get anywhere. That's the buzz getting homes. Fact because you saw exhaust and you're like this is not about after the four months when he's dying. Yeah, when he goes home I'm sure I'll be like I want to just have a nap or something but when you get to a new place you like
wow, I was already saying to bring him like a let's get the Saturday and Sunday clear so we can take him graduation. Really? You're gonna go well brace at
the heat for like four months. Yeah, let's just space it out.
They don't like to settle in. Yeah, you don't want to take one a two hour drive two and a half hour drive.
It'll be like seven hours but once you do
now I reckon we go it's it will be our first fat Friday. Will it first fat Friday in our new studio. And our record we do gender tie which is I entire restaurant is not new to new to us because we're in the neighborhood new to me. I've never had it Mr. 97 Nevada never had it Josh says it's the best time Melbourne well
that's what people say.
Well, I said yeah. And then someone else said it and I said When did you last have a Josh he said two years ago. It's
a thing though, it's like that, you know, we talked about like if you give yourself sort of a title yet someone has said that the best time Melbourne and then sticking.
And I'm looking at the Instagram. I'm thinking this looks amazing. So I'm I just hope that I'm as satisfied. Yeah, as I've been told that we're satisfied with
the with the new studio. So you're you're building this week, basically a
bones, three walls, three walls. So the the pellet wall that we have here in the studio, everyone was saying, Are you taking it? Like you can't take it too heavy? Possibly too annoying. I can't be bothered. Yeah, I'd rather just build one. Yeah, so we're building a new pallet wall in the studio.
And so the once we have that setup, just, this is a bit of admin. Will we be using this table for the first few episodes?
Well, I think there's going to be a couple of phases. There's the there's I'm
just over sitting on a stone I me too.
But I think
two weeks if you don't watch the video, we are sort of up on stalls. And we both got fucked backs because it feels
like you're at the pub like this is hard. Is this what I feel?
Actually, but this is classic, sort of this is not your standard bar high. Okay.
And so could we potentially get like a cheap IKEA desk while we wait for
like a cheap IKEA desk?
That's my only probably you won't even really say look, if you look at it, as shown on YouTube,
I actually think we this is actually I've got to keep it as I can. I
now let me get you will because we take the table top and we put legs on it.
Now, that's not a bad idea.
Because Don't we have one out in the back like a spare?
Not because the will be super like wonky? Why this is like this is this is legit and how that structured it but I was saying we keep it as one shot sort of close. Yes. All that sort of changed is the look at the background. Yes. But then on phase two of the studio when there's multiple cameras the new lots of there the new desk that's been purpose built, Mr. 90 sevens little nook, three day deal. Just you know, cruising around, and wherever
is gonna be
worth that. We will but within sort of open up so you actually visually Saidel
So the next this phase two is seeing everything.
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