#290 – Cyclone Shameless/
- February 25, 2019
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show we discuss:
Tommy’s trip to Sydney
An update on Mr. 97’s big weekend
Love advice with Gemma Watts
Mr. 97’s first date happening Tuesday
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Daily Talk Show Episode 290. Yeah, boy might wait so close to 300 this is exciting. I'm excited. There's so much to be excited about. Well, people might not realize why you're so excited. Yeah, well, it's not I the excitement doesn't come from my weekend as much as my weekend was nice, but just quickly flew to Sydney to go to a wedding on Saturday. Yeah, I got in Friday night late.
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Amy got a migraine. So we couldn't even go to the wedding. So the reason we went to Sydney with the wedding was for
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Saturday, the wedding was Saturday at three o'clock he got to about 12 and I'm He's like, Oh, no, so she migraines are like series. If you've just had a bad headache, it's not a migraine, the migraines like I've never seen this before, like, hand starts going down. Like you start losing some speech. It's like, partly psychological. Do you think or no, I don't know. This is I don't I know. Timing wise. It's like, if it happens before big event. Yeah. Like, there is triggers to migraines. They don't quite know enough about it yet. It's so complex. But anyway, so she she luckily slept it off. Some of them are much worse, but she's wiped out. But it knocks you out. So we didn't go to this morning. What did you do? Did you do a classic because Amy was pregnant when you went on your honeymoon? Yeah. And so I'm he would stay in the hotel room being sick, and he would go back. I'd go drinking beers and exploring and making videos. There's no BS because I'm not drinking this weekend. I did go walking. And the weather was shit. So I just had coffee and just but we ended up going out and having a nice dinner. she recovered and we went to Bondi and, and had some lovely food. So it was it was nice, but it wasn't. That's not where my excitement comes. I was glued to my phone. I've never used my phone so much across a weekend. We like to not work on weekends. There was a lot of stuff was hard co working is the 97 can you just come in? Yeah, yeah, come in. This is a good time to get him in. Well, you're the reason why I bloody have used my phone more than I ever have in the last 48 hours. How are you feeling today? A
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little bit overwhelmed. So a big weekend? Yeah. Well, for people who aren't on our Instagram account, the daily talk show on Instagram, if you want to follow us along. But on Friday, now friends that shameless Michelle and Zara came into the office, and they were just going to record their episode. Yeah. And then we thought we've got Mr. 97. Here. We have podcast friends who have access to one of the biggest female audiences in Australia. Yeah. And girls are tapped in like, I just across the weekend saw how powerful the shameless girls audience actually is. And Mason felt the full brunt of it. Yeah. Last week, we did talk about how we wanted to find you a girlfriend. You've never been on a date. You've never had a girlfriend. And we want to do a solid. And so Cyclone shameless. This is
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my son, Mr. 97. real hard. So what's, what's it been like? Oh, my, the. Yeah. Tell us why and why it's been like that because we haven't even like on the daily talk show. We haven't even So what happened? Tell us what happened? Yeah. So So yeah. Last Thursday, we recorded a Friday, Friday, Friday. Last Friday. We recorded a little bit and the channels girls put it up on their social media. I've actually got it here. I'll play this. This was what the shameless girls put on to their Instagram,
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guys. Welcome to shameless shameless dating show. Shameless diving shark. We are joined by Melvin's most eligible 19 year old Bachelot. Now, Mr. 97 years single, yep, yep. And you want to find a wife? Yep, yep. Okay. Oh, just a girlfriend who is kind of you got any plans tonight? No. Plans tomorrow. No plans for setting up Mr. 97 with a girlfriend this weekend. Michelle, do you have some questions? I do. Out of the point. I think first of all, what do you look for in a go?
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Someone is someone who's a mate so someone I can hang out with I can work out
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with yet who's happy to like kill off and watch Netflix.
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Okay, that's two very different
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with the spectrum, okay, I'm lazy, right?
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Someone someone who can have a bit of banter who can give me a bit of shit. No, I can give it a shit.
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I've got Can I have a fire round of question? Yeah, go for it. Donald Trump. Yes. Oh, no. No, cats or dogs. Dogs. Would you rather be laminated while alive will have paper cups on your eyeballs.
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Jesus.
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Would you rather? Baby cats? Yeah, I agree. You never want to be laminated while alive blonde or brunette. blonde. What's the most?
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What's the most important personality trait? It's not yes or no. honesty and authenticity.
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D So if I'm looking for you, okay. Climate change Yes or no? Yes. Yes. What is happening? No, it's happening break. What would your ideal date night be
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on are probably like a cooked meal at home. I cook it
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so you What do you cook
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a healthy maybe maybe like Mexican or something like that?
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And what kind of age range are we looking for? 18 to 24. Sorry, age 24. My slack working out? How do you organize paying for a date? Okay, okay, say wrong. It's I think men and women are equal that you'll
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be fine. Okay, you'll pay for the date. So he'll take you out. If you like the look of Mason, Mr. 97 $97
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just get that in one more time. I don't actually think you haven't started but that also in Melbourne, we should say if you like the look of Mason, you need to head over to send them over to the daily talk show instagram instagram. So write a comment on their photo tag a friend and yeah, tag a friend get your girlfriend's involved because Come on. He's such a catch. Look at him. He got nine seven counties a task or can we please progressive any cooks? as mobile? Can we give them not? Give them much more? Come on, guys. Thank you for coming to shameless dating. This is the first and only time
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I think they're gonna have 100% strike right if they only ever do this once, but I'll read you what they put as the status when they posted this on Instagram because it helps just really tie up and tell you why we were glued to our phones over the weekend. Shameless goes right, attention single shameless listeners. The very funny and delightful boys ever. The Daily talk show have come to us with a mission to set up with a very clever and single 19 year old employee. This is Mason, he got a 97 ATIA, he hates Trump. He likes to cook Mexican food, and he wants to take an eligible Melburnian on the first date of his life. Would you date him? If so? Let us know even better, let him know if this podcast can play Cupid every now and then honestly, if it can't, honestly, what's the point? If you are single, you have a mate who is get them tagging. All right. So this is what they instructed everyone to go to our page or to just start commenting on this holy shit. Yeah, there was so many comments, and I've and your Instagram account the Mr. 97 Instagram account? Yeah, you've your followership is filled with females who are 99% chicks. Yeah, yeah. And who was single? Did you notice they're all planters? Well, I've listened. They listened to some of your thoughts. So tell us what what's it been like for the last 48 hours? Um, it's been crazy. Like so many. So many people have been messaging like I sent I sent Tommy are the daily talk show on Instagram. Tell me if you saw it, but it was a it was a screenshot of all all the day ends that I've gotten on Instagram. It was at least like 30 ish. So this is people who have gone to miss the 97. Yes, that and like they're saying the messaging me. Yeah. Cuz I was messaging you on Friday. I got a little bit worried. I was worried because you've previously done a call out to try and find a police officer who you thought was attractive in Shepperton. Yeah, and you got in a lot of trouble by the place. Yeah, yeah, we did. But I just know my like, my son is a guy that says yes to anything we throw at him, because he wants to be a team player. And he and he likes to impress me. And I do think you like to put yourself out there, which is what you're doing with this big time. Yeah. And so I was like, maybe this is like I felt just the the thunderstorm the sidelines. Is You call that Yeah, I got I got a lovely message from Tony just yet telling me to call him if I have any problems. On the other hand, I may say, Oh, I might be rolling on it. What's?
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What are you up to Matt? Yeah, I was actually at the front end event. With Zara Michelle. We're just taking 24 hour. I think we just when we need you can put the pain if you don't want this, but it sounds like you're enjoying this. Yeah, it's good experience. So what was the first sort of message that came in? Do you remember the specific first am
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not
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not the first one a lot? A lot of them a lot of them were a bunch of pickup lines about Mexican Mexican you can cook in the Mexican any day. Okay. Great. Love Mexican dog. It took off? Yeah, the Mexican Yeah, yeah. The next Mexican thing took off and then somehow peanut butter took off as well.
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Really?
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Oh, yeah. I got I gotta I gotta I don't know what happened in the Facebook group. But I someone messaged me crunchy peanut butter. And then I told him about my five five kg of peanut butter pitches. Yeah, that,
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that I had a few more messages about that. But yeah, what have you learned about yourself through the process?
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Definitely not overthink anything. Yeah. Yeah, that's for sure. Just just sort of so you are a natural over thinker. Do you think? I think when it comes, yeah, you're winning when it comes to this year? I overthink it a little bit. I was like, Oh, yeah, what happens if I say this? What happens if I say that but if you literally just I don't know message normally then it's much better. Do you think that's why you haven't actually gone on the date yet? Because you've ever thought at the time that this is potentially in terms of like a date after this weekend or
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this week? Yeah, probably Yeah. Yeah, we should we should get old might want seen Gemma wants on the phone. So Jim has been sort of wing wing Manning you hard on weekend. Yeah, it was one of the first comments Yeah. Lovely comment on the post. It was like girls shameless goes. I can vouch for these guys. Yeah, he's great. So you've got the endorsement from Jay wall. So let's catch Gemma before she jumps on the train.
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Hello, this is Miss Gemma's love.
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Let's see what's going on my
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I'm a lucky
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enough.
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Perfect. So we've got Mr. 97. Here. Yeah, he's shaking.
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eligible bachelor.
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I know it's been huge. missing it seven. You had some questions? Yeah, we Gemma I think the best way to position you for Mr. 97 is you are the big sister. And you can
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finally the angle that I've been so lucky. But
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this is this is love coach and sister. So So Mr. 97 what's what do you thinking so far? What questions have you got? So Gemma? I think one of the things I've been thinking about and I need a bit of help with is something about conversation starters. What do you what do you recommend?
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Oh my god. Okay, I'm so glad that you've come to me with these questions. Firstly, because my my job for the last month has been studying so exhausted like
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that package it up with a bit behind. I made I don't think nearly a compensation stop. I feel you have a cup inside your head. Yeah, you'll start to like, you know, it'll come off as like, you just have to think like,
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he's just going to be very, very calm and just talk to them as if they're a person that you already know. You're a great guy. Not except be relaxed. Think Like, they are lucky to be talking to me. Like all about my life. And I know that on me that comes across as arrogant. But on you that's
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what main what's 97 What was your approach? Like? How did you did every single person reach out to you first or did you do any reaching out? No.
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No, I didn't reach it
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was
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very cool. Yes.
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Why didn't you reach at a there's a lot on the plate.
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How many hours I spent messaging people. Least 10 at least.
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Right? Sorry. So many lovely people. Like come like yeah, message me say
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every single one.
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Was there any that you were like, oh no. This is like, that doesn't sound good. Or, or that doesn't sound like my like a beginning of avoid that. Because you're not I mean, you can see them but you're also getting a slight taste of the personality based on what they're saying. So was there any that you have to say their names but yeah, I'm a bit. Yeah. What's the extreme end of like stuff that was like this chicks? Lovely. And this chick is? quite full on? Yeah, there are a few. A few from New Zealand actually. Okay. Yeah,
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a little bit.
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Now, but though they were probably one of the nicest. We literally were just talking about like Joe Rogan.
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That's it sort of stuff. Jim, I've got a question for you. Like, at what point do you think he then because you know, their intentions of the message, but how do you say, let's do this. Let's make this happen. What what's your suggestion to him? Because I haven't asked him that how he's going about
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I mean, Okay, first, you want to find like some common ground, an interest or a cuisine?
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would imagine that half of the messages would like not to I related? Yeah. So then I wouldn't like if I were just putting myself in the shoes of a 19 year old single male. It's probably not that typical.
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messaging saying like, I made that just hypothetically, work the Mexican food into it and be like, pretty good, but I've heard like, Mexican container
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in there. Right now. sighs
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Yeah. And then I give them like food possible evening options. That's very important. Not a day of if you're just saying, Oh, we should go out sometime. That's not a day. And your fuck boy. Yeah.
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Like an actual option and lock that shit down? Yeah.
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What do you think about like known food related dates? Like is it too extreme for him? Like the people we Tommy and I have been off the dating scene for a very long time. Like,
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do you know like, do people go rollerblading and stuff? Or is that sort of more school holidays?
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lighting?
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lighting and then
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Phaedra lighted activities and fine. Yeah,
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I tell you what. Tomorrow potentially don't do is take them to the circus. I took a girl to the circus. First Date. She got picked to go up on stage on
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she's out there. I'm just like odd know that? It didn't go well. What about a comedy show? comedy show would be
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at the at the moment the sort of the plan is Oh, sorry. missing. I was gonna play this is good. I like this. What's your plan? Okay, so there's, there's a there's a little date scheduled for tomorrow. night for tomorrow night? Yeah. And my heart. My chest hurts.
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So I apologize. The background while
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I'm on die, really? Yeah.
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So the plan at the moment is
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going around to her place. I'm bringing. I'm bringing my dog she's gonna she's gonna little pop as well.
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But she said there's a there's a witness for? Yeah.
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And then, can I strap my microphone and GoPros? You know?
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It's a quadruple date. Yeah, double double double that the dogs
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going to her house
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after work. So like, 666 30
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we can definitely make sure we're done royally. And then. Yeah, and then so like, I don't know, take the dogs on a walk or something. Then come back. And then I'm cooking. f8. Really? You're actually cooking? Yeah,
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what have you told your family?
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behind?
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Right. All right, perfect. I love
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it.
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Can I just
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gotta have a look? I haven't I haven't figured she said there's one nearby, so I'm just gonna
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hang on. Can I just say, because I don't think that you can just go. I mean, if she's the one. I'm happy with way too well, but I but I do think that there needs to be some kind of this is a hard thing. Gemma, this is a question for a girl that could be going on a date with a young man. That is Yeah, definitely in on the market. What's the feeling of like knowing that he's potentially that going off to other people, because that's the reality of this so bad about that. I'm not doing that.
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This is the thing. And this is a tip from good old, that f8 anywhere else in the world. That's very normal. If you go on one date with someone that's fine. If the expectation is that they're dating other people, that's what dating is. In Australia, we tend to jump from, you know, you meet someone in a group setting online, and then you jump from that straight to Oh, we're exclusively dating. So I don't think it's a big deal. And she shouldn't.
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I mean, the bachelor would be very boring if he's like, actually, I really liked this girl. Yeah.
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I think you know, being in the dating arena, like that's the expectation, you know, being a sleazebag. You're a nice guy. That's just me meeting people you've said you want to find someone that can have some banter like you actually friends with so that
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you propose on the first
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side.
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It's very like I feel like cooking at her place is quite intimate, though. Like, is there a risk in going to intimate too quickly? That it's going into what is it called the girlfriend experience? Is that what they call? No, I think
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I think the girlfriend experience I mean, it's I think I saw it on some sort of Luther very thing, but it was related to prostitutes.
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Yes.
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So I can't
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Yeah. Yeah.
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No, I think I think what that will do I think that date for you, Mr. 97. You'll be yourself. Yeah, that's what I like about it. Yeah, you go to find things where you will be yourself, like going to this is going to movies is it's okay, but you're not talking to the person is you don't have much of a personality. Yeah, yeah,
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exactly. When you've been together for seven.
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You want to just get a napkin? Yeah. And so Gemma, do you have any other thoughts with the context that Mr. 97 is going to be going to the house, all of these elements? Anything that so are you bringing 97 you bring all the ingredients? Still to figure that one out? Like if there's a supermarket there then there won't be a sigma house, but
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it wouldn't be wild.
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Richmond. Okay, great. We've got the suburbs Richmond's convenient. It's a big center.
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dog park in Richmond.
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Actually, you know what the funny thing is when I was housesitting, yeah, I went to the dog park in which it wouldn't be it'd be too much for me to borrow the talk that I normally Yes. Yes. I'm gonna get involved at all. I'm looking forward here
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in Richmond at that time tomorrow.
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Just last Lastly, Gemma, what what do you think you should do about the other hundreds of women that have been message? Yes. That's a good question. Because he I think he's feeling a bit guilty based on Yeah, now you're not? You're not married to this girl from tomorrow night.
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Watching is that plan of attack baby. Let's not use the word. No attacking going. He's my son's love plan.
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plan
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may really want him to put a spreadsheet with
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all of this sense and perfumes. Yeah. Yeah.
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I mean, that's what I would need to get. I don't know if you want to come across as a psycho.
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Tonight, I mean, you can't go to them. From what I've been told about modern day think that. That's a very common thing. But just I don't I don't know how one
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really wraps up a conversation in a way that is
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a lot. needs to be comfortable with the idea that the girl that he makes tomorrow, the next day, she might be getting cooked another meal. Yeah, by Mr. 99. Yeah. And you just gonna have to be Yeah, yeah, he's a doctor. Does that feel? Does that make you feel sort of weird that part of the dating scene or no? No, I don't think okay. Yeah. Yeah, that's good. What?
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Sin feel bad if I do it, so it's Yeah, sure. So you don't mind? Yeah, that's good. I think I this has been bringing up so many of the experiences I've had like thinking about you and like thinking about when you go on a date with somebody, and you don't actually gel with him? How do you how do you apply it? It is a hard one, because I'll be be the first to admit, I've probably brushed off girls, and it's hurt them. I've had it done to me. And I don't think there's any the higher road is to be a man and say, tell them how you feel. And then it didn't work out. I don't think you know where to you
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know, I see he's a battle. I've always thought I don't have to do it. Because I don't know the main thing. But then you could also be a good person and think about who you want to be and how you'd want to be treated and then treat them like that. Yeah, it's not going like because I could easily go Oh, you're a psycho man. I didn't even fucking like that. I don't know.
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I don't think we compatible. A good person I like because I was thinking about this the other day where it's like, I hadn't seen a friend in a while. And I was gonna say to them, I thought like next time I try to reach out being like, hey, actually realized that when I'm like around two, I don't necessarily feel that good. But it feels like so necessary. But what's the difference between saying like, Hi, like, I don't think we're compatible versus just like not working on a text message, not ignoring the text messages, but just like it sort of slowly just fizzles out by ignoring their text messages. That's what happens. And then girls,
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okay, actually anything wrong with it?
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I'm just trying to think of whenever that happened to my girlfriend, and they're like, Why hasn't he called me back? My advice is always just like, Don't sweat it. Yeah,
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but then playing the big sister role and like, be nice to them.
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I had another good sign that you're not compatible to me. Like if I was if someone said, we're not compatible, be like, it's because I'm fat, isn't it like straightaway?
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I think you what you're doing is giving them the opportunity to just know, that's the biggest thing knowing otherwise, it feels just like Lady they've got no idea what's good. Maybe let's tell it what what is your thought about them? Mr. 97? What would you actually do?
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Probably be honest with them and just tell them he's he did say I'm looking for someone who is honest. And there's another one somebody somebody other baby could be like a really weird, like, it could be like, I just don't actually like, like, you're like, I don't know, you don't say that? I think look, I don't think this we're not really jelling steam. If someone said like, it's not really your personality is not really my time. You don't leave it at that. I had a really great time. Yeah. That's a big, I've had a really great time as the positive bit. Yeah, then what's the next bit? But I've got
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interested because that's not a comment from them as a person all the time that you're not necessarily romantically interested in. Yeah,
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I can
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be on the other end. Yeah,
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me baby Gemma, you could, you could do all the exit interview.
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Everyone that Mr. Nice Evans, do we think that Mr. 97? Should at the very least be going on three different dates with three different papers too? Yeah,
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definitely. Yeah.
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And do you think that they need to be
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the more dates that you go on? Yeah. It's like you get you get clarity.
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And it feels like they shouldn't all be similar to like, I feel like you
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would actually start to look like a sociopath. Yeah,
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sure. But also like,
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to the first go
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over the same dog park. My mom was suggesting a group dead.
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Right. Speed watching to merge
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with other couples are
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good.
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And then the good thing about the bachelor is that rose ceremony because it's this just the hard cut you're at if that's a reality show. That's what do you think we're doing? This is
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a reality podcast?
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bad way to do it.
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Really? Not? All happens at the show. Shameless goes live.
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97 in the talks,
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that'd be great.
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I did. I did think about like, how much Jim, do you think we should just let 97 degrees thing or do you think over the next, but over the next week, to the second
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time?
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Because I didn't think about we could get a Tyler involved for like a rental suit or something like the cry but maybe maybe it's pantomime bu bu Mr. Nice. Gemma enjoy where you were what train station he headed to? I
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just don't frequent. Sorry. Okay. Memories of the whole time. Lovely. Take me back to 2010.
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Good time.
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Everyone.
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Well, look, it's there's no shame in that. That's, that's for sure. 90 seconds on a on the beginning of the journey. I just one last question. Sorry, the gym or
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not. So kissing somebody on the first day? I know. It sounds silly. But there is. I've had girls crack the sheets that I didn't kiss them on the first day. And but then, yes, seriously? Yeah. I mean, that's why I'm not with them. How did they crack it? Well, because they make it like, oh, you're not interested are like we had a great date. But I'm like, I don't really want to do that. Just Yes, I'm holding off. And so you're saying that? right about that? No, seriously? multiple times, Jim. Maybe it's not the girls that you hang around. But like, yeah.
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And so what is there? Like, there's basically there's no rule is there?
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No, God at all.
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Okay, good. There was do do what you do. For you. Oh, yeah. They mean Mexican and kissing. Like, I guess there. It's okay. If you both having a Mexican and stuff. Yeah, it's Yeah, it's gonna be nice. I'm really excited. So excited. Enjoy your train ride. We'll continue the conversation with 97 and maybe it'll be good to
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to get you back on in the coming days as the story progresses.
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I've got my way debate.
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On Jim.
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Jim, what's the heck? giving out the giving out the advice do you feel a bit more comfortable after you can Gemma? Yeah, yeah. A little bit more comfortable? Yes. And so can you explain like, what was the the Friday night? Saturday, the Sunday? What has that because I called you at probably 5pm. I said, What are you doing at work sort of dams? Have you haven't opened any and I'm just about to do a training session to release manga. Yeah. So that was that was the position you're into the bat? Friday, like 455 o'clock. Yeah. And then what was the way that progressed from there? Another training session on Saturday
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or Sunday?
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We Yeah, I think the the DM sort of like spiked up on on Saturday, I got a fair few on Saturday. And just and just started like going through all the ones from from Friday and just started like, responding and checking them off. Man. It's, you know, when you get a bunch of text messages, and you just know that you're going to get to them. I feel the anxiety there. Yeah, this is there's so much more on the line. And then there were comments on the Facebook as well that I feel like I felt like I had to respond to it. And I've only done like a few of them. Did you use even on the daily talk show posts? Like there are a few on the dance or
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can I can I say give you a piece of advice? Yeah, sure. Here we go. I don't think you should be following back all these people because I think for some people if Josh was go in the mix of getting a date Yeah, he'd be going to the follows and seeing who you followed what made them right to get followers just like I saw you follow follow a Holly very quickly. And that was I was slightly just makes it Okay, he's pulling the trigger very early. Yes. Yeah. By also appreciate can follow it right. Yeah, you gotta get you gotta get I get it. This is a learning curve. But I wanted to I selfishly held this piece of advice for the show, which is money.
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Did you?
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Okay, good, man. And so did you like him? Do you kiss goodbye and stuff in the messages to use many emojis? Yeah, a lot of emojis. emojis a fan. Yeah, fine. But you know what? I loosens it up? You know what I think you should actually do? Yeah, get on the blog. Get on what does that mean? on the phone? Did you
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get on the phone? Like, I think young. I mean, it's your generation is all about like instant Facebook Messenger instant messenger. text message, like not even text message. I think they're away from text and very far away from phone. Yeah. So if you were to sort of front foot it and be sort of an old school dude and say, love to have a phone chat? I think it would. That's commendable. Because you can't go on dates with like, yeah, going on. 30. dates. costs a bit of money. Yeah. All the time. How are you gonna get the dog to Richmond? Yeah.
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Are you gonna ask if we can drive you? We can we can try my best matchup
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last night, so
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this is gonna be good.
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Post interview. Yeah, absolutely. So any other thoughts? Any any feelings? What have you What have you learned about the about dating about women? about yourself? Yeah, probably. Yeah. Never, never, never complicated. Anything. Just sort of just go with it and just be yourself. Yeah,
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I'm just excited. You see what happens? You have this anxious, but it should be it should be good. psychic Cyclone shine with it. And so after, after Tuesday after tomorrow night. Yeah, we can speak to and get all the details. Yep. But do you think that you could end up with the girlfriend? Out of all of this? Yeah, maybe? Maybe? Well, I think my good day am speaking with themselves. There's a high chance that you could. There's a high chance Yeah, that you definitely could have a girlfriend. Yeah. Did you get any clarity on I definitely don't want this or I've decided like did you have any? Anyone that was really aggressive in like, hey, sexy boy or anything like that. Nothing too aggressive.
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There was one sort of close to that. Yeah. Shall we be reviewing that? A bit pantomime any? Any photos being sent either way? Yeah, you don't do that. I don't think this is that kind of a. This is not that kind of a situation. Where it's getting Matty on. That's what it sounded like. Why would you send a photo when you got Instagram? I will like yeah, that's what I meant. Like instance, like personal like are Where are you right now? It's, I can look at this view. Or I'm having dinner right now. That's him. And he's man. Yeah. But those I think that's a fact. I think that would actually be the next level of the DM. Yeah. Is the photo or or a phone chat. Before we start clicking through? Just have a chat. This is the I want you to I it's the thing with Tinder, Tinder or Bumble is like purely based on how you look? Yeah. And then there's a bit of combo in text which is manufactured you think about it, you think you know, you're trying to craft who you're trying to come across and get on the blog. We need. We need to stop saying blower Get on. Get on the phone see CO and
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so easy. Right?
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Right? Yes, we're proud of you, Mr. Nice. And I am so proud and that we haven't actually looked at all that is it? Is it? Is it kosher first to go through every damn. You call with us just like not to trivialize maybe if you want to
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scroll through, if you think about the project. So this is the thing, you got to look at it two ways. You've got the producer type thing, which is like, married at first sight style. We're not doing that. But if you've got a couple of maids 100% Yeah, you would have that banter and you'd go through, what do you think about this one? Do you think that's okay? I mean,
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I don't want to I want you to make every one of your own decisions. My wife's biggest thought was a concern was about this was, I don't want my son to do something he doesn't want to do. But I was thinking about he does it every day.
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Coming to work, there is so many things I've done that I didn't want to do. Meaning I wasn't listening to myself, went on dates with his girl kept it going because I thought it was probably the right thing to do. But I didn't really want to listen to that. But But my point is, I said to me, You know what you need to do stuff you don't want to do so you work out what you really want to do. Yeah, and and then it will teach you so there's so many experiences that you're going to have we can help you with you will just learn from you over this. And we can preface everything. It's like oh, this is what I would do. Or this is interesting. x y and Zed or Don't you think this person's nice as well? Yeah, look Yeah, if I'm if I'm super uncomfortable doing anything, I wouldn't I wouldn't do it. Yeah, I mean, it's just a bit of development and there was even like, I think the first person to ever follow you. I felt a heavy investment on that person straightaway. I think this is the one
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but I understand that there's a there's a lot of physios following you. physio. Yeah, I saw really registered nurses.
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It's gone through when I looked at all the profiles, but I'm going to help Mr. 97 and just screening a few but
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don't you could get they say my lovely girl. Yeah, I do feel like such a big crave I'm
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sure these profiles I'm just like my wife's they said I was gonna migraine.
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Like Samantha's a physio,
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some of the photos these girls post. It's crazy. So what sort of final are just like, you know, sexualized photo?
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We didn't have that we didn't have that my mo gronk not to the extent of what how acceptable it is. Now, even when we were young when I was 18. Your age, people would have scoffed at another person putting out photos of themselves in the finale, a very common It doesn't matter. Like what if you're a doesn't matter if you're a primary school teacher or a registered nurse or whatever. It's got to be like at least a rig photo by the looks of it. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's good like mine. And I have myself speaking to daily talk show. Hi, the daily talk show.com just want to say an email. Mr. 97 on Instagram, you can follow him just go through the daily talk show. To find him if you're listening. suggest watching the video. You can see the Zara and Michelle from shameless on this episode and you'll be able to see also the awkwardness throughout the whole thing as well go to our YouTube channel and if you think that we're too perverts or if you would like to give any negative feedback, the email is the best way to get high at the daily talk. show.com put perverts in the subject.
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