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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 345 going on guys happy Monday.

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What is uh what's the lightest the fun mood today

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bit of a bit of a mad men die?

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Yeah Monday just getting getting the ship back on track get the vacuum

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out.

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Speaking off. Can you write that down? We need to I mean the vacuum man where you get the vacuum product?

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All right Good. Good. That was that was pre pre Flemington. Yeah.

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Seemed like a big mistake.

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That's right. I had the rest of the lemon chin.

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But what is it prize? Me man? You love it?

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Do you have that five admin wise Mr. Nice.

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Yes. So we

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this is your little bit that you were talking about? It's not a bit. No, so we we got a message from Carl picked up gronk says since listening to fuck your Tommy gronk Yeah, I don't know. It's a YouTube comment. Not sure where it's from? Yeah,

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fuck you. Yeah,

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I mean, it's the best possible troll on YouTube ever you read? It is my thing.

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We do a fuck you cow like all of us together and then we could use it as a sample thing. In the count of three. We say fuck you cow. You will? Yeah. Because he said he said yeah, cow. Yeah. 123. Cow.

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lovey. gronk keep the comments coming. It is my go through now. Like when I Amy and I are both sitting in bed watching something on my laptop that's like on YouTube. I just get this get the swap going just straight down to the comments while the video is going. Yes. It's like in the commentary now is around how much time people are actually spending their like, if only I spend as much time on my hobbies I did in the comments section. Yeah,

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it's so funny. I spend way too much time like I buy all these books.

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I haven't been writing them. Yeah,

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I know. That's why I've always I've always said that I've always pushed back on that.

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Can you ever say I've always said that without forgive?

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Nobody should be I think the rule should be in place that you can buy another one into you've read this one because otherwise you're just actually spending money barefoot was advising you'd probably say put it into a high interest account the money that you're going to spend so maybe that's something you could do is actually spend so you take the money that you're going to buy the Austin Klay on book actually bought that on the business Yeah, tax write off and send that money to an account. That was like book money,

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but I don't get the book

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until so you can earn some interest on that cash. And then so in three months time when you finish this one book,

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so final little doctor herbal The thing with him? Yeah, so I say 500 like $500 run on the book unboxing say that was 500 bucks. The interest on that.

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What are we talking 2.7% 2.87% Yeah,

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that would be the equivalent of no no no but to see me out 2% of

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510 bucks

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correct No, let's go with you want to go thousand?

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that correct? Thank you Is $10 Yes. Okay. 3% and so let's just say it was 3% my just rounding it up. That is $15 15 bucks. Like I feel like I could save 15 bucks a lot easier

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than I can know been but then you could you've got the cash you could buy 10 books from the Silva is that you said they're all on official so your army No, I'm saying spin the cash on spend the cash on books, buying from salvos, but just don't buy them. They're just sitting around so and you've got a small apartment. Yeah, I've got limited space here. I've

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got a bookshelf that I'm still trying to fill. Yeah. Three day deal. was staying with me you would agree my bookshelf is quite good. Yeah,

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it's I've flipped through some of the books on there. It's it's good it's only like two thirds full but a majority of the books that I flipped through I can tell have been unread by Josh

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because there's no underlying

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EDS fucking pose and move, bro.

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I've got my books. Like it's fulfilling one thing, but it's not the practical use of the thing.

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I my eyes just get so tired. Yeah, I know. It's just annoying. I read 10 pages the other don't get sleepy. Yeah, yeah, I get sleepy to every other thing too is by the time I actually the phone is the most fucked up thing. Because it's just like, there's always something I'm reading about the book come read. I'm searching like literally like, in the evenings. I've been on Amazon searching for other books during my time of is this what, like people experience who were dating? Do they spend more time on Tinder than they do actually going and interact?

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Because I think there's a there's a there's an enjoyment within the scroll through Tinder. Like you're in the comfort. And surprise, Mr. 97 is not addicted to this. Because you're in the comfort of your own home checking out chicks and looking at and just thinking they're doing the same thinking. They're on the other end. Yeah.

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Like I think that this is a good sort of low energy, you know, Monday session. admin time. Good Time to get updates from Mr. 97. On any sort of things. Yeah,

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good point. He said I say we're shifting this right a deal.

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today.

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How's your love life?

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pretty quiet. pretty quiet at the moment. But is

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it like so the thing that I was talking to on Periscope this morning about it?

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I saw you guys on the security camera. Really? Good. So I heard him say it. Yeah, cuz he had to fucking Bobby's head coming in from outside.

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It's all like old paint. Yeah, just dead and then he's got a lot of space he got Yeah,

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it's like an adult being in a cubby house.

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real cute guy. What do you got?

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him marshmallow? Small is big in Canada or just Yeah, yes.

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Mars is huge.

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Okay, what's up chocolaty guys. We're talking to Mr. Chuck Hershey. Chocolate by the way.

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Mr. 97

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wanted pizza. So he was I was I was reflecting on because we live vicariously through Mr. 97. And one of my favorite things to talk about is the missed opportunity. Yeah, that, you know, we were able to organize this

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made the key to headset shots for go from 30 meters out. We a football, like a soccer ball shape. Yeah,

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he's hit the jackpot. Yeah, he's, we were literally were like venture capitalists. And we've given him $10 million. And he said, do anything you want any idea? And you know what he said? I don't have any ideas. It's a little bit what it feels like to stand that not everyone's goal is to be backed up by venture capitalists,

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video, MVP, minimum viable product? Did he actually do that?

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MVP Minimum Viable relationship? It was so what's your what it let's let's get deep and serious for a moment. What do you what's what's on your mind in regards to all of this?

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Let's see. This is why Tommy can't use the

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right He doesn't deserve a clap just yet.

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I don't know. I think it's an interesting one. It's a it's figuring out if if I wanted at the moment, because I I'm still I'm still unsure of whether whether it's something that I want to push towards MPC

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because because of what? Well, that's that's what I'm not really sure about. I think if you could if you could come up with a reason as to why wouldn't be something not to say that this is but what would a reason for someone to not want to enter into that dating scene or those relationships?

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I guess I guess in a way, it sort of sort of is a cop out but I think my interests at the moment lie in what we're doing at the moment and my passion.

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Well, I've just I've turned off.

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I think that that might go through to the through the taper based on the

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pre fader. Okay, anyway, long story road caster. Yeah. So yeah,

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focused. So. I mean, at the moment, I feel, I feel like that What I want is

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to keep to keep doing what I'm doing. With,

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with with you guys. And as though like, a relationship would be a distraction to that. But it's all this thought and energy that has to be put into something. And I don't know, maybe maybe it's like a bit unfair if I'm not committing 100% to it.

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You know, what?

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If I'm half enough and half not like it's not, it's not fair.

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So once you get the backup hard drives all sorted.

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Drive is going yeah, once we're on,

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like honesty is the best policy. But being honest.

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Being honest, is is something about that emotional vulnerability, like seeing the man you had a couple of nights? Yes. And you can tell where the the place you need to take yourself to you can you know, it's a different it's a different muscle. You're, yeah, you're opening yourself up? Yeah, in a different way. And it's a bit scary. Is that playing into it? I think I think a little bit, but it's not it's not the main driver for me. I think.

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I mean, in a way, I guess, I think with with a with a couple of days that I went on, like a sort of in a lot of them with like the messages and stuff you close yourself off to not overthink it and to not, you know, think what would happen? What are they they going to reply, all that sort of stuff. So you sort of just like ignore it, and sort of take like the the really chill approach instead of like, a hands off sort of approach. I mean, you

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guys off the steering wheel, it's gone. It's gone. Go. Yeah, and it's not?

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Absolutely. The the Boeing Max, it's gone down. Yeah.

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No, but I think I think that does stem from a little little vulnerability around that. But I think that the main driver at the moment is I just don't think it's fair if I don't dedicate

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is a fish.

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I don't go into the relationship giving what I want. And yeah, I just don't think I'm ready.

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But maybe we're putting too much emphasis on what you need to give because people have careers and all that sort of stuff. Like a deal. What mean, you're not. How are you now? 2020? You know, you've got a year off. You've got many more months. 97 a huge amount.

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You don't have an official girlfriend at the moment, is that correct? Correct. And what's your perspective on what's your reasoning? My reasoning is, I want to be able to dedicate the time that I'm in school and the time that I'm experiencing here, dedicate that 100% fully to what it is I'm doing. Yeah,

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that's

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right. Oh, I'm hearing is we got a couple of dedicated boys. I just can't

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have more than two things going at a time guys. Fuck. Yeah, yeah. You ever play sport and go to school? Yeah, yeah.

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But the difference is you're already in an established relationship. Where you? It's just like, you're just going home? And it's just like normal. Yeah, I mean,

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to be honest. Yeah,

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well, just because I was all on that. I can hunt. I was hunting. It's funny, man. The reason it's funny is because it's me saying, you

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know, I say I've been in. I've been in venture relationships. And I know, there has been times he. I think the thing is, you've had one shot at it, and you approached it like, I don't, I'm not going to overthink it. I actually don't think there's anything wrong in experiencing the overthinking. And so and I think maybe that will come from meeting someone that you actually really, really click with not saying you do with those girls, but someone who you actually like fuck, I think I like this person. There's a feeling I know. You know it. Yeah. Which then it's hard not to overthink it, because you you want it to work. And so I've had that, but then there's like, I mean, I definitely overthought it and it worked. But then that's, that's okay. But I yeah, it's, it's, it's hard. I think you need to try all the approaches, because yeah, you don't know what works for you. Not the approach of not overthinking. It doesn't work for everybody. Yeah,

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well, it feels like can I'm not going to overthink be the same. In the same vein, as I am going to suppress my thoughts.

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Yes. And not allow yourself to open up emotionally like the vault the vulnerability that is destined to happen, you know, relationship, but

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I wonder if that? Yeah,

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I want a wonder if that happens when when you click with the person. Like I feel like a willingness

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yet. Well, I know. I feel like that the overthinking and not sort of like getting rid of the overthinking. Sorry, it's not

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the person overthinking will won't be an issue you won't have your father I think I think when you click your stop yourself from suppressing that overthinking maybe that is maybe that's the problem. Maybe it's that I feel like maybe sometimes we can like seek this perfection. I people have to have every single box checked. And if the boxes aren't all checked, then it's a no go. Like I'm sure that every single relationship like I'm sure Bry could look and be like, like not take a few boxes on. You know, when if he was taking, like, if I can doing an analysis on this on me. Yeah, thinking about it. I'm like, fuck it. I'm fucked. system. Yeah, I would be in a lot of trouble. Yeah, but so the thing is, there is a point where it's like,

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you've got to make a decision, right of like,

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well, there's also putting yourself out there. So you're putting yourself out there. You know, there could be some young comfortability in the situation, then if you just don't do anything, it's not going to come. So it's like, there's no doubt if you went on a bunch more dates, even if you had this even if you still had that in your head about oh, I don't want to commit you know, I'm not Love it. Love Josh and tell me I'm so loyal to them. We love them. Work hard for them. Money. Still, you might find that it's beneficial going on those days. Because you're actually saying if it does this some you know connection energy. Yeah.

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Like how to play people make friends. Yes, it is. I think that that's like part of it isn't even like a relationship thing. It's just like a woman who's your newest friend. Okay, outside a three day deal in the shop. What do you think? Like?

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He's very selective. He's deleted a whole bunch of he's

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probably just from high school. Yeah. Someone someone like me. Like you nine, probably when I was in, you know?

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I mean, we're going to he's, he's 19. Yeah, but I was a stripper at 19. Yeah, no, that's it.

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I was actually hearing so I think I was watching on a TV on the TV where someone was saying, like, it's not until I think it was Jason Calacanis on This Week in Startups, and he was saying, like, you're not, it's not until you like 23 or 24, that your whole cortex thing develops? And I Yes, I know, like deal was just sitting next to me. Guys not even

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talking Beta Kappa.

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Ladies. You're here.

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I know. That's why we given so much responsibility. Like I didn't you finish school? And you know what it was? Yeah.

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What's this like that? Well, maybe part of my worry is that it's like it? Does it ever get easier? Does the person who is 19? who struggles? Do they get to 25? Like, what is the tipping point that all of a sudden you're like, Oh, yeah, I'm cool. And I'm comfortable.

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I'm getting there. I think I feel much like bit I think what about like side respectively, it's always better now. I feel as I've gotten older, you know, I always think like it each day, you get a chance to try and be a better version of yourself. Sometimes you then you can make micro changes, that sort of compound and you you know, become a different person. So the things I was doing at 90, and what I was thinking about is completely different to now. And I feel like now, I'm I think I'm more mature. And I think it's actually just come from doing all this stupid shit. Why are we so interested? Or obsessed with Mr. 97? Finding a girlfriend? Because we love him? Yeah, we aim he says we love Mr. Nice it. Tell me. Yeah.

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She says very quite often. We love me. Yeah. Deal. She hasn't met you yet. So it

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becomes we come back.

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I know system. We're proud of him. And we want him to succeed. I think that's

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so is that part of like is is that? Do we think anyway?

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The problem? Yeah,

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that's right. Like, is it? Is it negative for us to assume that the the success metric is finding someone? Yeah.

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Well, I thought life partner was probably a bit much to

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me. We're just, we're just stripping back. Just make friends that people of the opposite sex is which you know that you're interested? Yeah.

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I think that that's a good thing. Three day deal. You were in Canada when the whole thing went down. The shameless, yeah. Cyclone shameless. Yeah. As a listener of the time, what what were you taking in from from Mr. 97th experience, and what we're talking about, I was a little jealous.

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But it was interesting to hear his perspective of it. As since we're both similar in age hearing, kind of the apprehensions, not the apprehensions, but the perspective that he shared on going into dating, and what would be like, what he looks for in someone? And how he responds to that. Yeah, I know, I can relate to that. For sure. Like I started dating in high school. And that was just from spending time around people. And I think that when going into a working situation like this, that might be where it becomes difficult because you're used to spending eight 910 hours around other people in a different environment. But then coming here, you want to focus more on that. And I think with with Mr. 97 if he has, if he delegates time, specifically to just go out and experience stuff, like go to a go to a pub or something and then meet someone there and just have like, an hour conversation with them. Just to see what happens because I like I've been on dates before where it's we've literally just gone out and we've talked the entire time. What's the most awkward date that you've had our

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cheese as tough as so many know, the most?

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I don't think I've had any awkward dates. Really. There was one time where I was over at her house and we were in in her bedroom. And then like her mom came home. Yeah. And like the middle of the thing. And I was like, Oh shit, she has no idea who I am. And she's never met me before.

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In the middle of the thing. The thing the thing that

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I think we need to reframe this for him, and it's Mr. Mr. 97 find friends. It has to be something I think it has to literally like, take the relationship thing out of it. Because how do you it's you know what, it's how without alcohol

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can be To be honest, I went idiot Mr. Nice ever

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know, to be honest. I think like all the sheets, like all the overthinking stuff is removed when people drink. That's why this is

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so funny, because I just don't because you have brain I studied Oh, yeah. When I was like 16 or 17. Yeah. So I never had had that. Yeah,

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I mean, I'm a confident guy, and I still struggle. I still struggled when I was single

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sort of launching into that, you know, conversation and all those things. So it's like, Ed, it is not easy, and it's confronting, but like, that's where alcohol definitely is. Let social lubricant, not saying it's the Henson not the majority, like yeah,

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I mean, yeah, it's a it's a part of it. But I think you pride yourself missing it seven on having some old school values in regards to like, work ethic, and you're sort of an old soul in some regards. Would you say that or no? Not like being racist or anything like that. But I meant more like, you know, like, like, just the traditional like, you can I feel like you'd have good handwriting. No. Definitely

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not know. You know what I mean, though?

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I don't know. You may know.

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But as in, like, the old values, not as you know, I know that they know nothing but more like

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I don't know, traditional. Like, I feel like you got some traditional values might be I don't know what that meant.

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Yea.

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Though you just act older than you. You are.

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Yes. That is it. Yeah, I agree.

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So part of that would be like, Oh, you know, you got to show up. Like, you turn the lights off. Let's all like just things like that. I feel like you out do your age sometimes. Which What I'm saying is I'm like so and you're not a drink. You don't drink now. You don't. You don't have time for all these things that young people. You're right. Yeah.

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Well, it's not it's not time. I just don't want to do them. Yeah, yeah. I don't I don't have an interest in Yeah, yeah.

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I did ask me. If you'd get drunk with me once one day. I don't. I didn't ask you to come.

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He might be afterward drinks

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around a bonfire.

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Oh, yeah, I did say that is very silly.

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No, that's not silly. We have a you can see.

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I don't know if you can do

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the marshmallows.

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I do like the idea of like things like whiskey or things that can do this in those heavy losses. Yeah, like the idea of a

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heavy glass. Maybe we can we can go camping. But we'll just

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so you don't get the traditional view.

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I get it. No, I get what you mean.

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I don't think I don't think the right frame is traditional values.

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No, but I think that may be you. You're not like a yet we can not to supply the standard. Okay. Yeah, yeah. And so where can we if I can pull from? Yeah, I don't know what a traditional values is what? Excuse me of a man how to find your family values video. If you ever type in his values and stuff, it gets very

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religious. Yeah,

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it's hard. Because I mean, it's, I mean, yeah, I got I got no interest in the Tinder or clubbing or anything like that. Like I literally like

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a one of the nights. We just sat down for the whole time and just talked,

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which was nice. It was lovely. So why don't you do that again? Yeah, but why not?

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Was this last one?

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Yes. It's not even me trolling. I really, I really wanted. It's like, it sounds like it was fun. Yeah, but you can just do it again and again and again. Like the same person, then that's how like a friendship for

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you. And then it might be you know, more than that. So is there why would you want to do it again with that person? or? Yeah.

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Okay. And so the reason we need a foreigner now,

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don't major.

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I love the song. So let's do that. So what's the so what is it then? So if it's the because the timing thing, like what do you need? Like it's like the whole meditation a day off? Like, how can I do

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audio rather die off? And

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you don't? So never know. What is it really in your head? If you've been trying like radical honesty right now. So I just finished finished a sentence. I haven't gone on another date. Because

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Be honest as you can Yeah.

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I

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so high because I've been I've been trying to trying to figure out what is it? Yeah.

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There. I think there is a little bit of insecurity, but yeah, I don't know. Yeah.

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So like these insecurities, these bigger sort of things. Is it like a specific? Is it a specific thing? Do you think? Like, is it okay, if it is?

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Not? It was it's not it's not worried about getting hurt or anything like that. And that? I think, I think that's fine.

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I don't know. Maybe it's just being uncomfortable. I don't know.

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Did you find the first? Do you think first dates are easier than second date?

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Second,

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no, no, no. You mean you front up, you show up?

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That's the whole thing. It's like a breath. Yeah, I like going on planes only when it's skydiving.

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Now because you've you've

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you've got the analogy.

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You've got you've got your perspective, in your experience from the first one. Like you've got an understanding of what it what it what it was like. So there's a feeling there's less on set. Going into the second day.

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I'm find it very confusing as I go from the perspective of I want to help.

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I don't know if he knows Yeah, I think this is good. Because he might it might click for him. But so

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is what is then if we were to deconstruct it work out the next step.

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Because I feel like smart girl.

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Damn, if you think about it, the the best traction that we've had, with with Mr. 97. Making development is when we do put some level of pressure. And I feel like this is an example of a little bit pissed off at myself, because I took the pressure off. And nothing's fucking happened. And I knew I should have kept the pressure on. Yeah, but it's great guys, but fucking saying, Yeah, let's take the pressure off. And look what happened. Now, I think it's fair, though.

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I think it's a fair report was

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given a talk with me like three months. Yeah,

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ramping it up.

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So the pressure is on. And it's part of content. This is the thing that we talked about previously use the thing they say in radio and all this content stuff is it's the you know, you have to live a life to be able to like have something to share. Yeah, no, that's true. So we'll have to start turning off your mic.

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No days, we got nothing.

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So what's that? What do you think? Isn't it like if you were to reset, and also take out the fact that there's been this massive, long and massive break in time? What do you think? Yeah,

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probably go on a second date. With that individual.

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Yes.

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We can land it because it's been a little while. So you paint. It's been

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very heavy on the soundboard today. Yeah. Okay, that's good. I like that.

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That's cool. That's cool.

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I feel happier.

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What do you think?

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I think it would be good if you can get the second date with this individual because that's going to be the hard part. It's you you disappear for three months and then all of a sudden you come back in Rocky's was from from the female's perspective, I would be if I was a female in that situation, I would be apprehensive. I would be like, well, what will Why are you coming back now?

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He's got this this good points coming in every direction.

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you what you need to do is you need to give her a reason that she can't say no to a second date.

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500 cash? Yeah.

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You missing it. 70. So developed in some ways, like when it comes to cooking and and not eating out. Yeah. But then there's also the underdeveloped thing, which is like going out. And so there's probably something in Okay, let's try like, I think that the next died. How cool would it be if the next night? was at a food establishment? Yeah.

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As a restaurant?

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Yes. I didn't want to scare him.

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with alcohol involved? No, no, welcome. We don't need alcohol. Like we Let's kill one bird with Weinstein with I know that's against the quote. Traditionally, you're trying to hit the two birds. So there's two. I think we just like one for one. Let's get one bird with the one stone. Yeah.

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Okay. As barefoot says, Domino. You did start with a small one. You're very they're

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working with him at the moment. So

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I'm saying?

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No, I love it. I love it.

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Okay, well, so that's good. So on, let's say Thursday. So let's not give it No, she's checked back. What is the SMART goal? What are the what's the rules? It's

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simple. Can you manageable?

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Let's look at the smart No, I think we just base it. I don't know what the SMART goal is. But whatever the SMART goal is, we need to

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work it out now. SMART goal definition.

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Corporate Finance, corporate finance.

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Calm, measurable, achievable, realistic and timely. Okay,

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specifically, what is the specific goal second date? Now that's not specific enough? Yeah, that's I think second date at Nando's is specific. But I'm not going to say Nando's because I'm not going to push were measurable. Now why we're specific. What do you think?

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As in that place, not just you had like a scene.

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The next day it is going to be

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pretend you're producing the shark. That helps.

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Pretend it's a deal. Yeah.

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Because it may

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very well be. I'll do a double date.

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Fucking great idea. I've done a bunch of double dates fun. Let's find so

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much really delve into it.

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It's so good. I

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think it's the right thing I worry about is just the what? That's good. Split bill. Right? No, it's so much better. Do you like that idea? More? Oh, yeah.

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Oh, alright. Specific.

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So we're getting good pushback three day do to get 97 to actually say what he wants? Yeah. So the specific theories. Yeah,

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I hope they got that app where it cuts out the time. Yeah.

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Okay, so measurable. measurable. Once you've gone on the dice, and measure how you feeling? What do you like it not only had the date, but had communications after the date? I know we need a measure, because then it goes into achievable is the date. Is this specific initiative? what he's doing? measurable, measurable is showing up being face to face. thanking the person afterwards.

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Realistic? Is it? Is this

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realistic? realistic? I think so.

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I think so. Absolutely. And timely. We need to put the date to it Thursday,

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too soon.

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I mean, yeah. The thing is, I only want to do it if you want to do it. Do you want to do it?

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I think there's i would i there are other factors involved

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within two weeks, two weeks,

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within two weeks, it depends on whoever it is, if they're right, like we're going to consider their availability.

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For one thing, a FaceTime

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nine at nine.

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And a good old Android.

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FaceTime guys, I tell about you know, some of my early day advice was good get on the blower, like a phone call. You know, it's really fucking confronting for you. Which This is a specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely thing is to call that person that you want a second date with phone call, rattle her she's

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young. And I don't think you need to. I don't like that or that language. Or why you need a writer. Last

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thing I want you to read. Okay, I'm saying a phone call rattles young people sweep

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her off her feet

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outside of your comfort zone and I've fucking my heart be shit I get rattled. But when I call when I've called some girls before,

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again, maybe just text messages.

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text messages, fucking anyone can say I think his whole his

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wire. The one thing I worry about is that it feels like content.

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No, I'm saying do it yourself. Not on the show. Ya know? If you're calling to ask you, that's old school fucking, that's an old school guy will make a phone call and say, Hey, this is Mason. Sorry, I haven't

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spoken to you a bit. Maybe you're not sorry. Maybe like, that's what I'm just a bit confused.

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You can leave me you can just say I wanted to say I know. It's been a while since I spoke to you. But I'd love to take you on a day. Like that's full on. Like that's confronting. It's

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and but that's tapping into what you actually want. 97 right. Because it's like it's not. We don't want we're not giving you a script them communicate. Yeah, what we're maybe just trying to do is get you to tap into actually how you feel and then communicate how you feel

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and what you want.

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Now he's rattled, wouldn't just add anything in his answer. Okay. Well done. So

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to the daily talk show it glad when we come to a show with not much to talk about it because it really

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do we have any other admin admin.

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And I don't really

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know it's very

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well Good. I'm glad we got 25 minutes at you.

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Sorry, three day deal. But we'll we'll sort out your day. Outside of Mr. 97. The Grady motherfucker. Single Day, as soon as he's like the kid in a toy room got him got a toy doesn't play with it at all. He comes over to play with these. It's exactly what Yes. It's another talk show. Hi, the daily talk show.com is the email if you around? I think we may might need to refresh Mr. 9017 box. Give him a little bit more confidence again, in regards to and just not have it. So embarrassing that having all that stuff that so own just sitting there. So maybe start conversations with him next. In the next few days. We've got Andrea clock Korea, yo, yeah, coming on. And I've got a book and it's one that I'm actually reading and enjoying. So that's happening Thursday. Yeah. But otherwise, we'll see you tomorrow, which is Tuesday. See you guys bye.