#230 – Love Languages & Cockpits/

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Wait a minute, cross face.

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conversation, sometimes

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worth recording with Josh Janssen and Tommy jacket to daily Talk Show Episode 230. Monday. Everyone, It's here. It's here. Mr. 97 is here.

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Yep. How are we? Yeah, we're pretty good.

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I'm sorry, I brought you in. So

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it's, it's a 1030 in the morning here in Melbourne. Yeah, in the in the office, I didn't

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have too much sleep last night. Because really, I didn't get home until like, quarter to 12 or 1130 into bed. 12 work out very early. So while I feel it to that, I flew back in from Sydney. And during the day got a text message. Your flight has been delayed. And now you're taking off at 8:15pm. And then that flight was pushed back. So it's a bit of a classic. The fact is, you'd say and but I did I had to store had one story from the trip up there, which I've told you I was going to happen for the podcast. But the second story trumped the first story really, before you do that. Yeah.

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Can you guys guess what time it is in New York City? I reckon it's like 530 5:26pm 6:30pm pm. Yeah, that's a good break, actually, was listening to the show last week? And she said, it's great. I don't understand why you're telling us the time in San Jose.

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Hey, Bry, Norway, but what I do know it would be freezing cold right now. New York. Yeah.

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Because we saw a photo of Seth Godin. He's got to use little. What's it called beanie it To be fair, he's a bald man. So he could be wearing it quite

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recently throughout the year, but he doesn't. As the first time I saw him donning and beanie. He looks very carriage but they're outside and looked freezing. So it's been snowing already over in New York. But this I mean, that's what you want. If you go to New York this time of year, Nick Christmas. You want Snow White Christmas? You want it to look like home alone when you went to New York.

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Have you guys ever done a white Christmas? Never know that type of why?

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I'm so sorry. Everyone

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just said the fly. Yeah,

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the cluster fuck

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fly. gave some goals. So I'm, I've always been on planes. And this is my go to because you don't have reception. If you're not a ball of flying on an airline that has Wi Fi. But even then it's still pretty slow. I couldn't be bothered. And so what my go to is if you ever been on a plane, Mr. 97. Yeah, no one with WiFi though. Okay, so he's not balling.

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Nor am I ready yet here from New Zealand.

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Have you caught? How often do people catch boats? from Australia to New Zealand? Yeah,

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there's a listen to crew

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like a cruise liner out of Sydney takes you to New Zealand. But what that's like

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the Pacific Island. Is that like the Pacific Island travels like you go to travel. All

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right. I met someone over the weekend. And he was from Ireland, Dublin. And he said, He's mom and dad. I said if they come out to visit you? And he said, No, they don't. They don't fly. And I said what do you mean they don't fly? He's like, they've never flown on an airplane. What do you mean? It's crazy. don't even have a passport. And then he said that they don't even have the car like they drive his life. What do they do?

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housebound hermit life?

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No, they're just they're just not adventure. Not. I guess. You can't say you're not adventurous if that's not even your type of adventure. They just don't like flying and so. Yeah.

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Did you go into any specifics about why that I don't like flying? Yes. Some people like those. One of one of my relatives that were afraid of flying because the it was it was because of one of the grandparents was in like one of the world wars and they were in the fire fighter jets. Okay. And they done the fighter jets. Yeah, that's it.

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stems from that

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baby, baby. It's good. Anyway, this plane the so my go to is going through my photos and like deleting them or sorting them. It's just such a goat. Oh, so you're just going through update your iCloud. Yeah, true. But not even like sometimes you want to go through and just delete the blurry ones. Okay. It's a good point. But what I'm where this story is going is I saw a guy doing exactly what I was doing. But he was doing the desktop version. So he was obviously in his eye photo on his MacBook. And so I was watching him he's kind of just going through, I saw him get to a few blurry ones delayed. And then he kind of just opened up full screen. So I was just browsing through. And I'm thinking in fact, I hope something funny can and he's done a little bit. And he's just pressing. I wasn't I didn't want to do it. I just wanted funny until

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cock shot full blank shadows just

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his penis in a hand or a penis in a

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all I saw a fucking laugh.

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He was like he was he was he was in the aisle seat. So if you're looking towards the cockpit, I was

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the one that was on the right, the cockpit was all the way ahead. So I'm on the left side of the plane in the aisle seat. And he was on the right side of the plane in the window seat. And in an exit row where the two people said the middle seat and the aisle were empty. And so I had this line of sight to the call this guy's cockpit and he's swiping there. And I just saying just double speed as soon as

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just trying to get passes. fact, that's outrageous.

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And so do would you be comfortable with me looking at your deleted photos now? Yeah,

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I've got no

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I don't take talk shots are actually just opening up your phone. Because the thing is they don't delete straightaway. They give you 30 days. Don't you look first? So I'm just on Tommy's phone, there's a section that has like people fact they've really they've changed things up so they've got like a media type section in iOS where it's got selfies, live photos portrait. Explain. I'm trying to fucking find this there's a section called Rog.

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Oh, yeah, that was my the hairy chest. There are some photos that I've told you about when we're doing that fits, fits both challenge or the Fat Fat side challenge. And I was just taking some photos of myself in the mirror closed. Actually top off but close. So that's about as far as it goes.

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I've only ever taken before photos. Yeah.

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But when I do it's gonna be great. I don't even know if there's a deleted or

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nothing. I love the daily talk show content.

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Well, I put a lot of it on the computer and then deleted

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there's a photo of full cream milk a Kit Kat mint Kit Kat mint flavor, which I don't know if that's only in Australia, but that's exciting. And crumpets.

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Amy was away and I sent that to her and I said, Look, he's running dinner or something like that.

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That's good. You got the shit avocado and there is a photo of me a video of me doing just a little thumbs up, which is for some reason you decided it was a photo

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that I thought I thought I was thinking about took a video, so I've got nothing to hide. So Jonah, cock shot sending top of God never sent one. Conspiracy Jimmy just looked at Hey, Jimmy, Jimmy, we are needed. I need to get a reaction from you. This is a good time to segue into the email. We got conspiracy, Jimmy, I actually don't want you to say hi, or give anything other than your reaction to something that we were saying. I'll show Mason and James at the same time. Okay, great, and we can get a reaction.

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This is a conspiracy to me that says come into the office. We've never had his voice on we can. In fact, he went to fat Fridays, he started talking about a conspiracy. No one knew that he was conspiracy. Jimmy. He said the reason why he didn't get a BMW is because they can control your car. And it's how

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he wants to respond.

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He doesn't he doesn't exist. It doesn't exist. And the someone was giving pushback on it. And they said, This isn't conspiracy Jimmy's and I said

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and then all of a sudden there was a cloud of smoke

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pull the smoke to stay on. So we got an email from a guy named Andrew in New York and noisy noisy dude living in New York. Yeah. And he actually discovered us through through Matt, Dave, Ella and the minimalist. Anyway, he's actually doing a social media hiatus at the moment. Wait, why off? This is you know how people there was no, is no banking. November is no fat November? No, not November. No, not No. Actually, I had not that gratefully

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really, really masturbate and helps with healthy sperm. It does. So they said,

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you know, go with it. You've got the healthiest fermion around.

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Well, at least conspiracy. Jimmy and I have

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both got children. Okay. Yeah, sure.

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That's what I'm getting. I don't need to prove that we've got a baby.

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Baby data, baby data. All right. So anyway, hey, Andrew goes on to say that he's got a good friend in balance in Victoria. He says that she's been spamming him recently with images of her should I say what it is? Yeah. ingrown toenail. Which if you're not across this within, it's a slippery slope, you ask and you shall receive. Well, literally, we had a review of podcast over the weekend from a guy named Johnny who says five stars. Thanks, Johnny. It's hard to describe this podcast it's funny insightful and thought provoking. I can't stop listening to it. Even if the tone our chat is well random. That's what Johnny said. But anyway, this I think this is going to end me so listening photos. I hope it does because I don't want another photo. I get ready to put the mic on me right. So this is this is this is the photo that was sent to us of the time now.

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Oh.

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sofa bed actually had a few words Eddie. is gone. One of your one of your friends actually said Tommy. def just put mustard on their toe. That is that is a full blown that's all

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you sent me that you sent me it was in our inbox yesterday. You'd opened it

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instead of you saying that. I was a little bit hungover. Yes.

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I need vomited. I said that we're not posting this anywhere. That's

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disgusting.

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It's it does make me feel it's almost like embarrassing bodies. Yeah. Because the reason I guess that we watch embarrassing bodies is because it makes us feel a little bit right

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yeah, I love that show. Dr. Christian the dude honors Yeah, he's like the I made some video about Dr. Christian once in a while I made a video about with my friend we It was like this mockumentary about how we were so obsessed with embarrassing body

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radio don't know this is before

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I life revolved around and then we had like a comments from like, a best friend that in the video was like, you know, that was worried about a friend and yet, Dr. Christian retweeted. One of the funniest episodes I watched though, was when this guy went into the van. And if you don't know, it's like, sometimes I sit up on the streets where there's this big van and like people off the street come in talk about their medical problems. It's all probably produced, and they have people send in, but it's like that traveling around van. And so they do consultations. This one guy comes in. And he shows Dr. Christian, he's an asshole. And he's like, you know, I am. I think it's like leaking.

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I can't like it's always got some poor in there. And he didn't inspection and worked at

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and it cuts the Christian saying he just needs to revisit he's wiping technique.

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And went on national television.

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I remember hearing a story of someone who went to think a nurse was telling me someone went to the hospital because I thought they were having a heart attack and I was just constipated. That is really full on. Dude. That's embarrassing. It is extremely embarrassing, but that does remind me of TV shows that would pop up in different places. For instance, backyard Blitz, I visited a house in endeavour hills where I went to school in the suburb.

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It was in the 90s no 2000s early early 2000s Yeah,

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TV was big and those shows were very they had a lot of cats It was huge artists remember like because you would get an insight so backyard Blitz, how would you describe that show?

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Like one episode they go into a you know, a struggling house I mean the landowner so they don't that struggling but someone who's garden is an absolute shambles, or they've you know, need some help there. And then they should redo the whole garden whole episode very like blokey and wheelbarrows and all right we got some really dial topics here we're going to run these out put a little fanfare name bang, we got a buddy God.

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I know you doing the blokey voice but doesn't sound that like yeah the it's got Jamie jury on it. Oh, yeah. Yeah the

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jury is the what he was in manpower us a stripper? Yeah. Good. synergy between not synergy with got some

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was that you were part of the spunk

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No. company

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that website backup. We could you find it through? No, it doesn't flash.

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Flash website didn't even load. Anyway. All the hot shots.

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I was the Sydney hotshot Sydney hot shots and then went to New Zealand and when we went to New Zealand, yeah,

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so that was

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anyway, do you remember any because we were I remember specifically, we got to peek behind the curtains because it turns out that these characters in the show they don't do all the grunt work. They have all these helpers who come in and do it all. Yeah. And then it's Jamie jury coming in. Like how good is this a bit of Jules land. But have you ever did you ever when you're growing up? have one of these TV shows? Take over? Any Oh, yeah.

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So where we lived, there was a human need into strategy. We used to get things in the mail that was saying like, basically looking for houses to film in for TV shows. And so we'd always every now and then get a letter in the mail. It's like obviously just the letterbox drop some sort of location scouts walking around. But across the road they did they feel something there wasn't sure what was that there's no backyard makeovers in Brighton. Highly commission there weren't on TV. Yeah, it'd be a grand designs in Brighton. Nowadays. There's no back. Yeah. But there was actually a house. Maybe 15 minutes away from where I grew up. I'll dump Derek style house. So a woman used to live in there and ruin

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it. Oh, yeah. Really slammed? Yeah,

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so she died.

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Anyway, it turned out this is the rumor. Or the myth that she left it to this guy that used to just give her a hand with the property. Hi.

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really wasn't doing a good job if he was.

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If it was, yeah.

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It was like an old Derek house. You can't really do much she might mow the lawn. So it was like it

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had a mon mon Yeah.

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It wasn't fully shit. But anyway, he got the house. How amazing is that? So next time you knock back helping your neighbor.

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You never know what you

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never know that you're gonna be the will and receive the whole house.

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The suburb life has a few things have been going on one of which is I'm living at mom and dad for the next month. Yeah. And so I get just got out of jail. She's just

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basically been so

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if you call European holiday

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center, it feels like at times. No. So I'm I get led into things that you would normally Miss like mom and dad's arguments. Yeah. Well, yeah. I mean, you grow up with it. It just is a part of the woodwork. Even if they're not arguing all the time, like it is a deal. Parents are you know, not that much like mom had to bring it to our attention. So we were it was like 830 or whatever was sitting on the couch. Her mom said I'm not talking to Richard, by the way.

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It was the right next

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year. There on his iPad, that's classic scrolling side, there's a there's a difference between what someone would classify as an argument from the outside and what is just, you know, like bickering between the partner Partnership, which is, you know, I think everyone just had slight blow up for dads pretty softly spoken. I remember about four years ago, we went to broom for New Years. And we were asking every I'm watching New Year's resolution, as I sort of do. It's one of my favorite questions, history. That's that that or what's

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your weekend? I'm glad these moved from, what's the highlight of your day at 9am? too? What's the highlight from your week a bit more to pull from?

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I think I did ask my some The highlight of his weekend. But then he handled it straight back to me as if I had an answer. Because I think that because when I ask people yeah, they shouldn't need to first off, you know, but they I feel like they people assume that I'm asking because I've got something exciting. So actually, I

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didn't have that thought this morning. I thought you were excited to tell us something that you thought the process was

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nothing. I got nothing. I got nothing. All right. Well, I've got something.

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Because it was it was a way that Mr. nine seven pitches, he said but what about you? Yeah, yeah, sounds like you've got a highlight. Fuck you talking about? Anyway, the Apple Watch is going that's exciting. I gotta call Magnolia. So we were in Broome, and I was asking everyone what their new year's resolution is. And I would have been so this would have been four years I'd been like 25 Okay. Would have been would have been 2014 Yeah, about four years. Anyway, Dad said not to be a pushover. That's what he was saying. It makes me bit sad, which is quite a bit. The funniest bit was the next morning January one mom said I want to go into a like a little plane ride everything that goes not just Richard. He goes all right.

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Like How's that?

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paint a bit of a picture what he's like, but he was there with the iPad. In fairness, not everyone sticks and then you

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got somebody like yeah, some people are fighting.

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You know, be cravings and stuff. Others are just finding.

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Anyway, so yeah, Mom said no, like, fighting. With Richie. Yeah. The reason was was because over the weekend, they had a Car Club event. It was a Friday, Saturday, Sunday think that's part of the American like muscle car. Bob is here to seek old school youth. Yeah, he's got an Impala as well. That's what they took as well, which is like a it's not a huge so that the one you're describing things in the El Camino is that's beside the author Manos you

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get in touch hard the daily talk show? Yeah. I totally don't ship outside of Australia. the right price will send into the interstate.

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Well, it's a left hand drive car. Yeah. So it would be fun. Not using it in the States. Just

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import export it complicated if they covered it.

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Anyway, so my dad went, so I was wondering what what could this be? And so what it turns out, was was think dad's the president of the Car Club. Bo was his senior. He's definitely on the committee. Yeah, he's definitely high up there. But he made an announcement on the Sunday about the what are they called the AGM is the annual general meeting. And he was telling everyone annual annual Annual General Meeting the AGM. Everyone it's going to be on the 30th of February. I went on to describe it and my mom said at she would she like gasps. But

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that's my 60th birthday.

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So dad has booked the AGM on 60.

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Dad. Yeah, and

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he goes off.

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Boys. He said, I've already I've sent them an email I've got in my proxy vote. And so and I've organized someone so to do the minutes or whatever the fuck goes on. Yeah, but yeah, they, they weren't talking because of that.

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I mean, have they worked out the solution? Because he, in fact that man Yeah, but the real solution is Richie's not

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going to go to the AGM bro. But apparently he they also have some sort of social event which was on the 18th of February. He described the AGM Yeah, and then this this story event, apparently that social event aligns with all the shit that we were meant to be doing for mom's birthday. And speaking of AGM, I hadn't really heard of this being a thing. In it's definitely a thing. I mean, we, I mean, we now don't

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know about until a few weeks ago, but I went to a barbecue. I didn't even tell you the story. And went to a housewarming. Yeah. I mean, I'm Bodie and we got a text from unnecessary they had a Facebook group set up for the BBQ. And on the Facebook group, Amy checked it just to make sure that was all going and it was like we were running late anyway. And on there said, if, if you need a park, there is some around in this streets. Because if you don't want to park out front of the house with all of the Bakkies you can be down there and so we got and I was excited. I want to pack up front the body situation because I was with the kid they, you know, I thought that'd be friendly to us. And so we pull up they've fenced off this whole entire house. And there's two big fucking temporary fence temporary fancy off this like block of apartment block of units. What suburb can you say? I won't tell you because that I don't wanna get killed.

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But it was a suburb. Now the place I

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know knows within base within beta. So there's this temporary fencing all around this house. I took a photo of will show I'm not posting online, just because I wanted to show my brother and what we what we found out was so the fact that front two big guys I got Bodie out and I've sort of like got walkie talkies and shit. So they all in legit it full leathers. It was like a walkie talkie. I can't like I know they're not gonna listen sounds okay. But don't you think it's a little line?

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The walkie talkies

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now the walkie talkie

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is bit I fight guys you know on your bike. Take your jacket off. Yeah,

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I don't think you'd understand it. I've never say that to one of their faces though. Because I

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think it is a little bit like high school. I don't understand your

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dad into this car thing that goes around like childish behavior. Yeah, there's nothing involved but what I think about it is like there's a passion there. And so the boxes that are business as much as you think they're just selling drugs, which they might be but they've also got a lot of businesses so it turns out when I went in I said to the dude whose house want me it was what's going on see the I contacted a friend of mine who's a police officer who then rang around a few other cops and then he said that it is this biker clubs AGM Annual General Meeting AJ yeah I GM so that it was a legit like board may business meeting like I can only think about why Yeah, oh wearing the letters at the table and then it coincide with a Christmas party. That's what he said. So what am I again jumping castles and shit

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It was not Jamaica Really? What sort of shit to that have

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to say no, this is the thing was fleeing close. You can see into the property but it must have been happening so about the back around my thinking was this fencing was in case like another bar he club wanted to come and shoot him up the the

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shit directed by keys to family days like

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they would family wise for their fat like bringing bringing kids to work. Yeah.

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If they're doing games and all that sort of thing I could imagine being like the Falcon insert biker gang Christmas party at Luna Park,

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maybe but it's probably a bit more like they've all got clubhouses and stuff. But the thing is a lot of the dudes who are on the door when I when I went back to the car, because we packed out the front. There was another trooper like another that were different from the first and now friendly is like, they didn't these ones weren't scary ones with face tats and like, you know, big muscles. They just look like dudes who were sort of, like late 40s 50s. And they just, you know, lovely. What do you reckon the appeal is? Its community. It's like a brother. Yeah. Hey, is this something about it? I think it's getting together. Lot of it. Like I know a dude who's a bar he man I think he's dad was. And so there's a you know, it's like generational you think it's like, the thing you should do. And you've never watched Sons of Anarchy really, it's a really good insight. It's probably trivialized. They've, it's very much Yeah, guns smuggling dealing drugs, like turf wars and shit. But it gives you a good understanding of like, how the sort of system works. I loved it. I've watched so many documentaries. There's like Australian biker documentaries, on,

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I think maybe it gets a little bit petty and silly, like turf wars in Brighton or wherever it is.

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100% that it could seem petty, but I don't know. It's like, remove the violence out of it. There. I don't know. Maybe that's why it's when the drugs are involved. And

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it's because they're scary that we're not willing to be like, it's a little bit so you guys have Co Op black. It's cute. Like it's cute. Yeah, it's a cute element or which one you not. We don't sort of talk about Yeah, yeah, I get what you mean. You just wouldn't say? Yeah, like with the Mongols on his forehead. You'd have so many names.

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I'm saying the guy with Mongols tattooed on his forehead.

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Okay. When you were growing up, were you good at? Because you were one of three, three boys. Did you find that when it comes to looking after your mom and get like Christmas presents? who was in charge of like making sure that mom was looked after? Yeah,

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I think maybe it was the same a handful of boys. Mom ends up getting no present. Yeah,

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it wasn't well, so it made me realize when dad did this, you know organizing the general meeting on Monday. It did remind me of Christmas. Like when I was probably like 15. And we asked Mom, what do you want for Christmas? And she said on on nothing. Just Just maybe just like a Suzanne about just give me like Suzanne Yeah, classic. Yeah. And so on Christmas Day, we gave her a Suzanne very

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lovely. I mean, she got what she wanted.

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She burst into tears. Why was she was like she was expecting something to open. She's like you guys just don't care about Did you? Have you ever had any of those? I mean, you're very successful in your mom's a yoga teacher and put

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the gift of life what I cannot remember it my dad buy me a present. My dad has done so much for me. And this is you know, the five love languages.

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He said that again? Sorry. I interrupted you because I was asking is your mama Buddhist? No, she's not. She's not. She didn't told the Zen yoga. Yeah, yeah. What were you just saying about your dad has has never had

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the gift of life. I can't remember specifically from my father a gift not to say he's a bad dad. He are to you to me to me? Or to my mom. Yeah, for that matter. He I there's so the book five love the five love languages? Is one of them taking the bins out of service. Yeah. So there's, can you look up the five love languages? So there's 97 acts of service gifs, quality time, and a bunch of others? And what are these and where I've, and I literally think about this yesterday. I don't fall into the GIFs category. And I don't feel like I'm loved when I'm given gifts. It's just not my love language. Mason if you got them up. Yeah,

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so it's words of affirmation. Yeah. acts of service receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. Yeah.

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So physical touch kind of guy.

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I love affection. 100%. So you can be a blend of should we hug every morning? Definitely not alone. How you? I want

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I get enough for my wife and my baby. But I love Yeah, so you can be a blend of the two definitely not GIFs acts of service is hundred percent my father. So the way my dad shows me love is I don't

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even know if he saw this. Can you show? Can you the love language that you are? Is that the one that you want? So if you are a service guy, you like acts of service? Does that mean that he likes acts of service?

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Now? Not necessarily. It's the way he shows love. But this is where you can go extremely wrong. And that's why this book is so great is because I can understand my dad. And I could understand how he's because I could go he's not telling me he loves me. He's not buying me gifts. But then you can think about he helped me fucking come in on a Sunday and paint the studio. He helped me build some of this wall where we are right now. He built me ranting bloody build me anything as a kid drive. And that's his way of showing I love you.

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It's it's a wish you asked him tonight on the phone as a joke. Can you build Bodie around?

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Seriously? Yes, look, I'll have to work something I will be

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able to record he was at banning trying to work out material. So what do you so what is your love language then? So the love language being the one that you want to receive? Or the one that Yeah, the one? So do the one that you give? I think the one How do you show that you love some? How

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do I show I think words of affirmation, like I and and what's the other quality? No touch, physical touch physical touch him words of affirmation, I think is one like I love being affection to me and showing your lover and telling your lover. And I probably haven't heard I probably need a bit of that from and that's probably my love language. So maybe I haven't read the book in years. But I think maybe you project your love language on to other people, which then you can get in trouble because you're like, well, I'm fucking building you everything. And you know, you know, I think I love you. I built your ramp.

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You know, I can watch you all last night. What more do you want?

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And so it's a good one to understand. So, I don't know, I think that's how I shot but so for instance, my mom is sort of counting had come to grips with the fact that she's probably not getting a gift from my dad. And so what's her lover so my mom's love languages. Suzanne vouch she would probably wanted more thought behind that. So she says that. Here's the problem though. She's tried to get you to crack the Da Vinci Code, because she said that she wants one thing so you've listened. And then you deliver on it. Tick, tick, tick. And she blows up. So she wanted you to be thoughtful and you know, I want to do something for you and so she probably Yeah, she probably wants you to she probably a bit of the gifts thing with some accepts or she was

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very happy on Mother's Day because I I I took a photo. What do you saying to me? I just said amazing how we work out what what someone's love language you can always ask it on Mike it's more confusing when you talk like an idiot. No, but mom was very happy because on Mother's Day I taken a photo. James my brother who lives in the US my brother jack we're all in the same room or park or whatever. Yeah, so we got a photo and then I went to came out and got it printed and put it into a photo. Yeah,

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I see this some thought so

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what? Which one is that?

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I think you can be a blend acts of service. And GIFs Yeah, sure. So you've put in time into something very thoughtful. And I know that's something I need to fucking work on with my marriage and the woman I'm married to understanding

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one marriage had one life love you darling. How does

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how does love language work with business partners?

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Great question that we need to put in to the book. Because I think it plays a part of it like you get on it's understanding someone because I think we're all sort of exchanging love and and being loved is like felt feeling like you cared for or someone's thinking of you. So yeah, it does play into business partnership.

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Mr. Nice seven handling. what's the what's the deal with the love language? Yeah, so there's a there's an assessment online that you can you can take so it's just got a bunch of questions.

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You found a fucking Facebook quiz.

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It's on the official website. Love languages.com. Yeah,

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how many questions? How many questions 33

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Minute.

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still going on Josh? Yeah,

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