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- April 13, 2020
We chat about Tommy’s book Sexual Secrets for Men, ASMR, satisfying things we do and being the big or small spoon.
On today’s episode of The Daily Talk Show, we discuss:
– Sexual secrets for men
– Satisfying things we do
– Being the big or small spoon
– Alone Outside
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It's the daily Talk Show Episode 678
Happy Hour value absolute crocs. What's happening? What's going on?
I was just driving. I just went and dropped some boxes off to the office to put in our Recycle Bin there. Because it was a box fest at our place. And yeah, and it was amazing weather. Like the amount of people. There wasn't that many. There was some happy looking people that were wandering the streets, huh,
Oh, I mean, this little chestnut
sexual secrets for men. Yeah,
I dusted it off. It was in my I just throw out a heap of books. And I had like a my friend gave me it's actually a great idea. Go to instead of buying a card like a birthday card, because they're like, sometimes like three to $10 depending on what you're trying. When you get go to a Go to an art shop and get a really funny book. Like some kind of just out of out of the box looking cover. And so my friend got me this like fitness guy with these big picks out. It was like, and I was like, What are you doing? And he's like, now look at the first page and he just wrote the card in the book. And so I just threw out that one. But on top of that, I actually don't know where I got this one from. But I did have like, random shit, but I thought says I can't throw this out. right this is, this could be your new handbook.
This could be a turn to a random page just
to a random page that had a bookmark in it for me so I could do this. I really this. I just found this fine because I had a quick ahead as quick skim through, getting in touch with your feelings. I can't I can't I cannot emphasise too much how important it is for you to get in touch with your feelings. If you want to have better sex, better sex life. There are many ways to learn to open up your heart and get in touch with your feelings. One such way is Having gummy bears in LA now that's another one such Why is rebirthing you know what that is? serves rebirthing oh rebirthing rebirthing takes the form of a continuous breathing session which can make you aware of deep feelings within you. I wonder if this is you know how you sit I saw this video. It was like a an ad push to me of a session that was running in Abbotsford. And it was that you know what? De Villa does the breathing thing his sister runs those breath work. Yeah, they call it breath work. But this video, it was like it was a promo video. But picture a promo video of just people crying. It was all these people doing breath work, but then the mall just breaking down just sobbing. And so I think that could be what this is.
So, so serious advice.
Oh, yeah, I'll just read you some sort of subheadings Here we go.
Could you could you run through the contents? Just the different chapters? Yeah, let me see if it's just a couple out. So we get out Authors Okay, here we go.
Yeah, number one lovemaking is a spiritual experience to learning to understand women and their needs three heartfelt loving four secrets for a healthy relationship. Five, making love as long as you choose. Number six beyond normal lag orgasms for men number seven practices to use during intercourse a satisfying a woman on every level nine Shakti power, the female force number 10 jewel honouring and the J spot number 11 advanced practices for longer deeper orgasms and number 12 it's not a turn on. There we go.
So my Shakti map has something to do with all of this.
actually buys this book on the Shakti mat also render Jade egg. definitely definitely that three combat anyway also receives alarm. Read tonight K grind.
You were you were telling me that you'd plan something?
Would you plan? Yeah. Oh, well, okay, so we, I put out a Instagram story. The other would have been last week just just saying, Oh, yeah, we're going live on youtube.com forward slash the daily talk show. And Parris from Jason page a reply to the story, saying you could make ASMR videos, I've become calm from this. So I got onto Google and I searched up an ASMR script, and I've pasted it in Trello. If you want to go take a look at it, TJ because we've each got a section of it that I want to, I want all of us to write out
just a question on the icml stuff like
Like to be into ASMR Like how do you establish that like he's she is Paris identify like I'm into ASMR because you hear it a lot it's a bit of a gag like look at Josh you're eating bitchy all these you know see guys would love that or people would just hate it most people do most there are some people that love it but how do you become
felt like you how do you just go nice inside people love it but then you like most people hate?
Yeah I thought about it I was like not the majority definitely hide it. But then there's some that absolutely gives them this George
got access to this as well since I've just sent it to GEORGE Yeah, send it to
George on slack. So if he got a section and ideally we want to run it continuously because it's one script that I've broken down into four sections. And so as as one person finishes, roll on through and just continue writing your bit, okay. All right. Okay. And so
tell us Can you put it all In the comments on the chat on YouTube Live tell us the temperature in the room What are you write
me off. Okay me
yeah but maybe wait till the anyway so anyway so this yeah okay so this I found on a website it's called a script for a happier you okay
here we go
here we go do we know our order
yeah it should I yeah on Trello everyone's got it
now the only thing I'm not sure about is the whispering how do we how we present it?
Well I mean you can you can do what you want but i'm i'm whispering my bit I thought it was just a great
it's calming it's meant to be tough.
Okay, here we go.
Make sure you mics turned up so you wish Okay.
All right good. Okay, here we go. I've been waiting for you know, you're not your perfect good back. I'm very happy to say click, relax.
Let's give you tingles.
You don't have to stay perfectly still. Stay still as you can. Perfect, wonderful. I'm breathing softly into your ear. Let's give you a sensation. Very nice. I like to like it when I
The lotion feels cool on your skin.
Good one Do you have a set
that's perfect. turn towards
feel it moving inside you. Relax. Just let
it go. Here.
It wants to get back in. sticky sticky.
Stay perfectly still.
Your perfect 123 you feel better. Oh my. This is borrowed down deep. Stay still now. Still coming. This one is long. Ah, you're on your way there. We're happy
Stay perfectly still.
I've got it. Do you feel
you feel tingles? Yes
You feel amazing
got actually I think saves gets off of your shit
sticky sticky mean it was
it wasn't my best at it. Yeah you cry you're really
I really enjoyed George
George's very good he's internet connections slide that was annoying yeah but
if that's what you
know just slightly shoot ASMR by saying hi. Would you say if you You like it? Let's just say someone came to you and said, mate, if you just read one ASMR story a nice yeah. And you're sending me the recording. I'll pay you five grand a month.
Or do you do it? Yeah,
yeah, she just sell your dirty
jerseys that kind of shit. No, there's that shit going on, but you sell.
Yeah, I don't know how much for Oh, that would have
saved me Wendy's. No. Oh, no, absolutely not. Not 150
bucks. Still, I might still loud noises
So, yeah, so you would do it like seriously on the icml thing. Like if someone came to you and said, I'll give you five grand a month.
Yeah, do it. You would. Yeah, you
wouldn't do it for 500, wouldn't you? Yeah.
I don't know. I mean, how long the story is just like a minute or whatever. And I was a stripper. I'd do anything for 500 bucks. But
very it varied but yes I've had five going on stuff demandware
What was your use night?
Oh, I made like 1500 bucks one night. Like it's an A but it's not like it's not like scriptures like Papa Paul. It's like different venues different parties. Anyway.
Right man Sam Chairman Rick Sandy's
Mike Gumtree it's so
one bad that he's got these other funny shit.
Have you heard of them only fans? This is like like cameo.
Well, it's closer to like cam girls stuff like it's but here's the thing. I the only reason I'm hearing about it is like lash sucks. That graffiti artist did like a big mural like camp. My only fans anyway and then I saw like this guy Luke, he's this youtuber from up in Sydney big tall dude does prank videos. He's now going out with someone from maps, I think it is and he he's got a My only fans site and he's girlfriends in G strings and stuff like it's, it's it's it's people who aren't like doing porn, but it's like create content creators that are probably sort of posting, you know, racy photos and now making money through selling like a monthly subscription. It's basically Patreon for a bit racier content. Listen to this paid out to creators $600 million. There is a bunch of crepes online, paid out to refer referees. 18 million registered users. Were just fine.
I 10 million That's heaps
who's on only fans.
Like, the thing is April, there was like a chick that like sales had bathwater or something like stuff like that. Yeah,
that that is
this weird shit like that going on. But people are making a lot of money and it's not necessarily like just a porn site right so it's like creators that are doing what I'm saying to use it could be just like access
to some so once a different what's the when does it become script porn? Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, it's like when does escorting become prostitution if it just isn't from dinner? No, but I'm saying if you're like if you're going out for dinner, like At what point and it's a blurry line is what you're saying, Josh, because it's like, one minute you're sending sort of just nip shots and next minute someone's giving you 10 grand to show nip sharp, Shawn, that's a true story that happened to me. quite young. Yeah, Tara Tara
Georgie. Say, I saw a girl this week post it was a news article. I bought my house because of only fans. Like you're reading up on it quite a bit. Oh no, this is the thing I'm bringing up because it's I'm saying Luke that guy post about it I'm saying a news article about it. He can't see anything like you go on the website once you sign up but I want to sign up, bro. Yeah, so on twitter login who What? Who does that?
Yeah, it's pretty striking. They've got a they've got a page on here that tells you see it looks like you can set a subscription price per month. And then obviously then multiply that by the amount of subscribers you have. So that's that's how people can earn money off it. But like even like the minimum it's like 250 bucks a month, which is if you've got 1000
people, the real winner is Timothy starkly. The founder doesn't yet Yeah, yeah. 20 million registered users out of the UK. bizarre.
So it's 20 million people paying cash. It seems like a lot, doesn't it?
20 million. Yeah. I guess users. Yeah, see signing up for somebody.
Bizarre Anyway, I'll be researching this. It's a I mean, it seemed quite legit saves. Can we get you on it doing a nice amount of Yeah. God, yes.
would you would you set up? We just
didn't put it up.
Yeah, that you really lent into that. I think Mike in the sort of spirit of leaning in. That was I was more than leaning in that was completely inappropriate.
It's not typically sexual ASMR right. It's, it's normally just like, really close up. Sounds like a comb and stuff like that.
Yeah, well, can I
just say so i, i there was that one was a bit weird. So I cut a few things out of that one. And it turns out They're pulling bugs out of a person.
What, that's what this is saying is,
that's what this says what they haven't specified, haven't really specified. So you're obviously going, the person's going somewhere. And they're putting lotion on your skin. And then they're trying to get bad bugs out of you. And they're coming out of like your ear and stuff, but I just thought that ruin the vibe of it, so I've removed it.
So it's how it would have gone away. For the majority of people who truly experience ASMR it's not sexual. pleasurable, yes, but not a turn on. It's something pleasurable making its origin in our brains from the pleasure centre. But for people ASMR we do not use these sounds for sexual arousal is that we'd like say, this is satisfaction what in life? I mean, there's a bunch of stuff that says that satisfied
should be back. Ah, oh yeah. Do you mind having your feet touched? What do you guys what do you think?
I mean in what context?
Just like a master foot massage you know people funny massages.
You I don't think I've had it outside of Bali. Like I used to go into it.
But not Yeah, yeah
definitely there is I mean massages,
Joseph, I don't find them. I don't mind it. I don't mind having my feet touch. I don't like having my face touched really, really like just like touching my Oh like stroking my hair. You know people like stroking your hair like to copy down. What
you do if that happens.
Some people crack it
have like a finger in the in an ear. All belly button
brace very funny about a belly button. It's calculating that. Yeah, it sort of becomes like this. Tick, that I'm just sitting still, you know?
There's one thing I like to do. It's quite satisfying. I think I've got it because my dad, my dad has quite viney arms, like he's on the, on the shovel quite a bit, right. And back in the day and I used to, I used to rub my finger over the vine like big one big band. I like, feel it and I was like, This feels so cool to sort of like, push it between my fingers. And then I do it to Amy and she fucking hates it. But like you said, Georgia Tech, like usually Yeah, all of a sudden your fingers in. All of a sudden I'm rubbing Amy's by like your arm, like a little vein on her arm. I found somehow, but it's, it's bizarre. I love doing it to my dad. When I was a kid.
Yeah, I would always brush my mom's here. And she would also she also had this mint lotion I would just like massage your feet and then scrape all the calluses of the foot.
Right. Your mom has You want to get thing going doesn't mean
that he always thought like, oh go too hard. Like I try and get into like, Yeah, it's pretty fucked up but the mean so the mint foot cream sort of yeah hides anything so it seems more sort of clean and
yeah, well the sort of the satisfaction thing people are I mean, a lot of people love popping pimples or then at least watching videos like Dr. pimple popper you love that shit Josh don't you
watch the craziest one the other day? Just Yeah, these are crazy. You can see it. My which side of it what are that side of my nose? I have this like a ploy that always get some filler. Yeah. Like it sort of builds up like say if I'm done a lot of dancing or whatever. I'm sweated a bunch it yeah, it gets clogged. It's very annoying.
Yeah, yeah. A lot of people have that. Yeah, I've got one on my back. What do
you reckon I can do to I guess I could just I need to get some sort of. So Barry's got this fancy face wash that she let me use for the first time the other night. And it smelled like mothballs and she's like, Yeah, I thought it smelled arcanist off. Oh, no, it's fucking disgusting.
That's not good. Yeah, Shannon Shannon said that she hates people touching her in a wrists, my elbows and behind my knees. No idea why, but strange.
Yeah, there's a lot of love. That he says she loves a foot massage but cannot touch other feet. Ooh, how you got service. How are you touching other people's feet? feet?
Yeah, not really.
I got interested.
mean, if the one the one thing like, around like my neck,
like I don't like other people touching no choking.
No, not saying
well, notice Josh but he was strangled as well. Yeah. No, my dad. Yeah. Have I told you my dad. I always Just even now still, I just like I even put my hand on his shoulder. And then all of a sudden trying to grab his neck because he's got some sort of reaction. Like split second reaction. I go up and he's already got his face down. I can get it. I'm like, Man, this is trust to let me hold your throat. It's just sorry David comes up, please let me touch your throat. He won't let me have your throat and I want his throat. I just want to put my hand there and rest it. That's all. Trust that
belly button. There's no need for you to do that.
It's my dad. I want to touch his throat. Just want George to massage Hannah.
How can I say that? Because I tried in flexion it didn't work.
No, not really. I don't really mess out to that much. like playing with toys and stuff. That's fun. What but But
just like just sort of wiggling them
all you love having kids because you can do one little This little piggy went to the market.
Yeah, that's how
I did it. I did it the wrong way. Yesterday everybody pulled me up. No, no, no start down the other end. You get out and then gets a little picky. I fact, I started the little toe anyway. You should do that to Hannah. Little
say bit of that.
That's pretty much what else not. Don't really message that much.
Are you the little spoon a big spoon George.
little spoon. Yeah. Yeah. Like
it's a tablespoon versus a teaspoon but he's just he's got
where he's a little spoon.
The big spoons at the back.
Yeah. And he's Yes, the little spoon.
Yeah. So he's on the inside. Um, so what I'm saying is in real life, he's a tablespoon. In real life Henry's a teaspoon. And yeah, he likes that being a teaspoon and he's just role playing. Because in reality the big spoon is
what I'm more like I go a little bit. I don't I've have a certain way. I like, well hang on my left hand side. So sometimes pretty well actually switch sides so that she can be the little spoon.
Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. I like TJ big. Well, yeah, in in reality, I am a big spoon, but I like being spurned. Like I like being confident from behind.
It is it we're just a, you know, pack of blocks that like to be
confident from behind. It's okay.
It's like I love it.
Sam's I mean, you don't know yet. You haven't worked. I mean that we might find it in the book. We might. What could you set? Like, let's just pull on any experience. So you hadn't dish NASA in your bed?
what would you like to hold?
I think I think I prefer to be the big spin potentially. Whoo hoo.
That's a real man, man, but I've rarely experienced it with the dogs.
Yeah, it was quite cool.
For you can't tell. I can't allow me to get the fuck out of the big body of a Schnauzer. That's
gonna do the tick tock that I sent you, tj.
Oh, yeah, I mean, Bodie is an absolute Savage. And I don't know how he's gonna go. He's been pretty disobedient this weekend. He we called him into chocolate. I don't know where they really found it. It's a next level. The kid has just got a snout on him sniffing out chocolate. So it's a real issue anyway are we found another sorry we found in the inner walking cupboard in our walk in wardrobe. Found I think all these rapids he'd been in there too and eating chocolate.
Have you thought about taking into like the oval and getting him to do the Sprint's
we were early today? He did actually come to think of it. That's why he was he was just sprinting. I don't even have to ask him to. I think it's the sugar.
You're right. You just need to get the energy out of him.
Yeah, just need to burn that sugar.
Shannon says I have the biggest bed possible and can't stand people touching me. When I'm trying to sleep, my kid my partner, etc. Absolutely. Don't touch me. Not even a pinky finger. What about
just a cat? Oh, Shannon like just do you do? Is there a time a cut off? like can we just cuddle and then you go to sleep or is it like in the bed? No cuddling? It's only for sleeping. It's very just practical. You know?
George, do you wake up in the middle of the night?
Not not that often. I'm pretty good sleeper. I've always been a really solid sleeper.
When I was a baby
a little bit lately, I've been waking up in the middle of night because I live with the podcast. Just roll over it because that usually I wake up because I've had my headphones in. And the cords tangling everyone. I'm rolling over and stuff. So take it out, plug my phone into charge, and then
fall asleep again. Maybe I think Hannah would like to listen to a podcast to some loudspeaker.
But I think that probably
she's calling the shots right?
You're listening to could you not find something you both live
now cuz she's the football slate just like a normal person. Maybe she did a
crunch now like do you need it to fall asleep Georgie boy.
Now I don't need him to fall asleep. I just enjoy it. And just like the feeling of just dozing off
two out of seven nights a week how many of you listening to something
Alright, good night maybe. Pull. It's a lot. Okay.
Yeah, I'd add a seven. We've found brain. I've found a good audio book that we're liking at the moment about North Korea. So I'm listening to that.
Is it doc? Like, is it not a lump striking? It's a love story. That's not Yeah, real it's true. Yeah, that's true. fiction or nonfiction Which one is it?
It's all made up
that was a great time. That was a great day I got I got some news Campbell Rambo Campbell is currently working on a fun video to help people pick it's gonna be like a videos of encouraging people to sort of jump on the waggon and tell us what you think. Friday Night drinks should be. So Young Campbell's added again gonna come through with the goods.
I always pumped George's pumped I've decided to do my walk this evening rather than doing the morning walk because all the light starting to look the same obviously because of the morning so I thought sunset or just beforehand,
may it's gonna be beautiful. It's gonna be lovely night for a little walk and photo session should head towards Fitzroy gardens as our end of gathering Get on.
Yeah, sure. I think so. fits right into the right spot. jasna says my fiance hands me over the earphones when you grumps come on and says really woman again? Long ditch? Yeah, yeah. Right.
Yeah. All right.
Good one with the ASMR sames. That was That was fun. glad you enjoyed it.
Yeah, I'm, I'm hot and heavy.
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Now were compromised. Who is it? I know it's really Pat.
Yeah. Philippe who was on the zoom dream See that? I thought,
oh man, he's a man from Brazil. He didn't answer the question gronk one knows.
What was that? Who tagged me in that?
Brazil pesos may grab? What?
Can you just explain what was that post?
So it was a it was a news story story about in Brazil. dick pics have sort of gone viral. There's a big competition. And so I tagged Gemma because she is well known to absolutely hate dick pics. Yeah. Did that get lost? Yeah, she did like five times. On the show, I know Yeah, it was from this show account. You know, I did it from the show account.
It's okay. You can that's fine. I was just I was really confused. I didn't find that. Yeah, I didn't connect the dots. Now,
George, do you connect the dots? Because says no. You just told
him you just told me I get
it. I get it now. I didn't actually add this. It makes sense. Oh, good.
So talk tomorrow, guys. Have a good one. See you tomorrow.